Jonga uze ukhangele
"Ukubona kukuqonda, ukuqonda, ukuguqula, ukucinga, ukulibale okanye ukulibala, ukuhlala okanye ukusalala." Kodwa ophthalmologist, nangona kunjalo, kukho amehlo kuphela kunye nesigqeba esenza ukuba kwenzeke, iso lethu. Iliso ekuqondeni ugqirha yiso liso, i-nertic optic, umfundi, iris, i-lens ... Iliso lisinika ithuba lokubona, oko kukuthi, ukufumana ulwazi olubonakalayo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuqonda kwayo akusekho ukumkelwa kwamanqaku avela kwihlabathi langaphandle, kodwa ukusebenzisana okusebenzayo. Le yembono. Umfanekiso wehlabathi ovela phambi kwamehlo ethu uthetha ngakumbi ngathi ngokubhekiselele kwizinto eziphathekayo ezisijikelezayo. Siyabona umbala - i-turquoise, i-emerald, i-lilac, i-grey-nangona eqinisweni, akukho mbala kwendalo. Ziba yinyani kuthi ngenxa yolu luhlobo lwamahlo ethu namaziko eengqondo ezenza ulwazi olubonakalayo. Kuyafana nokuqonda izinto ezininzi ezinzima. Asiyiboni into enenjongo, kodwa leyo yiphumo lenye okanye amava apho ngamnye wethu anakho. Umntu oyimfama ovela ekuzalweni, ukuba uphumelela ekuboneni, ubona ihlabathi njengengxabano yembala. Ama-Eskimos akwazi ukwahlula ambalwa amnyama emhlophe, ngathi, kodwa eninzi. Oko esikubonayo akuxhomekeke kuphela kwizixhobo zethu zomzimba, kodwa kunye nesakhiwo sengqondo kunye nenkcubeko esiyiyo. " Imbono yethu iyakhethiweyo, ngoko ke inqabileyo izakubona kuphela ilitye elityebileyo kwindawo, esiyibiza ngokuba yi-laptop. Umntwana uya kuqwalasela idonki njengoko umculi uyazibona iikopi encinane yesithombiso esidumile se-antique.
Ndiyabona-kuthetha ukuba ndikhona
Oko sikubonayo kuthi, sizenza ngokwethu. Imbono yethu yehlabathi ejikelezile ihlala ishintsha - ukusuka kwiiveki zokuqala zobomi bethu. Amava akhethekileyo ukujonga ngokwakho, okusivumela ukuba sizibone njengomntu, ukuqonda: "Ndikhoyo." Ingqungquthela engumFrentshi wengqondo yaseJapan uJacques Lacan ekuphuhlisweni komntwana ekhethe "isiteji sokuzibonakalisa", apho (iinyanga ezi-6 ukuya kwezi-18) kukuzibona ngokwakho kwisibonakaliso esibukweni esinceda umntu ukuba azive aze aqonde ingqibelelo yakhe okokuqala. "Ndiyibona - ngoko ndikhoyo." Kodwa thina sizibona njani kwaye senze le ngcamango yenyani? Singathetha kuphela ngombono ongezantsi okanye ongaphantsi. Kwaye le ncamango enxulumene nayo ifumaneka kuphela kumntu okhulileyo - umntu obona ngokwaneleyo amandla abo kunye nemida yabo. Umbono uphazamiseka, kuba ngamanye amaxesha inyaniso ayinakuxolisa. Oko kukuthi, akunakwenzeka ukuba simkele "inyaniso yethu" - abo sinene ngokwenene. " Ngokwenene, i-psychoanalyst ichaza, ngokuqhelekileyo ibangela iimvakalelo ngathi ezinzima ukusinda: umona, umva wokushiya, ukuzodwa, ubuncinane. Ezi mvakalelo kwaye zibangela ukuba "isibuko" sethu sangaphakathi sibuqili. Ngako oko, asibona into ekhoyo, kodwa oko sifuna ukukubona. Ngoko entlango phambi komntu ngenxa yengxaki engenakuthelelwa yunxano, umfanekiso we-oasis uvela, apho amanzi acocekileyo avela entwasahlobo. Abo bathi ibinzana elithi "Andiyithandi" ngokwenene lithetha "andithandi umfanekiselo wam", "Ndiyakhathazeka ngamehlo endijonga ngayo". Ukujonga ngokwakho ngaphandle, ukuze uzame ukuziqonda kakuhle, ngumsebenzi wokwelapha. Lo ngumsebenzi onzima, kwaye kunokuba kunzima ngenxa yokuba inkohliso eyakhiwe yiso lethu elikhuselekileyo ayiyi kuba neyona nto ifana nayo njengokuba sifuna. Konke oku kuqondwa kungekhona kwimibala ekhangayo yemibala, kodwa nakubuninzi bee-shades, ezithandabuzelayo iimvakalelo eziphikisanayo. Nangona kunjalo, kuphela le ndlela iza kusinceda sidibanise, sithathe ubuthathaka bethu kunye nezidima zethu, siyiqonde into ekhethekileyo. Ukuzibonela ngokwenene kukuzithanda wena.