Izibhambathiso zonyaka omtsha abantu banikela emhlabeni wonke: umntu ukholelwa kwimilingo ekhethekileyo yeentsuku zokuqala zonyaka, umntu uthanda ukuqala ubomi ngokukhawuleza, kwaye umntu wenza izintlu ezinjalo, kunye nabahlobo bekampani. Ngamanye amaxesha sithandi ukuphupha ngenguqu ephucukileyo yethu - malunga nobani owenza umzimba rhoqo ekuseni, ukutya okuncedo kuphela, akalokothi azuze iindlovu ngokugqithiseleyo aze asuse ubusuku bobusuku ...
Enyanisweni, ngokuphindaphindiweyo kunokuba kunjalo, izithembiso zihlala kwiphepha elikhutshiwe. Ukuqala kukaJanuwari kuya ekupheleni, kwaye okwesibini, okwesithathu nokuqhubeka kwikhalenda - sisaphila, kungekhona iikopi zethu ezigqityiweyo. Kodwa yonke iNyaka omtsha sisaphinda sithemba ukuba ngeli xesha i-feint kunye noshintsho iya kwenzeka. Kwaye silungiselela uluhlu olutsha olusulungekileyo endaweni yabantu abadala.
Kutheni sifuna kangaka ukuphinda sibhale kwakhona yonke into? Kutheni singagqiba oku? Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu - kutheni izithembiso ezingagqibekanga zilele entanyeni ngelitye elikhulu kwaye kubangela ukuba unetyala unetyala: "Nantsi, le nto ayikwazi ukuhlangabezana nayo"?
Kutheni kungasebenzi?
Ngaphambi kokuba uphethe kunye "nesinye isivumelwano", khumbula unyaka odlulileyo. Ingxenye yeeminqweno ayizange ibe yinyaniso, kwaye abanye abazange bakulethele ulonwabo ... Okanye ndingazange ndifumane iphepha elicwangcisiweyo kunye nezicwangciso (nangona ndiza kujonga kuyo nyanga zonke). Kutheni oku kwenzekayo?
Snap kwixesha
Ngubani owathi yokuqala yokuqala kaJanuwari nguyena nto yokuqalisa ishishini elitsha? Kuphakathi kwebusika siphelile, kwaye umntu onokukhathekayo akanakwenzeka ukuba acwangcise ubomi ngobulumko ngeenyanga ezizayo. Ziphulaphule: ukuba kukho umnqweno wokuphumla kwiNtshukumo Yonyaka omtsha, kwaye umzimba wakho ulangazelela iziqhamo kunye nelanga, ungazifaki izithembiso. Kungcono ukukopisha amandla.
Ukujika kwexesha
Ubeka umgomo: kulo nyaka uya ku-England. Kwaye ukuba ngabahlobo baququzelele ngokukhawuleza uhambo oluya eRomania, okwakungenalo nto ngoJanuwari. Kwaye oko, uyayenqaba? Okanye ngaba uya kuhlala iveki nganye ehotele enobuso obuhlungu xa abahlobo bakho behamba kwiindawo ze-Count Dracula? Ubomi buhluke kakhulu kunezimvo zethu kwaye ngamanye amaxesha azinakulungelelaniswa kwizicwangciso. Kodwa kunjalo, kwaye kuhle.
Utshintsha
Unyaka ixesha elide. Kwiinyanga ezililishumi elinambini unokwenza uphinde ucinge ngemibono yakho. Ukuba kunokwenzeka, uzalisekise onke amaphupha akho neminqweno kunyaka omtsha. Ewe, ngoku uya kukhula iinwele zakho, kodwa yintoni ephosakeleyo ukuba ufuna ukwenza isohlwayo ehlobo? Kwaye ekwindla ukubhalisa kwicandelo lokudanisa, ukuhlehlisa i-yoga? Gxotha onke amanqaku anjalo uze ubhale entsha entsha: vumela ukuba uhluke. Ukuhlala, ukuphulaphula iminqweno yakho yokwenene, kunomdla ngakumbi kunokuba uqhathanise neqhekeza elingenanto.
