Ngokuqhelekileyo thina ngokwethu siphazamisa ukuphunyezwa kwamaphupha ethu, sicinga ukuba akunakwenzeka. Kodwa into yonke inokwenzeka! Iminqweno yabo imele ihlonishwe, kwaye ukuphunyezwa kwayo kunokwenzeka kwaye kuyimfuneko ukusebenzisa iindlela ezahlukeneyo nezindlela. Mhlawumbi, inkolelo enyanisekileyo kwimimangaliso eya kubancedisa ukuba izaliseke kwaye ibe yinyaniso.
SimoronIngundoqo yolu qeqesho, eyakhiwe ngo-1998 ngabalingani beengqondo, uPetra noPetrus Burlans, kukunceda umntu atshintshe ukuziphatha kwakhe ngokuqhelekileyo aze anike ithuba lokuphucula ubomi bakhe. Isiseko sendlela ihleka, iqhube imida yezinto ezinokwenzeka kwaye iguqulela abantu abaqhelekileyo ukuba babe ngabalimi. Kodwa kubalulekile ukufunda indlela yokwenza izifiso ngokulungileyo! Umzekelo, ukuba ufuna umthandayo ekugqibeleni akunike umnikelo, musa ukucinga malunga nokuba kuya kuba nzima kangakanani ukuba simenzele isigqibo kwili nyathelo, jongani kulungile: phupha ngekamva lakho kunye, umtshato ovuya kunye nohambo oluya kwiiqithi eziqhelekileyo. Kwavela? Ewe, ke sekuyisikhathi sokuqala esinye sezifundo.
Ukubhalela kwihlabathi
Uya kuyidinga imvulophu, iphepha elihle lephepha kunye nepeni: siya kubhala incwadi yangempela kwi-Universe! Yithi, uze uxelele ngokucacileyo kwaye ucingisise ngeminqweno yakho ebalulekileyo. Chaza elowo kubo njengokungathi sele sele lizalisekile, kwaye uchaze ngokucacileyo malunga noluphi uhlobo lweemvakalelo ozifumanayo ngale nto. Ngekamva elizayo, khuluma ngezinto zonke nje ngoku. Ungalibali ukubulela ihlabathi ukuba kukunika uvuyo olukhulu, kwaye uqedele umyalezo wakho ngamazwi: "Yibani njalo." Ngoku gcwalisa iinkalo ezifunekayo kwi mvulophu: i-addressee yakho "I-Wish Wish Materialization Department", kunye nekhompyutheni ethi "I-Adverse Refer" ikho ngokwaneleyo ukubhala igama lakho. Imvulophu ephantsi kwibhokisi leposi elisondeleyo - kwaye ulinde impendulo kwindalo yonke.
Umdlalo weMicyo
Thatha ibhokisi eliqhelekileyo leemidlalo, limboze ngephepha elibomvu kwaye ubhale ipeniti ebonakalayo ebonakalayo emacaleni omabini: "Umdlalo wemilingo". Ngoku unakho kwisandla somlingo: ukuze ukhawuleze ukuzaliseka komnqweno, kwanele nje ukubetha umdlalo kwaye, ngelixa livuthayo, ukuba uzixelele ngephupha lakho.
Ngaphantsi kweengubo
Isithethe esihle siza kunceda abo baphupha impilo enhle okanye uthando olutsha. Ngoko, phezulu efulethini into ephantsi kwesisu sombala obomvu iya kuba, ngokukhawuleza umnqweno uya kuzaliseka. Iingqumbo ezibomvu kufuneka ziphose ngokoqobo umsila: ukuma emva kwakho, tshela umnqweno ngexesha langoku ("Ndicebile") kwaye uphonsa i-bikini!
Ukubonakalisa
Ukubonakaliswa kwengqondo kwisimo sengqondo yendalo yokudala imifanekiso okanye imeko ezingekaze zenzeke. Ngamanye amagama, umntu ucinga inkqubo ethile, ngenxa yesiphumo esifanelekileyo. Kungcono ukucinga kuphuhliswe, kulula ukuyiqonda le ndlela kunye nokuphumeza iziphumo ezifunayo. Imithetho yokwenza izifiso zifana ngokufanayo: cingisisa ngethuba langoku, ungavumeli iziganeko ezimbi. Kukholelwa ukuba ngelo xesha "ukucamngca" imida yokunyuka kwengqondo kwaye umntu ukhangelele inzuzo kuye.
Kwenziwa njani oku?
