Izinto zokwesaba kwabantwana

Iingcali zengqondo zijonga ingqondo yokuqala yomntu ukwesaba. Emva kokudlula kwidolobho yokuzalwa, umntwana usamkela izinto ezimbi. Izinto zokwesaba kwabantwana zihluke kakhulu kwaye zixhomekeke ngqo kwizinga lophuhliso, ukucinga, ukuvakalelwa kwengqondo, ukukhathazeka, ukungaqiniseki kunye namava okuphila komntwana.

Izinto ezinobungqina bentsapho obuhlobene neminyaka

Phantse bonke abantwana baxhomekeke kwimoyiko enxulumene nobudala. Sekuqaleni kwiinyanga zokuqala zobomi, umntwana uqala ukwesaba izandi ezibukhali, ingxolo, abangaziwayo. Ngoko ke, kubalulekile ukudala umoya okhethekileyo kweli xesha lokuphila. Kukho kuxhomekeka, nokuba uloyiko lweemvuthu luza kuphuhliswa kwixesha elizayo, liba ngumxhala, lande okanye umntwana uya kukwazi ukunqoba ngoku ngoku.

Xa umntwana emva kwezinyanga ezi-5 into ephambili yeentlanzi zihlala zingamazi. Kwakhona, abantwana beli lizwe banokubakho ukwesaba kwimeko ethile engavamile, xa bebona izinto ezingaqhelekanga. Kubantwana beminyaka engama-2-3 ubudala, izinto eziloyiko zihlala zizilwanyana. Kwaye emva kweminyaka emithathu abantwana abaninzi baqala ukwesaba ubumnyama kuba ngeli xesha banokuphuhliswa ngokukhawuleza kwengcamango.

Ngokuqhelekileyo izinto zokwesaba kwabantwana zingabalinganiswa obuhle. Ngokomzekelo, abenzi bemimoya, uKoschey the Immortal, Baba Yaga, njl. Ngako-ke, akukho mzekelo kucebise ukuba uxelele amabali amabikayo, ukuvumela ii-movie ezibukeleyo ezingafanelanga ubudala, kwaye nangaphezulu - awukwazi ukuyikwesaba abanye oomama babantu, ama-militiam, njl. ngeli thuba ukuba ube nomntwana ngakumbi ngesisa. Ngokuqhelekileyo khumbuza uze ubonise umntwana ukuba uyamthanda njani kwaye uyicacise ukuba nantoni na eyenzekayo, uya kuhlala umkhusela.

Ngokubanzi, ukwesaba kwabantwana kubonakala kwiminyaka engama-3-6. Nangona kunjalo, ukwesaba obuntwaneni kunokuba yi-alamu efihliweyo. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, ukupheliswa kwento yokwesaba akupheli imbangela ye-alamu.

Kwixesha elidala lokufunda esikolweni, ukucinga okungabonakaliyo kuqala ukuhlakulela ngokunyanisekileyo kubantwana, umqondo wobudlelwane, ekhaya, ixabiso "lobomi" lenziwa, ngoko inani loloyiko lwezingane luba lukhulu kwaye lukhulu ngakumbi. Umntwana usenokuba noyiko lwempilo yabathandekayo babo, ukwesaba ukulahlekelwa nguwo. Kwintsapho, ukwesaba kwabantu abadala kudluliselwa kumntwana. Ekubeni kubakho ukwesaba kubazali, kukho ukuphakama okuphezulu kwezinto ezitsha zokwesaba kubantwana. Ngako oko, zama ukugcina uxhaphalo olusondeleyo lwemvakalelo nomntwana wakho.

Into eyoyikisayo kumntwana ingabangela ukungqubana phakathi kwabazali. Kwaye umntwana omdala, ukwanda kwengqondo kwakhe kwandisa. Ungazami ukuxabana nokungafungi phambi komntwana. Kule ntsapho apho umntwana eba yinto ephazamisayo yokukhathazeka kwabazali kunye nokukhathalela, ukwesaba umntwana akuvumelekanga ukuhambelana neemfuno zabazali.

Ekuqaleni kokuya esikolweni, abantwana banomdla wokuxanduva, umsebenzi, umsebenzi, owenza imiba yokuziphatha yomntu. "Ukwesaba koluntu" kunokuba yinto yokwesaba. Umntwana unokwesaba ngenxa yokwesaba ukugwetywa okanye ukuhlawulwa, kungekhona ngabo baxabisekileyo, bahlonishwa kwaye baqondwa. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, umntwana uyazibeka esweni rhoqo, uxinzelelo lwengqondo. Into yokwesaba kubantwana ingaba namanqaku amabi esikolweni, ukwesaba ukujeziswa ekhaya. Zama ukungamangazi umntwana, kodwa ukumnceda ukuba anqobe ukwesaba. Ukuxhasa ukuzithemba komntwana, ukwandise ukuzithemba.

Iintlekele zemvelo ezahlukahlukeneyo (izikhukula, umlilo, iqhunyana, inyikima, njl njl) ziba zizinto zokwesaba kwabantwana. Zama ukubuyisela uxolo lwengqondo lomntwana, ukuzola, ukuhlaziya umqondo wokhuseleko.

Umntwana ngamnye unokufumana into yakhe, yinto ethile yokwesaba kwabantwana, ngoko-ke, jonga ngakumbi umntwana wakho, thintela imeko yongquzulwano.