Uxinzelelo olunjani lubonakala ngathi?
Makhe sicinge ngento yomzimba yombuzo. Ukuxinezeleka ngumsebenzi wendalo wenyama, osivumela ukuba sihlanganisise yonke imikhosi yethu kunye nezibonelelo ukuze sibonakalise ingozi esongelayo. Sonke siyazi kakuhle le ntliziyo: "Yilwa okanye usebenze." Yileyo ndlela ibukeka ngayo. Kwiimeko ezixinzelelekileyo, umzimba ukhulula izinto ezisilungiselela isenzo esinqumayo. Ndiyabulela kule mpendulo, umzimba wethu ufumana amandla amangalisayo okujamelana neengxaki eziphawuleza. Kutheni, ngoko, le ndlela exabisekileyo yokuzikhusela, yintoni imvelo eye isinike yona, ngokukhawuleza yaba yinto yokutshatyalaliswa, ibe sisifo esixhalabisa? Kuvela ukuba impendulo ilula - oko kukubangela, okubandakanya uxinzelelo, sele isebenze ixesha elide. Inyanga okanye ezimbini, mhlawumbi iminyaka, sithwala umthwalo weengxakini, ezingaphezu kwamandla ethu; Sinoyika ukuphelisa ubudlelwane obusondayo; Sekudala siye sabambelela kwiqebunga elincinci elibizwa ngokuthi "intsapho", eqinisweni liye laphela. Kwaye ke siyazifumanisa ngokungenakuphikelela kwimimandla engapheliyo yoxinzelelo olungapheliyo. Iingcali zithi zininzi kwaye zibhale ukuba imithwalo ephazamisayo rhoqo ichaphazela impilo yethu yengqondo kunye nempilo. Kodwa mhlawumbi sele uyayazi ngale nto ixesha elide, ngoko ngoku sifuna ukuhlala kwindawo ehluke kakhulu.
Khangela ingxaki evela ngaphakathi
Kuthiwani ukuba umthombo woxinzelelo olungapheli ungaphakathi kwethu, kwaye ungaphandle? Kuthekani ukuba konke oku kubangelwa kukuba iimbono zethu malunga nokuphila zihambelana nezinto ezikhoyo? Ukufezekiswa kwale mijelo kuthi, kusishukumisela ukuba singene kwisifo esingapheliyo. Unokuzibuza njani oko? Mhlawumbi, izinto zangaphandle zibonwa ngumzimba ngokugqithiseleyo kunokuba, kubonakala kukuqala. Ukuqhutyelwa kweendlela ezingapheliyo, ukungabi namali, ulawulo lobuqili, utyholi-nkokheli ... Izizathu eqinisweni-inombolo engapheliyo. Indlela esiphatha ngayo iziganeko kwihlabathi elikujikelezile kunye nendlela esabela ngayo kule nto ixhomekeke kuthi ngokwethu kwaye. Kakade, kwiimeko zangaphakathi zengqondo. Oku kuchaza ukuba kutheni abanye abantu bahlale bezolile kwiimeko apho abanye bezisela ukushisa okumhlophe. Sisoloko sicinga malunga nendlela okufanele ibe ngayo, kwaye ungayiva umzuzu okwangoku. Siphila ngenye iingcamango zengcinga kwaye ngoko asiqapheli ukuba okwangoku kukho izinto ezintle. Kufuneka bajabule kwaye banandipha. Abaninzi baqala ukubheka ukuxinezeleka ngokuhlukileyo emva kokuba bazi imisebenzi ye-American scientist uKareem Ali. Ukholelwa ukuba "uxinzelelo luyinto ekhoyo phakathi kwezinto noko ndifuna ukukubona. Okwangoku, wenza ntoni, kwaye ungathanda ukuthini. Okwangoku, into okholelwa kuyo, kunye nento onayo. " Sifanele sibe noxanduva lobomi bethu, kunokumisela omnye umntu. Indlela elula yokuthetha ukuba akukho nto incike kum, kwaye ngokubanzi, ubomi bubumnyama kunye nokungabi nabulungisa okupheleleyo. Unokuhlala utyhola urhulumente ngokuphakamisa intengo yepetroli, ukukhalaza ngemvula yemvula, njl. Hlalani kwimeko yokuba akukho nto incike kuwe, kwaye kukho umthombo wokuxinezeleka. Makhe unike umzekelo: ungena kwi-jam yomzila, uhlala kwaye ucinge ngawo onke amaxesha, kodwa ukuba akuzange kwenzeke ... ", unentshiseko malunga nokuba awunaso ixesha. Kwaye oko uzingela ngokwengeziwe. Kodwa imeko ayitshintshi kulo. Okanye, umzekelo, malunga neqabane lakho, ngokuqinisekileyo ufuna ukuba ahluke - kungekhona njengoko kunjalo, kodwa njengoko ufuna. Ngamanye amazwi, iimeko zangaphandle zichaphazela ulawulo lwangaphakathi, kwaye ukuziva kungenakunceda ngenxa yokuba akukho nto ingatshintshwa.
