Kutheni uthando lwalubizwa ngokuthi uthando?

Kutheni ucinga ukuba uthando lubizwa ngokuba yothando?

Iimpawu zengqondo ekhethekileyo yengqondo, i-whirlpool yeemvakalelo, umnqweno wokukholisa kwaye ujabule. U-Romance uphendulela ubomi bethu kwiholide kwaye yenze ibe lula ngakumbi kwaye iyanelisekile. Uthando kunye nothando zimbini iingcamango ezingabonakaliyo komnye nomnye, uthando lubizwa ngokuthi uthando. Uthando ngaphandle kokuthandana alukho imvakalelo ecacileyo, ukuzonwabisa kunye namava amnandi. Uthando nothando lunikeza inzoliseko ebusweni bakho ebomini.

Ulwalamano kulwalamano lukuvumela ukuba udibanise ubudlelwane, ekugqibeleni lupholile kwiinkinga zemihla ngemihla, ukuzisa inqaku elikhunjulwayo nelingakukhunjulwa kwi-grey routine.

Ukuba luthando lithetha ukuzama ukukholisa esinye isiqingatha kwaye ubonise uthando lwakho. Emva kwakho konke, xa uthanda, uphupha ukubona umhlobo wakho evuya.

Xa ulwalamano luyalala phakathi kobudlelwane, kukho iingxaki ezininzi. Umzekelo, ukuxabana, ukunganeliseki, ukuphikisa, ukuhlukana. Ukungabikho ngqalelo kwiqabane lakho kuwe, akukho ukuxhamla nobudlelwane kunye nomnqweno wokutshintsha into ethile, okanye ukuphula umanyano wakho.

Emva kwakho konke, akukho nto ilula kunokuba unikele umntu othandekayo ixesha elithile lovuyo, ebonisa ingqalelo kuye. Yintoni oyifunayo, umzekelo, ngeveki ukubonakalisa ukumangaliswa okancinci - isidlo sasekuseni embhedeni okanye ukuthatha ibhotile yokuhlamba kunye? Ndikholelwe, umgudu omncinci, kwaye uya kukukholisa kubo bobabini.

Namhlanje, ubudlelwane obusekelwe othandweni nabangenalo uthando luyakhelwe kwizinto eziphathekayo. Enyanisweni, wonke umntu kunye nakubantu bonke kubalulekile ukuba bazive bekhuselekile ngokwezimali kwaye baqiniseke ukuba intsapho ayiyi kuhlala ilambile. Ukubonelela ngempahla yentsapho kwaye unike zonke izibonelelo onako ukuzenza-ukubonakaliswa okubonakalayo kothando ngexesha lethu. Kwakhona, uthando ngabaninzi ubulili obuhle, ukuqonda kunye nentlonipho. Ngamanye amaxesha - uthando ngumkhuba.

Konke oku ngasentla, unakho kwaye kufuneka ukuba ubangelwa ulwalamano oluthandwayo. Kodwa, kufuneka uvumelane, xa indoda isoloko ixakekile emsebenzini, kodwa ngexesha elifanayo unayo yonke into onokuyinqwenela ngayo-into emangalisayo! Ngenxa yoko, ukukhathalela, uyabonisa uthando kunye nokunyamekela. Wena, ngokuphindaphindiweyo, bonisa uthando kumlingane wakho ngokunyamekela ukubonakala kwakhe, isimo sengqondo - ngelizwi, uyakha isidleke sothando ngawo onke amandla akho. Zonke zifanelwe.

Kodwa, ngokugqithiseleyo kwexesha, kwenzeka into ebudlelwaneni bakho. Kukho ukunganeliseki kubangelwa ukungabikho kwengqalelo. Kubudlelwane bakho, ukufudumala, uthando kunye novuyo lokuchitha ixesha kunye kunye. Izinto eziphathekayo zifikile ngaphambili. Yonke into ibhekiselele kwindlela yokufumana amanqatha kunye nokufezekisa imeko ezinzile.

Kodwa, namhlanje, sikhohliwe ukuba ukubonakaliswa okwenyaniso kothando kukuphi. Ngoko ke, ngokuqhelekileyo unokuva ukuba uthando lubizwa ngokuthi uthando.

Uthando lubonakaliso luthando olukhululekileyo kwizinto eziphathekayo. Indawo yokuqala ibambelele ngokusondelana ngokomoya, ubudlelwane obuphakamileyo phakathi kwabantu abanothando.

Akukho mntu ukukubiza ukuba ulibale ngemisebenzi yakho kuluntu, kwintsapho nangomthandayo. Xa ubudlelwane bezakhiwe kuphela kwi-romance, ngoko, njengokuba kungenanto encinane, ngexesha elifanelekileyo iimvakalelo zihamba ngenxa yokungahlali kakuhle kwezemali.

Ingcamango encinane, umnqweno wokwenza uthandeke kakhulu-kwaye uya kufumana ukuhlwaya okungenakulibalekayo okuhlwaya kuphela okuza kuqinisa amandla olwalamano lwakho.

Uthando nothando luba negalelo ekuhlanganisweni kweentliziyo ezimbini zothando, ukukwazi ukulibala malunga nokunyaniseka nokuzicoca kwilizwe lakho-kuphela lakho!

Libale ixesha ohlala kuyo kwizinto eziphathekayo apho yonke into ithengwa kwaye ithengiswe. Uthando Lwenene alukwazi ukuthengwa nayiphi na imali!