Wena, njenganoma yimuphi umama oqhelekileyo, awukwazi ukuzola, ukuphulaphula ukukhala kweemvumba. Ndifuna ngokukhawuleza ndigijime kuye ukuze ndincede, yenza yonke into ukwenza iinyembezi zakhe ziyeke ukuthulula! Ukugqithisa kwezinyembezi zokuqala zentsana kunokusweleka lula kunye noMama, kunye nosana. Ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukuthabatha isandla somntwana ukuze ayeke ukukhala, kodwa kwenzeka ukuba akukho tricks ayikwazi ukuhlalisa i-karapuza elilileyo. Ngamanye amaxesha, umnika isifuba okanye ibhotile, kwaye inkunzi iyajika kuyo, ikhupha i-pacifier, iphosa itekisi. Indlela yokwenza umomotheka? Khumbula: umntwana akaze akhale ngaphandle kwesizathu. Yaye ukuba uyayigqiba, kuya kuba lula kuwe ukuthuthuzela ubuncwane bakho. Ngoko ke, siya kuzama ukukunceda ukuba ufumene imbangela yezinyembezi zezingane, kuba i-crumb ikulindele wena!
NGEMPILO!
Ukukhawuleza, ukuhlambalaza, ukukhala okukhulu, njengomthetho, kunokuthi kube khona kufuphi nobusuku. Umntwana uqala ukunyanzela imilenze yakhe, uguqula yonke indawo, agqithise umva wakhe. Ngalo mkhuba, qaphela - lo bubungqina bendawo. Musa ukushiya umntwana yodwa nale ntlekele! Njengomncedisi kwi-crumb, unokubeka isitshixo somlilo omile kwisisu sakhe, umzekelo, wenziwe ngentsimbi yeshushu (eshushu, kodwa engatshitshisiyo!). Kwakhona, ukuxutywa komzimba omncinci ungasebenza. Yenza ukuhamba kweetyhula, uhanjiswe kwintonga ye-clockwise (zama ukungathinti indawo yesibindi). Unokucela ugqirha wezingane ukuba ubeke amaconsi e-colic. Ukuba umntwana uncelisekile kwaye unxamnye nolo hlobo, unako ukusela amanzi enjalo. Iyeza liza kufakwa ngumntwana kunye nobisi. Kodwa nangona kunjalo, musa ukubeka izilwanyana ngokwakho!
NDIFUNA UKUFUNA!
Inkwenkwe iqala ukucwina ngaphandle kwezinyembezi, ibeke intonga emlonyeni wayo, imlisele, kwaye iqala ukukhala okukhulu. Udla ngokukhawuleza, uphenduke ngokukhawuleza ukukhala. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, uyaqonda ukuba umntwana ucela ukutya! Esi sizathu esona sihlandlo sokuqala kweentsana zokuqala zentsana esanda kuzalwa. Abantwana kwiinyanga zokuqala zobomi abasakwazi ukuqokelela amandla okugcina amandla, yingakho kufuneka badle rhoqo. Awudingi ukunamathela kwishedyuli yokutya: kwiinyanga zokuqala, ukondla umntwana wakho ngokufunwa, kuba umntwana olambile angakhalela iiyure! Emva kwexesha, uya kuphuhlisa ukutya okulungileyo kuye.
Ndiyashisa!
Ukuba umntwana uyakhala kwaye esaphefumula ngokukhawuleza, kwaye isikhumba sakhe sibomvu kwaye sithuthumele, kuthetha ukuba uye waphaya. Kubalulekile: ukushisa komoya okusemgangathweni apho umntwana ehlala khona, kufuneka kube ngu-21-22 C. Ukuba umntwana wakho uyasifikisa, uyitshintshe ibe yimpahla eyomileyo (ibe izinto ezikhanyayo kwimizimba yendalo).
NDIFUNA KWEEMANDLA!