- Qinisekisa oko ufuna ngokwenene kukho konke. Ukuzaliseka komnqweno okhethiweyo kufuneka kube yinto ebalulekileyo kuwe!
- Xa kunokwenzeka, cinga into enomnqweno. Ukuba uphupha ngemoto entsha, cingisisa yonke into: ziphi na izibuko eziza kuba nazo, ziphi izihlalo, ibhokisi lebhokisi, umbala, indawo yokupaka nokunye okunjalo.
- Qala ukujonga imoto yakho ezayo. Hlaziya, cinga ngezinto ezintle, uphonsa entloko yakho konke ukungathandabuzeki, ukwesaba kunye neengxaki. Ngoku kufuneka ukhululeke ngokusemandleni akho. Yibone ngeso lengqondo umnqweno, ungalibali iincinci ezincinci. Apha uphuma endlwini, vula umnyango uze ungene kwimoto oyikhonzile. Ziva uvuyo lokuzifumana ngokupheleleyo - oku kumangalisa kwivili zakho, kwaye oku kube ngonaphakade!
- Uhlala uvumela ukuhamba komnqweno wehlabathi: Yeka ukucinga malunga nokuba kuza kuzaliseka nini kwaye, ukuba kunokwenzeka, zama ukulibala malunga nephupha lakho ngokupheleleyo.
Le ndlela ifana nokubonakalisa, kodwa umgaqo wokusebenza kwayo kulula. Ukuqinisekiswa kwengqondo kwisigwebo esifutshane (ifomula yomlomo), ukuphindaphinda okudala engqondweni zethu isimo sengqondo esithile kwaye ngoko kushukumisa utshintsho olulungileyo. Kodwa ukuze le mihlambhalo yesandi ikuncede ngokwenene amaphupha agcwaliseke, kufuneka enze ngendlela ekhethekileyo. Ibinzana lakho lemilingo kufuneka libhekiselele kwixesha langoku, akufanele liqule i-particle "engeyiyo" kunye nokunye ukungabikho kwamanye amazwe, makube yinto ecacileyo kunokwenzeka kwaye uvelise uvuyo xa ushiwo, umzekelo: "Ndiyaziqhenya ngokucwangciswa kwam!" Kungcono ukuqulunqa amabinzana akho achaza kuphela iiminqweno kunye neemvakalelo zakho . Kucebise ukuvakalisa ngokuzwakalayo (nge-whisper), kodwa ukuba akunakwenzeka, ungabhala phantsi, uthi, amaxesha angama-50 ngokulandelelana kwincwadi. Yaye khumbula, ukuqinisekiswa omnye kuyomnqweno omnye!
Iphupho leBhotile
Enye indlela yokutsala ubomi kunye nokufunwa - ukugqoka amabhonkco kunye neentsimbi eziguquguqukayo - imihlobiso kunye neentsimbi. Iqela ngalinye lomhlobiso lifanekisela iphupha lakho langempela kwaye, njengoko kucatshangelwe, kuya kunceda ukuba lizaliseke. Unethemba lokuba kunyaka ozayo uya kuhamba ezininzi-cela i-bead ngesimo sezindiza njengesipho, ufuna ukufumana isipho esilinde ixesha elide lesandla kunye nentliziyo ngokukhawuleza kunokwenzeka - khetha imihlobiso yothando, uthenge izindlu - .
Ukugcoba
Le ndlela yasendulo yayisetyenziswe ngabakhulukazi. Sekudala isiqunto sithathwa njengesifundo somlingo, esinokubaluleka ngokulinganayo, kwaye siyingozi. Ngokomzekelo, isibonakaliso sasendulo sithi xa ugoba izambatho kuwe, ungangena "ngodaka" imemori yakho. Iingcali zokugcoba "umlingo" ziyacetyiswa ukuba ziqale isiko kunye nenyanga ekhulayo kwaye, ukuba kunokwenzeka, yenze yedwa.
"Indlela Yokufuna"
Ukuqhawula umtya omude (kufuneka ube ngokwaneleyo ubuncinci bee-stitches ezingama-40) kwaye, ukufakela kwinaliti, thanda umnqweno wakho ngokuvakalayo. Ngomhla wokuqala ufuna kuphela ukukhangela enye, kwaye inaliti ibambelele kwisityiba kunye nesakhelo sokukhahlela sihlehliselwe kude kube ngomso. Kwiintsuku ezingama-40 kufuneka uyenze enye intsuku zonke. Emva kokuba wenze ukutshitshisa kokugqibela, tshilela isifiso sakho kwakhona kwaye ubophe intambo kunye neqhina elincinci. Ngoku ulinde, kwiintsuku ezingama-40 ezilandelayo isifiso sifanele sizaliseke.