Musa ukukhawuleza ukulungisa umhlaba
Kwaye ndazibuza ukuba le nto inqwenela enye into eyenzekayo. Kuphi le mfuneko yokwenza konke okucetywayo, ngokulandelelana ngokuchanekileyo kunye neshedyuli? Okanye kunokuthi ngenye indlela: kutheni ndiqhubeka ndizenzele loo mthwalo wemfanelo endikwazi ukuyithwala; Ndixhase ubudlelwane obungapheliyo; phu laphule iimfundiso zikamama, ezingekho kwi nyaniso? Njengoko uDkt. Ali uthi, impendulo yalo mbuzo ayilula. Sivame ukujongana nezinto ezingathandi nonke kwaye azihambisani neembono zethu. Kutheni oku kwenzekayo? Ukuba ukhangele kuwe, siya kukhubeka kumgxeki ongaphakathi ohlala kuthi kwaye uzama ukwakha yonke into ngendlela yakhe. Ngenxa yoko, kunye nomvakalelo wokunganeliseki rhoqo. Emva koko, simele siphile ngonaphakade ngemilinganiselo yelizwi langaphakathi, eliphazamisayo. Ngokomzekelo, mna-umntu ngokuzinzileyo nokuzinzileyo, kodwa lo ugxeki wam osisigxina ungiqhubela phambili, ubeka ixesha elingenakwenzeka. Kodwa ukuba ukhangelelene, enyanisweni, akukho mntu ufuna ukuncitshiswa okunjalo kuthi, sifuna nje ezinye iinjongo, abazenzayo kwiingcamango zabo. Kuyenzeka ukuba nangona xa kufunwa kuhambelana neyona nto, asikwanelisekanga thina kunye nezwi lethu langaphakathi liqhubeka liphinda lithi: "Kodwa kwakunokwenzeka ukwenza okubhetele!" Kwaye ingxaki enkulu kukuba siyithatha yonke into entliziyweni. Masibuyele ekuphumeni kwam kusasa, xa isibini sam esithi "Ndiye" ndiyakhuthaza rhoqo: "Yenzani, musa ukwenza!" Mna, nokuba ndiyazi ukuba ndifuna ukulala kwangaphambili, ngokukodwa ndiyidonsa ngehora enye kusasa, kwaye kusasa ukunyuka ngokukhawuleza ukusuka embhedeni, ndibetha ndilele kuwo. Yiyo yonke into ehla ngayo! Xa ndiqonda ukuba konke oku kakubi, ndizama ukutshintsha imeko. Xa ndivakalelwa kukuba yonke into ishisa ngokungahambisani, ndithatha umoya kwaye ndizama ukuqwalasela kwakhona imeko.
Nguwe kuphela olawula ubomi bakho
Xa ugqiba ekubeni usebenze kwimoto, koko, uthathe uxanduva kuzo zonke iziganeko ezilandelayo ezenzekayo. Oko kukuthi, uyaqonda ukuba unako ukungena kumjelo wendlela okanye (Mhlawumbi uThixo!) Ngengozi. Kwaye ukuba oko kwenzeka ngokukhawuleza, kungenxa yokuba ufuna ukufika emotweni kwaye uhambe nayo, kunokuba uthutho loluntu okanye ngeteksi. Ngoko, awudingi ukuqalekisa iimeko kwaye ujonge inetyala. Okanye, umzekelo, kufuneka uqedele umsebenzi othile ekhaya, kodwa wanquma ukubukela umdlalo olungileyo owake wayiva ngayo impendulo emihle. Ewe, wayesazi ukuba uza kuphelisa wonke umsebenzi wakho kusasa okanye kusekuhlwa, kodwa wagqiba ekubeni uthathe ixesha lokubukela ifilimu kwaye ube nolonwabo olukhulu kulo. Ngako oko, akudingeki uhlaziye kwaye uzihlambele. Ukufumana into oyifunayo kwaye ube noxanduva lwezenzo zakho yintloko ephambili yokulwa noxinzelelo. Kuxhomekeka kuthi kuthi njani esiya kusabela kwisimo esithile - njengexhoba okanye njengomntu omdala onoxanduva lwezenzo zakhe. Kwaye kufuneka uqonde kwaye ube nesibindi sokuvuma ukuba ungenza iphutha. Umzekelo, ungene emotweni ukuya emsebenzini, nangona ngenxa yendlela yokuthutha izithuthi ziza kukhawuleza ukuya kwi-metro. Oko kukuthi, wenza isigqibo esingafanelekanga, kodwa kwakukhethiweyo, kwaye kuphela kuphela onokukubonisa okulungileyo kuwe noko kungenjalo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, utshintsho kwi-consciousness aluyi kwenzeka njengalokhu ngokukhawuleza, ngobusuku. Kodwa umnqweno wokuzibona uya kubonisa indlela efanelekileyo. Into ephambili akuyi kukulibala ukuba ngoxolo umoya kulula kakhulu ukuba uhlangabezane nazo zonke iimeko eziyinkimbinkimbi kunokuba uhlasele. Kukhona umthandazo onjalo: "Nkosi, ndinike isibindi sokutshintsha oko kunokutshintshwa, umonde ukwamkela oko kungenakuguqulwa, kunye nobulumko bokuhlula omnye komnye." Yisebenzise ebomini bakho, kwaye uxinzelelo luya kubonwa ngokuhlukileyo.