Abantu bathetha kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo. Kodwa kungakhathaliseki ukuba lithandeka kangakanani ukudibana kwiindawo zokutyela, iivenkile kunye nezinye iindawo zoluntu, indlela eqhelekileyo yonxibelelwano ityelela abahlobo, izalamane okanye abahlobo ekhaya. Kuchaneka njani ukuba uhambele kwi-etiquette?
Iimpawu zokuziphatha: njani ukuya kutyelela?
Indwendwe engalindelekanga ayiyi kukukholisa abanikazi, kodwa iya kubathathaka. Ngako oko, akunakulungele ukutyelela ngaphandle kwesixwayiso kunye nesimemo. Ukuba ufuna ukuza kumhlobo ukuxazulula umbuzo, kungcono ukumbuza ngefowuni okanye kumntu, ngeliphi ixesha elifanelekileyo ukuba uze. Ngokwesiko, iindwendwe azihambi ngokuhlwa ebusuku kwaye kusasa. Ngokuhambelana nemigaqo, iindwendwe ziya kwiindwendwe ezivela kwiiyure ezili-12 ukuya kwiiyure ezingama-20. Ngaphandle kwabantu abasondeleyo okanye kwiintsapho. Baya kuhambela ngaphandle kwesimemo.
Kulo mnyango weenyawo zendlu kufuneka kuhlanjululwe emgqeni kwaye ngokukhawuleza ubize umnyango. Unokuza ukutyelela utshintsho lwezicathulo. Ibhinqa, ukuba ifike ixesha elincinci, lingayeki. Abantwana bangathathwa kunye nabo ukuba abanini banabantwana babo.
Ukuba isivakashi saholwa kwaye sishiywe yedwa kwithuba elithile, ngoko imele ilinde imikhosi. Kodwa akusiyo isiko ukuphosa iingcamango ezivulekileyo emnyango ovulekile, jonga izinto kunye neemeko kwigumbi, uhamba ukusuka kwikona ukuya kwikona.
Ukuba ukutyelela kuhambelana nesidlo sakusihlwa okanye isidlo sakusihlwa, kwaye umncedisi uyakumema ngokuzikhethela kuwe etafileni, kufuneka ubulele kwaye unqabe, ukubhekisela kwinto ongayidli kangangexesha elidlulileyo. Kodwa ukuba umninikazi unxininisa, kwaye ubeka izixhobo, ngoko akudingekile ukuba uqhubeke, kodwa emva kokutya, akufanelekile ukuba usuquke uze uphume.
Akufanelekile ukuba ushiye ngokukhawuleza xa usuka etafileni, kodwa nokuba uyindwendwe, akudingeki ukuba ulahlekelwe ngumlinganiselo wexesha. Xa inkosi injengokungathi iyayichaza ngokuphathelele nayiphi na umsebenzi ongagqitywanga kwaye iya kujonga iiyure, kuthetha, ixesha lokuba isivakashi sihambe, uye wahlala ixesha elide. Mhlawumbi wawuva umzekeliso onjalo "Musa ukwesaba isivakalisi sihleli, kodwa soyike isityezelo sokumema." Oku kusebenza kubo bonke abathanda ukutshilola abanikazi babo ixesha elide.
Kukho imiba emininzi yohambo lokutyelela. Thatha, umzekelo, intombazana, uya kutshata kwaye ufuna ukujwayelana nabazali bomtshakazi. Ngexesha elimisiweyo, kufuneka eze kunye neentyantyambo zeentyatyambo ngomama kamasipala. Kungenzeka ukuba uya kunikwa iglasi yewayini okanye indebe yeti. Kodwa ukutyelela akudingeki ukuba libaleke. Ngethuba elifanelekileyo, umyeni kufuneka athethe ukuhlawula. Ukuba ngaba abazali bomtshakazi abazange baye kumkhwenyana, umtshakazi wenza oko. Uhamba naye ukutyelela abazali bomyeni.
Ukuqhelana nabazali bomyeni okanye umtshakazi unokulungiswa ngaphandle kweendonga zendlu. Ngokomzekelo, xa u tyelela ikhonkta okanye ivenethi kunye. Umoya wentlanganiso unokuba nzima kakhulu.
Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba indoda eyazihlonela yona kunye nomnini, ayiyi kuza endlwini ngxilongo, kunye nebhegi emlonyeni wakhe okanye kungabikho.
Ekupheliseni, makhe sibonge ukuba ukuze uhambe ngokufanelekileyo, kufuneka ukwazi imithetho yokuziphatha, kuba utyelelo luphawu lokuhlonipha kunye neenhlonipho kubanini bendlu.