Usana luqala ukubetha ngokukhawuleza, ukhala, ubeka ingqalelo yakho. Yaye xa engaphumelelanga, uqala ukudlula ngokumemeza nokukhala. Ungakwazi ukukhusela lula ukuhamba kwezinyembezi, ingakumbi kuba kungadingeki ukuba uthathe umntwana ngokukhawuleza. Uyakwazi ukuthetha naye, u-pat ngasemva, entloko. Ngendlela, abantwana abaninzi baneliswe ngumama xa befumana ngokwabo kwimiba yabo yombono.
IIMVIWO ZAMI
I-crutch iqala ukujikeleza, lonke ixesha lizama ukutshintsha isikhundla somzimba, konke oku kuhambelana nokukhala okude kwaye okuqhubekayo. Konke kucacile, kuba ukungathandeki kwi-diaper engcolileyo kuyamnandi kubo bonke abantu, ngaphandle kwayo ingaba sisizathu sokuphuhlisa i-diaper dermatitis kunye ne-diaper rash. Ngaphezu koko, ukusebenzisa i-diapers ezilahlayo ayikwazi ukulahla ukuvakalelwa. Ukuba i-crumb iqhubekile, zama ukutshintsha ngokukhawuleza i-diaper kwaye uhlambulule iesile ecocekileyo.
Andiyi kuphila
Ekuqalekeni, iinyembezi zintsana azikho isizathu? Ulila nje ngezinyembezi kwisibhedlele? Khangela, ngokukhawuleza umqolo wakhe unqabile ukusuka kwixesha elide kwisithuba esinye okanye ihembe liqhutywe kwaye kungabonakali imibimbi. Ngexesha leenyanga ezintathu zokuqala umntwana akanako ukuziphendulela. Ngoko konke okuseleyo kuye kukuthemba uncedo kumama. Ngako oko, ungayihoyi iinyembezi zokuqala zentsana, kungcono ukusasaza kwi-tummy yakho rhoqo.
KUNYE IZINTO EZIFUNA
Ingane imfuneko, njengomoya, ukunakekelwa ngumama, ukunakwa kunye nothando. Kwaye, oku, ngokuqhelekileyo kubangelwa yinto ezwakalayo kwaye ngelixa elifanayo libizo kunye nokukhala. Njalo thabatha umntwana ezandleni zakhe, ukuba uyabuza malunga nale nto: ezandleni zakho umntwana uyaziva ekhuselekile. Ngendlela, abantwana, abahlala bembethe ngezandla zabo, bakhala kakhulu kwaye bakhula abantu abathembekileyo.
Ndiyifake
Ngethuba lomntwana umntwana wahamba kunye neziganeko ezininzi (umakhulu wayevakatye, umama wayethabatha iindwendwe kunye nam, kunye neengxaki ezinxulumene naye, akakwazi ukuzinqabisa nokulala ngokuzithoba. Umntwana akayiqondi into eyenzekayo kuye, kwaye uqala ukukhala. Musa ukuhlala ukhulula umntwana ngomsindo omkhulu, kuba inkqubo ye-nervous child is still immature: kunzima ukumelana neemvakalelo.
NDIYE BAD!
Umntwana okhalayo, ukubonakalisa ngesifo, unobuthakathaka kakhulu, ngokuqhelekileyo umlomo. Umntwana ukhangele emehlweni, kwaye ngexesha lokusondeza livame ukuphazanyiswa (ukuba umqala umonakalo okanye umtshini ubeke) kwaye kwakhona uyakhala. Kule meko, kufuneka uqhagamshelane nodokotela ngokukhawuleza uncedo. Konke okufuneka ukuba uqaphele ukuba umntwana uyakhala ixesha elide kwaye akaphumelelanga ukumthoba ngeendlela ezisebenzisayo nakanjani ngaphambili.
UMTHETHO UHLALA
Ukuvalwa kweenyanga ezisixhenxe ezisibhozo, umntwana uqala ukukhupha amazinyo okuqala. Ngokuqhelekileyo le nkqubo ihamba neinyembezi. Yiba neengxaki kwiingxaki zamazinyo zengane. Ukuze ukhulule intlungu kwaye ulawule umntwana, yinike i-teetotal ebuntshisiweyo (ithengiswe kwikhemisi) okanye isebenzise kwizinsini i-gel ye-anesthetic, eyayinconywa ngabazali.
