Abaninzi badla ngokusola ngobugovu kuphela ngenxa yokuba singayithobeli ukuphathwa kwabo.
1. Ngokuqhelekileyo abazali bethu bafuna okungakumbi kunathi. Basoloko besitshela ukuba batyala imali kakhulu kuthi, kwaye asizange silungele ukuthanda kwabo. Abazali kaninzi bakholelwa ukuba abantwana kufuneka bahlangabezane nemeko yabo. Ngako oko, bayaqiniseka ukuba bayazi kakuhle oko kuya kuhambelana nantoni kwaye kungenjalo. Ukubonakalisa abazali bethu malunga nokuzimela kwethu kubalulekile ukuba sibe nemigudu ephezulu. Yenza izigqibo ezifanelekileyo kwaye ube noxanduva lwezenzo zabo.
2. Kukho iintsuku xa abahlobo bethu okanye abahlobo bethu beza kutyelela ngexesha elithile elifanelekileyo, bakholelwa ukuba uya kuhlala uvuyiswa ngokutyelela. Abantu abanjalo abanomdla kulokho okwenzayo ngoku, nokuba ngaba uceba kunye nendlela oza kuchitha ixesha ngayo, ukubaluleka kokuthetha nomntu kubalulekile kubo. Zama ukungabakhuzi, kuba wena ngokwakho awukwazi ukubona indlela oza kuchitha ngayo ixesha lakho kuzo. Ngokuchanekileyo kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo ubatshele ukuba kungcono ukuvuma kwangaphambili malunga nentlanganiso, njengoko unakho uxakeke kwaye unento efuna ukuyiqwalasela.
3. Ngokuqhelekileyo umfana wakho uxelele ukuba akanakuthathela ingqalelo. Kwaye ngexesha elifanayo, uchitha ixesha lakho lokukhulula kunye naye, funda naye kwelinye iqela okanye usebenze naye endaweni enye. Yithetha nje ngaye. Fumana ukuba ukungabikho kwengqwalasela kuboniswe ngoluvo lwakhe.
4. Xa usenza isigqibo sokuyeka, kufuneka uphulaphule inkulumo ende malunga nokungcatsha kwabasemagunyeni kunye nabo osebenza nabo. Ngokuqhelekileyo amagunya anqwenela ukunyanzelisa ukuze uhlale kwiqela, ngakumbi ukuba ungumqeshwa ontle. Ngenxa yoko, bavame ukusebenzisa le ndlela yokukwenza ukuba uzive unetyala kwaye ungathandabuzeki ngokuchanekileyo kwesigqibo. Kodwa akudingeki ukuba unike lo msebenzi kuwo wonke ubomi bakho.
5. Abahlobo bamema kwi-cinema okanye kwenye indawo, kodwa awufuni ukuya naphi na. Unokubatshela ukuba awunayo imvakalelo engcono kwaye ukhetha ukuhlala ekhaya. Yaye unako ukuya kwithuba elizayo. Ukuba ucinga ukuba bangakhubeka, musa ukukhathazeka. Emva kwakho konke, nawe, unokuthi ube nezicwangciso zokuhlwa.
6. Ngamanye amaxesha ucinga ukuba ifowuni yakho ifanele ishintshwe iiyure ezingama-24 ngosuku, njengoko unganqumla iifowuni ezibalulekileyo. Kodwa ungakhathazeki. Emva koko, umntu ngamnye unendawo yakhe siqu, apho ekhululekile. Vala ukucima ifowuni isikhashana kwaye uphumule, phumula. Ukuba uhlala unqabile, akukho mntu unokukunceda.