Umdlalo othakazelisayo wezinto ezimbini - ukudlala ngothando phakathi kwendoda kunye nomfazi-ngokuqhelekileyo kuba yintsapho yokuthandana. Ngenxa yoko kubalulekile kwintlanganiso yokuqala ukumangalisa ukucinga ngomhlobo omtsha ...
Ukucwina kancinci, ukubukeka okubukhali, ukumamatheka okungaqondakaliyo - kubonakala ngathi nayiphi na intombazana ngokwemvelo iyayazi kakuhle iindlela zokutya. Nangona kunjalo, xa ubona umhlobo ongaqhelekanga kwiphathi, awukwazi ukuqonda ukuba kutheni ngokukhawuleza ubomvu kwaye ulahleke ngokupheleleyo. Ungethuki ukufihla emva komnye umntu. Ngubani owaziyo, mhlawumbi unethuba lokufumana umphefumlo wakho? Ukongezelela, izazi zengqondo zikholelwa ukuba ukuzonwabisa ngothando kunceda kakhulu: kunceda ukujamelana neengcinezelo ezincinane zemihla ngemihla nokwandisa ukuzithemba. Ukutshintshisiswa kwemibono enomdla kunye nomfana osemhle kunokubangela ukukhululwa kwe-endorphins. IHormones yolonwabo. Kukho imithetho ethile yokukhanga, ulwazi oluza kukuvumela ukuba ujike ngokulula iintloko kubafundi abaninzi.
Njengomfuziselo
Nangona unamahloni, zama ukuphumla uze uthathe indawo yamahhala, yemvelo, enhle. Ukugqithisa iingalo kwisifuba, ukuzingela emva, ukuhlawula intloko - konke oku akuthethi nje ngokuvalwa kwakho kunye nokungafundanga ukuthetha, kodwa kubonisa nempilo ebuthakathaka. Isikhundla sokuqhayisa, ngokuchaseneyo, sigxininisa ukuzithemba, impumelelo. Ngomfazi othanda ukuthetha, ufuna ukunqoba.
Hlela iimbali
Phinda loo mizobo oqhele ukuyenza, ukulungiselela phambi kwesibuko. Ngethuba, vula iingqungquthela emahlombe akho, uguqule ingubo ekhondweni - oku kuya kubangela ingqalelo yomthandi onokukwazi ukuya kumigqa enhle yomzimba wakho. Ukubavavanya, kuya kukwanela kunye nemizuzwana emibini. Ngendlela, uhlobo lwesinxikazi esincinci selumntu uhlaziya ukucinga kwabantu, ungaphuthelwa ithuba lokudlala ngesongo esandleni sakho.
Oche charm
Ubukeka obumnene, obucacileyo bunemiphumo yemilingo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, akufanele uhlele isenzo sokuxhomekeka kwindoda kunye nendoda-ukufunda okunzulu kuthathwa njengobonakaliso bonyango. Kwiimeko ezininzi, kuya kubangela nje ukuvakalelwa nokukhathazeka. Kodwa ukujonga okukhawuleza phantsi kweefowuni kunenjongo enkulu. Ngendlela, i-languorous glance ehlombe ikhangelekile.
Ukugxininisa ukuva
Ngexesha le ncoko, kaninzi ubiza umnxibelelwano ngamagama. Oku kuya kugxininisa ingqalelo yakho ebalulekileyo kumntu wakhe. Ukuphulaphulwa kwisigidimi somhlobo wakho, njengesibonakaliso sesivumelwano esipheleleyo, sithinte kancinci ibhola. I-Random "touch" iya kunceda ukudala umoya wokuzithemba okhethekileyo.
Esinye isigqi
Zama ukuba "isibuko" umntu oyithandayo - phinda ukunyakaza kwakhe kumntu, ukunyamezela, ukubonakalisa ubuso. Yenza nje ngokuqonda. Okhethiweyo wakho uya kuba nomuva ukuba unomyinge ofanayo, okwazi ukuqonda omnye ngaphandle kwamagama. Ukuphucula umphumo, unokulungelelanisa kwisigqi sokuphefumla kwakhe.
Amahlaya ukuzonwabisa
Smile! Le yindlela engcono kakhulu yokubonisa ulwabelana ngothando phakathi kwendoda nomfazi. Zama ukubonisa uvelwano kunye nokumema ukuthetha. Ukumomotheka kuza kukuxelela okuninzi ngawe: umzekelo, ukuba unesimo esihle, unethemba ngehlabathi kwaye unomdla wokuzihlaziya. Ngokuhleka kunye ne-anecdote ephumelelayo, ufumana amava aqhelekileyo.
Kwinqanaba eliphezulu
Ubuhle bobuhle beHollywood bubulela ubugcisa bokudlala ngothando.
• UCameron Diaz uyaqiniseka ukuba ukunyaniseka ngothando kunye nabalindi kunceda ukufumana inkonzo engcono: "Ndikulungele ukumomotheka kumqeshwa webala lokupaka ukuze akwazi ukuqhuba imoto yam ngokukhawuleza."
• U-Meryl Streep, ngomnqweno wakhe wokufunda ukunyaniseka, wathola isikhundla sakhe. Kwakunomnqweno wokukhawuleza ukuqonda le nzu lulwazi ngokukhawuleza wamkhokela kwiziko lezemidlalo.
• UChristina Ricci uyakhathazeka ngenxa yokuba engazi indlela yokuthetha into engamnandi: "Ndifanele ukuba ndibe nomthandane, njengoko ndiqala ukukhulula iingxolo, kwaye oko kuyavusa amadoda. Abaqondi ukuba ndizama ukudlala ngothando. "