Uneminyaka eyi-15-17 yobudala, unyana okanye intombi ikhethile ngokukhethekileyo indlela yokwenza umsebenzi, sele sele bevela kwiklasi yokuqala kufuneka baqonde oko bakufundayo. Kwaye ishishini lethu kukubanceda kule nto. Indlela yokwenza umntwana afunde kakuhle kwaye kufuneka yenziwe ntoni kulo?
Ukufundisa ngentshiseko
- 6-7. Ndixelele ngokubanzi ngesikolo: njani, yintoni na ukuba bafundisa ngaphi iminyaka; ngaphezu kweeklasi zakudala ezahlukileyo kuncinci; ukuba isatifikethi sokukhula. Bonisa iindlalifa zeencwadana zesikolo, idayari, iileta, izatifikethi. Apha uya kubona ukuba unomdla ntoni olu lwazi oluza kubangela abantwana!
- 8-9. Umntwana usabuswa ngokucinga, ngokusekelwe kumfanekiso obonakalayo. Ngaba ufuna ukumfundisa isifundo? Hlela uhambo olusuka kwi-factory ye-confectionery, kwi-ofisi yepostile, kwisebe lomlilo, kwesa kubhenyara yophando - ayiyi kuba nomda wokuzonwabisa.
- 10-11 ubudala. Ndifuna ukuba, ukuba umntwana ukhetha umsebenzi oza kulindeleka ukuba uphumelele, kwaye oku kuyimfuneko ukucacisa ngokuthe tye ukuthambekela kwakhe. Ekubunjweni kwabo umnikelo omkhulu wenziwa ngumbumba. Dweba ndawonye umthi wobugcisa wosapho lwakho. Iyakwazi ukulandelwa izithethe zentsapho kunye neengxaki ezingalindelekanga. Ngokomzekelo, kwinqanaba le-mother-already 4 izizukulwana zootitshala. Omnye umkhulu-makhulu wayefundisa kwisikolo sangempela. Umkhulu-kayise uyise wayephupha ekubeni ngumakhi wezokwakha, kodwa imfazwe yavalwa. Uhlalutyo lwenzuzo yentsapho. ukhetho luya kunceda ukubona ukuba ziphi iitalente eziqhelekileyo kwintsapho, leyo umntwana angayifumana ilifa. Kodwa ukunyamekela kwindoda ("akuyi kubakho nabathengi kwiintsapho zethu", "kuphela imfundo ephakamileyo") yingozi!
- 12-13 ubudala. Umntwana osemncinci unikezwa ngcamango yoko kuthetha ukuthini ukuphumelela. Ngoko, lixesha lokuba uchaze ukuba yintoni umsebenzi, isikhundla, iziqinisekiso, ukukhula kwamathuba emisebenzi (kubaninzi, umzekelo, ukumangaliswa kukuba umongameli uyithuba, kungekhona umsebenzi). NgezoBomi ukuya kwezobugcisa, kungekhona umsebenzi wokufunda. Umnqweno wokuba ngugqirha olungileyo okanye umqeshwa osesikweni esiphambili unempilweni enempilo kunokuba umnqweno wonk
Amalente kunye nabalandeli
Amandla awasoloko ebonakalayo. Kakade ke, umgudu womculo uvame ukubonakaliswa kwi-kindergarten, kwaye ukukhutshwa kweelwimi kunye nemathematika kulula ukubona ngexesha lokufunda. Kodwa indlela yokuchonga amandla okulawula, yintoni eyobonisa umthengisi wayo ozayo, i-akhawunti, i-pharmist? Ukuze unyana okanye intombi yakho ibonise iitalente ezifihlakeleyo, kufuneka bahambe "inqununu yenkululeko." Zama ukwenza ishedyuli yesiqingatha sesibini semini ukuze emva kweeyure iiyure zomntwana zingabanjwa. Qaphela oko akwenzayo "ngomphefumlo." Kodwa musa ukulibala: ngenxa yokuziqonda, sifuna zombini kunye nengqondo. Ukuba yonke ixesha lokukhulula umntwana uhleli phambi kweTV okanye udlala kwikhompyutheni, mhlawumbi oku kukubonakalisa ukukhathala. Ukudibanisa neeklasi, ukugxininiswa yimfundo eninzi kuninzi kunokuthintela abantwana banamhlanje ukuba bavakalise amandla abo. Ukongezelela, wonke umntu unesabelo esiphezulu samandla kunye nomoya. Omnye umntwana udibanisa kalula isikolo kunye necandelo lezemidlalo kunye nemisebenzi eyintandokazi kwiklabhu yezokhenketho. Omnye ukhathele kakhulu esikolweni ukuba amandla anele ukuhamba kunye nokwenza izifundo. Omnye uya kukukhusela ngokukhululekileyo ithuba lokwenza oko akufunayo. Kwaye umntu uya kuhamba malunga nabazali bawo kwaye uya kuhlupheka ngokuthula ...
