Mhlawumbi, elowo umntu unokuzidalwa ngumfanekiso ngamnye womfazi ofanelekileyo, kodwa phantse bonke abantu bayamangaliswa ngumfazi ocingelwa ukuba akanakulungiswa, onetalente, onobuqili.
Okubaluleke kakhulu, umfanekiso wesifazane ococekileyo unokuthatha kuphela umfazi onothando. Kubeni ukuba umfazi engamthandi umntu, akanalo umdla ebomini, ngokuba yonke into ibheka kwiitoni ezimnyama kunye nayo yonke into ephuma kulo nto yenziwa yimbi. Kwaye umfazi othanda, ukhanyisa amehlo, uthando lwenza luhle, lube luthando, uthando lunikeza umfazi ithemba kunye namandla.
Ukongezelela oku, ezi mfuno zilandelayo zihanjiswe kumfanekiso wesifazane ococekileyo: uqoqosho, ukukwazi ukupheka kakuhle, ukuhlamba, ukudala uxanduva, ukunyamekela abantwana kunye nexesha elifanayo ungalibali malunga nomfazi.
Umfazi ofanelekileyo kufuneka ujabule ukupheka ukutya okumnandi ukukholisa indoda yakhe. Ukufanisa umfanekiso wesifazane ocolileyo kumntu wakho, udinga, ngaphandle kwentsapho, ukuba uzithande. Ibhinqa kufuneka ligcine uphawu, soloko ufumana ixesha lokuzinyamekela. Musa ukuya kubantu abanezinwele ezibukiweyo, kwi-mask, kwiengubo zokugqoka iikotoni kwaye ungagqoki ilinen, nto engabangela ukuba banqwenele.
Ngokuqinisekileyo bonke abantu banqwenela ukuba ibhinqa labo lalikhohlisa, isondo, isondo, ngaloo ndlela sinokuphelisa ubomi obuqhelekileyo. Ibhinqa kufuneka libe nethemba kuye, kufuneka lijonge, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo liya kubonakala likhangele emehlweni abantu.
Wonke umntu unempilo yakhe yowesifazane, abanye banomfanekiso onxubileyo, obunqabileyo, obuqilileyo, ukungahambi kwemikhwa emibi, ukunambitha okulungileyo. Kwamanye amadoda, ibhinqa elungileyo liba ngumlenze ongeyithinteli inkululeko, ehlala ehle, enomdla, emele, ehlakaniphile. Ngaloo nto, ayifuni indoda yokuzinikela, ukunyaniseka, kodwa ifuna ukuthandana, ukutyelela, iintyatyambo, izipho, ukuya kwiindawo zokutyela, iithalasti, njl. Njengoko bethetha: ngamnye umntu!
Kodwa ke uvelise kwaye ugxininise iimpawu eziqhelekileyo zebhinqa elifanelekileyo kumadoda. Ungowesifazane omhle, unina omuhle, umfazi weshishini, inkosikazi enhle, inkosikazi enkulu, umfazi othembekileyo.
Nawuphi na umfazi unokuhlakulela ezi mpawu. Naliphi na ibhinqa lithetha elowo, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ubutyebi, imfundo okanye ukukhuliswa. Into ebalulekileyo kukuba uqale ngokubaluleka kwaye yonke imihla ukugubha amanqanaba aphambili ekuphuhliseni, ukufingqa rhoqo ngeveki, ukuba uqwalasele umfanekiso wakho kwiindawo ezigqithiseleyo. Bonke abafazi banakho oku ... Mthetho kwaye uya kuphumelela!