Masiqale ngento ephambili: libale malunga namanani kwipaspoti yakho! Ubudala bezinto eziphilayo akubalulekanga ngokukhethekileyo kwintsebenziswano phakathi kwendoda nomfazi. Ukuba iqabane lakho lincinane kuneminyaka emithathu okanye ngaphezulu, awuyedwa. Ngokwezibalo zehlabathi, ikota yeesetyhini ikhetha amadoda amancinane kunabo.
Intlangano ephumelelayo.
Ngenxa yokuba uncinci, kukho iindidi ezininzi.
1. "Umfazi oneminyaka emininzi njengomthandi wakhe," - uthetha isiFrentshi. Kwaye kunjalo. Ukuba uchitha ixesha kunye nomlingane oselula, iinkqubo zenguqu ezinxulumene neminyaka emzimbeni wakho ziyacotha.
2. Ngokwezesondo uxolo: umfazi uyaziqonda inyaniso yothando iminyaka engama-30-35, kwaye amadoda aneminyaka engama-21-25 eneminyaka engama-25 ubudala.
Olunye uhlangothi oluhle - unokuluqonda ngokulula. Ngoku sele uyayazi ngokuqinisekileyo oko ukulindele ebomini kunye nento endiyithandayo ofuna ukuyibona emva kwakho. Ngoko akafanele aphulaphule "umphefumlo wakho ophangayo" uphinde ulungele ukuguquka kwemizwelo. Ngendlela, amadoda ayesaba oku njengomlilo.
4. Ekugqibeleni, ulutsha lwakhe lukhuthaze kakhulu ekukhuleni kwakho. Umjikelo omtsha wezemfundo, enye imfundo ephakamileyo, izinto zokuzonwabisa eziqhelekileyo, ukuzalwa komntwana-konke oku kufumaneka xa kukho iqabane elisebenzayo, elomeleleyo nelipheleleyo.
Ukwazisa ngokucacileyo.
Ukuze umtshato wakho uthuthuke, kuqala zibuze: Kutheni ndiyayifuna le mntu? Yilungiselele ubunzima obunokujamelana nazo.
- Unokuba neemvakalelo zothando kunye nonomama kuye kwaye ungayiqapheli, ulinde kwaye udibanise "inkwenkwana" yakho. Amanye amadoda, ukukhetha abanye abafazi abadala abadala, bahlale abantwana baze babe neenwele ezimvu. Ngaba udinga uxanduva kulo lonke ubomi bakhe?
- Akakwazi ukubonisa isiseko esisisiseko sezinto: imoto, indlu yakhe, umsebenzi omhle. Unomncinci ngakumbi kunani, intanda endiyithandayo ingasilungele ukubonakala kwabantwana. Ngoko ke, ukuba ufuna ngokwenene lo mntu, kuyafaneleka ukuthetha naye ngokukhululekile malunga nayo yonke into enomdla yobomi bamuva.
- Nenye ingongoma, kodwa ibaluleke kakhulu: akufanele uphazamise udade wakho othandekayo. Khumbula oku! Ngamandla okuba ubalekele kwixesha lakho, kufuneka ujongane nombonakalo wakho nsuku zonke, musa ukuvila.
5 imiyalelo kuwe.
Qaphela imithetho embalwa elula, ukuba ufuna ukulondoloza olu lwalamano. Ukuba uyaluxabisa umtshato wakho ongalinganiyo: indoda iselula - musa kuba "mama".
1. Ungabi nomona.
Naluphi na uhlobo lokukhangela awakhankanya kwi-prelestnits encinane, wakukhetha. Kwaye kuya kuba nawe, ukuba ungamqhubi ubenobukrakra ngobukhwele kunye nokuhlambalaza.
2. Ungalindi.
Ngandlela-thile wayephila kwiminyaka eyi-22 (okanye ngaphezulu) ngaphandle kokunyamekela. Musa ukumkhangela malunga nomzi, ukuba uthe uya kuba sekwephuzile.
3. Musa ukuxhasa ngemali.
Nangona umfundi uthanda, kufuneka athathe inxaxheba kwiindleko ezifanayo. Vumela izabelo zingalingani. Uya kulungisa iingxaki zemali yedwa - uya kukhula i-gigolo.
4. Musa ukuyinkimbinkimbi.
Xa ukhangele amehlo, ngoko yintoni umehluko, uneminyaka emingakanani? Ngendlela, abahlobo bakhe akudingeki ukuba bazi kakuhle oko kubhaliweyo kwipasipoti yakho - uthetha ulwimi olufanayo nabo. Kwaye ungacingi ukuba bahlekisayo emva kwakho. Zama ukuhlala wendalo kunye nobungane. Jonga: umfanekiso kunye nekhumba kufuneka zilungiswe kakuhle. Ukuthabatha udidi oluninzi lwezonyiso kunye nokwenza inqaku kwi-yoga nakwidama.
5. Musa ukuphikisana nabazali bakhe.
Mhlawumbi abayi kuvumelana nokukhethwa kwenkwenkwe yabo. Kodwa akufanele umlwele. Ngubani ohlala kuyo, ukhetha, kwaye akayi kubaba nonina. Ukuziphatha kunye nomda kuya kunceda ukubeka phambili.
Ubuhle be-Hollywood bukhetha ngokuzithandela amadoda angaphantsi kunabo.
Xa uSusan Sarandon wadibana noTim Robbins, wayeneminyaka engama-41, wayeneminyaka engama-29. Oku akuzange kuthintele inveli, amava obomi babo kunye iminyaka eyi-19. Ngoku le nto ibhekiswa njengomzekelo we-asterisk ".
Ukumamatheka uCameron Diaz ukhetha amantombazana amancinci. Ulwalamano oluhle kunye nomculi uJustin Timberlake, oneminyaka engama-9 emncinci kunabo, uthuthukise unina. Ngomhlobo omtsha, u-rocker John Mayer, awunjalo umahluko kwiminyaka - cinga, iminyaka emihlanu!
Ibhinqa elithe laxelela ihlabathi lonke malunga neentombi zamantombazana amane kwisixeko esikhulu asinalo ilungelo lobunzima malunga nobudala bakhe! UCandace Bushnell ukhangeleka kakhulu: akukho mntu uya kucinga ukuba umdala kunomyeni wakhe, udansa uCarl Asgard, iminyaka elishumi.