Yiba ngumfundisi
Unokufumana njani ubuchule obufihlakeleyo? Abazali, ngokulandela isiqhelo esiqhelekileyo nesilungeleyo "isikolo somculo weplastiki + sigaba sezemidlalo + solu hlobo", ngokuqhelekileyo sithintela indima yoluntu lokudala abantwana ekulungiseleleni abantwana ukuze baqhubeke nemfundo kunye nokukhetha umsebenzi. Kodwa kwimijikelezo yenzalo, apho kungekho nkqubo efanelekileyo kunye nokuvavanya, kudala umoya okhethekileyo obonakalisa ikhono lomntwana. Ukongezelela, kwiminyaka eyi-11 ukuya ku-12, abantwana baqhelanise neengcinga zontanga, igunya labantu abadala liyancipha ngokukhawuleza. Kwimijikelezo, abafana bavuleka nomdla komnye nomnye, bafikelela kubantu abaphucula. Kwakhona kubalulekile ukuba kukho iindidi ezininzi, ungakhetha. Isiko sobumba babantwana, njengokuba kunjalo, sibonisa ihlabathi lezakhono kwi-miniature - ukuthunga kunye ne-ornithology, iilwimi kunye neenkwenkwezi, i-aeromodelling kunye neefoto ... kwaye makungakhathazeki ukuba emva kokugqiba iminyaka emininzi kwisangqa esinye, umfana uya kuba ngenye indlela. Ezi zizame ukuzifumana. Ngokumalunga nokukhupheka kunokuthiwa kwimeko apho oku kwenzeka 2-3 amaxesha ngonyaka.
EYurophu naseMerika ngamakhulu eminyaka kukho umqeqeshi womqeqeshi. Umqeqeshi kwiyunivesithi yesiNgesi ngumntu osinceda umfundi ukuba aqonde iinjongo zemfundo (umzekelo, ukuba abe ngutitshala okanye ukuba enze inzululwazi eyisiseko), ukubeka indlela efanelekileyo yokufundisa kwaye, oko kubaluleke kakhulu, ukuba kuyimfuneko, ukuyihlengahlengisa. Ngoko kufuneka ube ngabafundisi kubantwana bakho. Kuthetha ukuzazi wena kunye nokunceda ukuqonda iimpawu zomntu ngamnye: izixhobo zomzimba kunye nengqondo, amandla okusebenza, inkumbulo ekhethekileyo, iitalente ezizodwa: umculo, usebenze, ubuciko ... Ukuba ngumfundisi kumntwana wakho kuthetha ukusebenzisana nemithombo yoluntu. Umzekelo, umntwana ufunda iincwadi malunga nezilwanyana ezinomdla, azijonga ngeeprogram, ukhangele i-beetle nganye endleleni. Buza ukuba ziphi iikomishi ezifanelekileyo, hamba "ngokuzihlola", uze ummeme ukuba abe khona kwenye iseshoni yabasemagqabini bemvelo. Nguwe omele uxelele umntwana oneminyaka engama-13 ukuya kwe-14 ubudala oqala ukuzibuza ukuba uza kuba yintoni, yintoni isayensi yenzuzo. i-orentology, kunye ne-psychologist-umcebisi weengcali unokunceda ekukhethweni kobugcisa kunye neziko lemfundo ekufundiswa kuyo. Fumana apho ungahlolwa khona uze ufumane iingcebiso kumcebisi, uye kuye kumntwana, ukuba ukhululekile nawe. Kwaye, ke, phulaphula ukubonakala kwaye uxoxe ngolwazi olufunyenweyo. Uncedo lwakho kuphela kufuneka luhlale luncedo, kwaye ungabi ngumyalelo.