Iqela lezinto ezithintelayo
Ungadli iipuni, ungaphuthelwa izifundo, ungaxabani nabahlobo, ungalibali ukufunda izixhobo zegitare ... Ngaloo ninzi, "akunjalo" kulula ukudideka. Bhala amagama amnandi - umzekelo, uthembisa ukuzithanda ngokwakho kunyaka omtsha, kwaye ke awufuni ukuphinda "uphonsa" ukutya okuyingozi kwindawo yakho endiyithandayo.
Imfihlelo yezithembiso
Musa nje ukucinga ukuba unokuphumla kwaye ungenzi nto nhlobo. Izicwangciso zinceda kuwe - zinceda ukuqonda iminqweno namathuba akho. Kodwa banemithetho yabo encinci.
Cha: bhala kwidayari yakho ye-intanethi uluhlu lweenjongo zonyaka omtsha. Ewe: Ukuthumela uluhlu lwezinto ophumelele kunyaka ophelileyo.
Imfihlo:
Akukho mfuneko yokushicilela kwinethiwekhi yakho inqwenelekayo kunye namaphupha. Le ngxaki yomntu. Ngaphandle koko, cingela - ukuba ufuna ukutshintsha izicwangciso, kuya kufuneka ukuba uchaze oku kumntu wonke obuzayo: umhlathi weshumi elinesithathu usuqalisiwe? Kwaye awuzange ubhale konke oku ukuze ubike ingxelo. Kodwa awukwazi ukuziqhayisa ngokuphumelela kwabo. Kwaye kwindlela, uludwe lwezinto oyenzile, wena uya kumangaliswa ukuba izinto ezintle zenze ntoni kulo nyaka.
Hayi - thembisa ngokwakho ukuba ufunde iqoqo elipheleleyo lemisebenzi kaDostoevsky, ulahle ezili-10 kilogram kwaye ufunde inkqubo. Ewe-nciphise ibha, awukho ukhuphiswano. Kwaye uqiniseke! Imisebenzi ecacileyo kulula ukwenza ngaphandle kwezinto ezingabonakaliyo. Cwangcisa ukugqiba ukufunda "Ulwaphulo-mthetho nokusohlwaya", ukugatya i-sweet buns kwidlo sasemini kunye neyokuhlwa, kwaye kwakhona-ukuthabatha ithala leencwadi kwi-computer yesayensi.
Imfihlo:
Ukuqhekeka ingxaki: ukuphuhlisa ishishini lehlabathi, apho ungayazi nokuba ungayifumana njani, kumancinci, "namhlanje". Zingathatyathwa okwangoku ngoku, kwaye imizamo iya kuba yinto engapheliyo-kufuneka wenze amanyathelo amancinci (kwiingqondo ezithiwa "amanyathelo omntwana"), kodwa baya kukukhokela kwiphupha lakho elikhulu. Akunakuditywa kwindlela.
Akukho - Shintsha uluhlu kunye nabahlobo uze uhlolisane. Ewe-Yenza uludwe oluhlukileyo lwezicwangciso zakho ezidibeneyo.
Imfihlo:
Ukuba ufuna ngokwenene ukutshintsha into ebomini bakho, awudingi ukulawula. Yaye ukuba awufuni, ke iitshekishe aziyi kunceda. Kodwa ukuvumelana nomhlobo malunga nezicwangciso ezipheleleyo. Ngokomzekelo, thembisa omnye nomnye ukuba angaboni ngxabano.
Hayi - Faka phakathi izinto "ukunqoba umfana", "uzuze i-lottery". Ewe - Benza "ngokuzithemba ngakumbi", "ukwenza yonke imisebenzi yasekhaya".
Imfihlo:
Uzenza izithembiso kuwe! Ungakhethi injongo exhomekeke kwizigqibo zabanye abantu. Ungaphendula kuphela ubomi bakho. Yaye uyazi ntoni? Oku ngokwaneleyo ukuvuya.