Amashishini
Kukholelwa ukuba umzekelo okhethwe ngokufanelekileyo wokugqithisa kunye nombala weentambo ziya kutsala kuwe iphupha. Ngoko, umzekelo, izikali ezibomvu negolide, iinqununu kunye neengqekembe ziza kukhokelela kwimpilo-ntle, iintambo ezibomvu kunye ezibomvu, iintyatyambo kunye nemibhobho yomibini (umzekelo, iikiti ezimbini, ihobe okanye i-swan) - ukukhangela ngempumelelo kwinqanaba lesibini, iintsana kunye neengelosi-ukuzalwa komntwana , kunye nokuhlobisa izindlu kunye neenqaba zemizi, ngokulandelanayo, kuya kunceda ukuxazulula ingxaki yezindlu.
NgoNyaka woNyaka omtsha
- Bhala isifiso kwimaphepha enemibala, yenza umthi weKrisimesi kuwo uze uyiphonye kufuphi nomphezulu womthi. Ngaphantsi kwemfazwe ye-chimes thatha "ibhola" yakho, phinda umnqweno uze udlulisele kwicala eliphambene.
- Bhala umnqweno kwiphepha elincinane lephepha, ubeke ii-chimes kwi-plate uze uyibeke emlilweni. Ngelixa livutha, cingisisa nge-enigmatic njengokungathi sele yenzekile. Emva koko uvule iwindow kwaye uhlalise umlotha emoyeni. Umlotha unako ukuthunyelwa kwiglasi ye-champagne kwaye uphuze xa i-chime ibetha.
- Dweba ikhadi elikhanyelayo - yonke into onokuyifumana kulo nyaka ozayo, qela kumqulu, usityine nge-wax kwikhandlela uze uyixhome emthini weKrismesi ubuncinane iintsuku ezingama-7. Njengoko uzalisa iminqweno yakho, yenza isangqa iphupha elifezekile.
- Njalo ugqoke i-bill bill enkulu kwi-wallet yakho. Izwi elithi "Imali kwimali" isebenza ngokwenene.
- Thenga intlawulo ebomvu okanye yegolide. Ngokwempuma yefilosofi ye-feng shui, le mibala isebenzise amandla okuhamba kwemali kwaye ithatha imali.
- I-Simoron isithethe sokukhangela imali endlwini. Ngaphambi kokuba uhlambe umgangatho, hlambulula izihombo zakho zegolide nesilivere kule manzi. Ukutshintsha amanzi angcolileyo ukucoceka, ixesha ngalinye lehlisa imihlobiso apho-njalo njalo kuze kube yilapho umgangatho wendlu yonke uhlambuluka.
Umntu ngamnye unayo "indawo yokulawula": ngoko ke, ukuba ucinga ukuba umgangatho wobomi uxhomekeke kuwe kuphela, kwaye ufumana uvuyo lwaloo nto, ngoko yonke into ihamba ngendlela efanelekileyo kunye ne "locus" yakho. Kwaye kuthiwani ngokunye, xa, endaweni yokuqonda iiminqweno, ngaba ihlabathi liphosa iingxaki ezintsha? Akumangalisi ukuba kwiimeko ezinjalo sithembele ekunakekeleni kwendalo yonke. Iindlela ezinjalo "zobugqi" zenza umvakalelo wokufudumala kwizinto ezingenamandla, ezinokwethenjelwa. Nangona siyiqonda ngokucacileyo ukuba le "ngcamango engqondweni", kuya kuba mnandi kakhulu ukuyidlala - uphonsa amehlo akho kwaye ubuze ngamandla akho kwinto ebaluleke kakhulu! Xa izinto ezinjalo zenzeka ngokungaqhelekanga, zincedo ngokwenene: ingaba zinceda ukuzaliseka kweminqweno, inzululwazi ayifumanekanga, kodwa akukho nto inokuthi ukuba imeko yesimo sengqondo iyimfuneko. Kweemeko ezithile, abantu abaqinileyo nabathembekileyo bavame ukuvusa "ukucinga ngemilingo", kwaye bajika kwizinto ezihlukahlukeneyo. Emva koko, ukholo luyakwazi ukwenza imisebenzi yemimangaliso, yintoni eyenzekayo ebomini bethu. Kodwa ukuxhomekeka ngamandla kwiimfundiso kukubonakalisa uphawu olubi kakhulu, emva kwayo luxhala lwangaphakathi kunye nomntu ongenalo amandla.