Ndifuna ukuba nayo!
Oku kubakhathalela abantwana abasakhulayo-emva kweenyanga ezintandathu, ngubani na ongakwazi ukuzibandakanya kunye nokuqonda into ethile. Awukwazi ngoku ukunyamekela umntwana, uyishiye kwisibhedlele, unike amathoyizi akho amathandayo, kwaye ngokukhawuleza uqala ukungena kumahlaziyi kunye nokumemeza, efuna ukunakwa. Ngaba imeko iyaziwa? Into ephambili kukuba uhlale uxolo kwaye ungabi nxamnye nokukhwabanisa. Ngokukodwa ukususela ekubeni i-karapuz ngoku ayikwazi ukuphulaphula ukuziphatha kwakho - oku kuya kuqinisa intlungu yakhe. Lindela isiqhwithi. Yaye xa umntwana ephuza kancane, wamkela kwaye uthethe kakuhle ukuba yonke into ihlelekile. Zama ukutshintsha ingqalelo kwiimvuthu, umzekelo, nikela ukudlala ngeentambo. Ukuba oko kwenzeka okokuqala, zama ukuvusa ukuphazamiseka okunjalo kwixesha elizayo - ungashiyi umntwana wakho wedwa ixesha elide.
Ndibuhlungu!
Ngokuqhelekileyo umntwana uyakhala ngokukhupha. Ungashiyi umntwana yedwa ixesha elide kwisibhedlele, nangona kukho iitoni ezininzi ezikujikelezayo. Ukuba izixhobo zokunxibelelana kunye nokudlala nomama kunomdla ngakumbi kwaye luncedo. Ukuba ufuna ukuphumla, faka umntwana (yenza oku, uqale ukususela kwiminyaka yesithathu) kwi-mat. Ukufakela kuye amathoyizi avuyiweyo akayi kuvumela ukuba intsana ikhuni! Kwaye izixhobo ezahlukahlukeneyo zetekisi zihlakulela kakuhle izakhono zendlela.
OKUYIBHAYIBHILE UKUYENZA!
1. Nangona ungaziva kakuhle, akufanele ulahle ngaphandle iimvakalelo zakho eziphazamisayo.
2. Musa ukumemeza umntwana, kuba kuye kukuxinezeleka kakhulu. Ukukhala kwakho kuya kumsongela.
3. Musa ukuyigubha. Oku kuyingozi kakhulu kwengqondo yomntwana kunye nangobomi bakhe. Zi lawula!
4. Musa ukushiya umntwana wedwa ekhaya. I-crumb kufuneka ihlale iphantsi kolondolozo lwabantu abadala.
5. Musa ukuzama ukunika umntwana umntwana! Inkqubo yakhe yeentliziyo ayilwanga, kwaye unokulimaza umntwana!
IMPENDULO YEMITHETHO YOMNTWANA
Iinyembezi zokuqala zomntwana oza kuzalwa zihlala zichaza. Iintsana azizi indlela yokuphatha abanye abantu. Ukukhala kancinci kudinga induduzo, kuba ububububukho bakho bubantwana buqonda into ephambili.
• Uziva ukhuselekile. Ingane iqinisekile ukuba inokuhlala ilindele uncedo lwakho kwaye ayisoze yashiywa yodwa ngengozi yakhe.
• Ufumana ukuzithemba. Ukuba usabela xa ekhala, ngoko kubaluleke kakhulu kuwe.
• Ukwakha ubudlelwane bakhe nehlabathi elikujikelezile. Ukuba ziqwalaselwa ngeemfuno zakhe, ihlabathi liyanceda kuye.
• Ukuqonda ukuba bayamthanda. Umntwana obizwa ngokuba, kwaye uze kuye, ngenxa yakhe, ushiya yonke ibhizinisi lakhe.