Ekupheleni koluhlaza, ubukhulu bebele buya kubuya ngokuqhelekileyo, okanye ngoku kuyafuneka ukwenza into?
Qinisekisa ukuba emva kokuphela kwesilwanyana, amabele aya kulinganisa, andinakukwazi: le nkqubo iyodwa. Ngokombono wam, kungcono ukulungelelanisa ngoku, ngaphandle kokulindela ukuphela kwesicatshulwa. Emva koko, ulindele ubuncinane omnye unyaka wokutya. Ngokuqhelekileyo, isizathu sokuba i-asymmetry yinto yokuba umntwana usetyenziselwa kwisibele esikhulu kunamaxesha amaninzi ngokuphindaphindiweyo, ngoko i-lactation iyanda. Isifuba esincinci ngesizathu esithile asiyithandi kakhulu, umntwana akanakunamathele kuwo, unomdla kwaye unqabile ukunyuka ubisi. Ngaloo ndlela, i-lactation kwincinci encinci incitshiswa. Yintoni enokuyenza? Ukutshintsha imeko kwizinto ezichasene ngqo, ukuqala ukusebenzisa umntwana ngokuthe rhoqo kwincinci encinci, kunye nomnye omkhulu (ngokuthe ngcembe!) - yonke into encinane, ngaphandle koko, zama ukungavumeli umntwana ukuba alise inkunzi enkulu ixesha elide.
Ukunyanzeliswa ngokunyamezela kakuhle umntwana kuya kubonisa ukuhlambalaza nokungafuni ukuba umntwana ancelise amabele angathandwa. Lapha kufuneka udibanise yonke ingcamango yakho kunye nomonde ukunqoba ezi ngxaki. Xa umntwana eqonda ukuba umama wenza isigqibo esiqinileyo kwaye i-whims ayisebenzi (unina akayeki, kodwa uyaqhubeka nokunika ingaphantsi kwebele), ngoko ukulungiswa okufutshane kodwa okuchanekileyo kwimeko kuza kuqala. I-algorithm yile: umntwana ucela isifuba - unike encinci. Uyamkela omncinci, abuze omnye-achaza ukuba awukwazi ukunika (ukunika ngokuhlwa okanye ebusuku), kwaye ngoku - oku nje. Akafuni ukutya kuye kwakhona - uyazifihla amabele aze enze ishishini lakhe. Ngaba ingenangqondo? Phinda unike isifuba esincinane. Ndifuna ukulungelelanisa ukuba le yinkqubo ende kwaye kufuneka ube nomonde omkhulu, kungathabatha iinyanga ezi-2-4 ukulungisa ingxaki. Inhlanhla!
Kutheni ibuhlungu kwisifuba?
Ndandisandul 'ukuhamba ngentshukumo, kwaye ukuvalelwa kwintlungu kubonakala esifubeni sam. Kunokuba banokususwa? Kuyingozi kangakanani i-hypothermia kumama onesiko? U-Olya Umama ongaphezulu kokupholisa akuchaphazeli isimo sebele nangaliphi na indlela! Kuyingozi nje ukuba umama angahlakulela ubanda okanye into efanayo. Oko uthethayo ngongoma ozinzile ongekho nantoni na. Iimvakalelo ezibuhlungu zinokuvela kwi-occlusion occlusion ye-milky disuct, kwaye isizathu solu hlobo sinoku:
Ukuhamba okude (iiyure ezingama-3), ngexesha apho ubisi alukhenxiswanga kwisifuba, ngoko luye ludla;
ixesha elide lokulala ngokutya;
iibhonki ezingaqhelekanga okanye izambatho ezinxibileyo;
ubuthongo busuku ngesisu;
umntwana ongazi indlela yokuziphatha ngokuchanekileyo kwibele, uphendulela intloko kwinkqubo, uyitshixa ingunaphakade (uyisondeza) - oku kubangela ukuba kususwe ubisi kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zesifuba;
Ubukho beentsontsho okanye iibhotile zentsana nazo ziyakhupha izibilini kwisifuba.
Unokukunceda njani kwimeko?
Okokuqala, qalisa ukubeka umntwana rhoqo kwibele (unokwenza kube kanye ngeyure) ukwenzela ukuba isilwane sakhe sichazwe kwindawo ebuhlungu, ngexesha lokutya, ngokucoca ngokunyanisekileyo le ndawo ukuze ubisi luqhube kakuhle.
Xa uncelisayo, qwalasela into oyidlayo. Akukho imfuneko yokutya ukutya okuninzi kunye nokutya, ngaphambi kokubeka umntwana kwibele. Emva koko, le micveliso inokuba yingozi kakhulu kubisi lomama. Cinga njalo, kwaye ube nempilo! Ngaphandle koko, intlungu esifuba kwaye uyabuyisela emva kwakho, kwaye ukusuka kwifuba - ubisi obubi kumntwana.