Uthando ngaphandle kwa maxhoba

Abaninzi bafazi baqiniseke ukuba emva kokutshata, bafanele bamthobele umyeni kuyo yonke into, baphile ngeminqweno yakhe, benze konke okulungileyo kuye. Kufanelekile ukulibala ngawe. Nangona kunjalo, oku kubangelwa ngokupheleleyo. Kakade, kufuneka uphile kwaye uphulaphule isiqingatha sesibini, yenza konke kunye kunye kunye. Kodwa akukho nhlobo ahlala kuyo kuphela. Fumana i-hobby. Yiba nomdla othakazelisayo, ngoko umyeni wakho uya kukuxabisa. Akunakwenzeka ukuba siwele kwisicupho sothando, siya kuqwalasela kweli nqaku.


Ukuthanda akuyikungcatsha

Ngenxa yentsapho yentsapho, umfazi unokushiya ezininzi izinto ezithandwayo kunye neminqweno. Unokushiya intombi, intombi ezithembekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, emva kweminyaka emininzi indoda yakhe exabisekileyo iqala inkosikazi. Zonke iidyll zothando olungunaphakade zikhawuleza zihlukane njengendlu yamakhadi. Emva koko umfazi uyazi ukuba uchitha iminyaka yakhe engcono. Wayekhonza inyaniso yakhe inyaniso kunye nenyaniso, wamduduza, uxoxwa. Kwaye ke ukutshatyalaliswa okunjalo. Kunzima kakhulu ukuhlala kule meko. Kwaye ukuze ungaguli kabini, ubanjwe kwisiqingatha sesibini okwangoku, ungahlali ubomi bakhe. Imeytes indawo kunye nezinto zokuzilibazisa. Kungenjalo, ngelinye ilanga lijonga emva kwaye kungekho ziintombi, akukho msebenzi, akukho mfuno. Akuzange kwenzeke njengomntu.

Icebiso

Phuhliso rhoqo, funda into entsha, phucula. Umdla onomdla uthanda yonke into. Nangona umyeni wakho uya kuba nomdla kwaye akayi kubuyiselwa. Kwaye ukuba kukho into enjengaleyo, awuyi kuxhomekeka kumyeni wakho, ngokuziphathekayo okanye ngokuziphatha, kwaye uzakufumana ngokukhawuleza uthando olutsha. Yiba ngumhlobo obalulekileyo, iqabane, othandekayo. Oku kuqinisekisile ngokuqinisekileyo ukuthembeka kobudlelwane obude kunye obuqinileyo.

Usizi - ulingisa uthando

Ngokuqhelekileyo umfazi uhlala nendoda ngenxa yokumhawukela. Ungumntu onxilisayo okanye umntu obuthathaka, uneengxaki zemali, kunye nezinye iingxaki. Abafazi abanjalo bayaqiniseka ukuba baya kukwazi ukucombulula iingxaki zabo, bazilungiselele, ngaphandle kokuba umntu uya kufa. Uthando olunjalo olunjalo alunangqiqo. Amadoda kuphela anokunqoba zonke iingxaki, ubuthathaka kunye nemikhwa. Kodwa ufuna intswelo eqinile kunye nomnqweno wokulungisa iingxaki. Kwaye xa umfazi eqonda ukuba akayi kulungiswa kwakhona, kwaye akafuni, udidekile kuye. Kule meko, umfazi ushiya, okanye uhlala edlala indima yomhlanguli. Kwaye ngokufanayo uyazihlupha kunye nomthandi wakhe.

Icebiso

Iwadi, ngokuchaseneyo, ibangela ubuthathaka nokungakwazi ukuxazulula iingxaki zabo. Kufuneka ube negazi lokuzibandayo, uzikhathalele wena, umsebenzi wakho kunye nobomi bakho. Xa umyeni elahlekelwa ukholo kuwe, kuphela ke uya kuqala ukuhamba kancane, afune inkxaso kunye nenkxaso enjalo kuye. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ungumntu oceliwe ukumnceda, musa ukungafuni. Umzekelo, ufuna ukuba ufumane umsebenzi okanye ugqirha olungileyo. Oku kuthetha ukuba indoda yakho ayikho ithemba kwaye iyakwazi ukuphucula. Ukuba akunjalo, mshiye.

Indoda ayinayo ukubonelela

Ngamanye amaxesha amabhinqa agquba idini lawo ukuze ahlale phantsi nomyeni wethu ngokwempahla. Imali yendoda yimali yakhe. Simele siyiqonde oku. Kungekudala okanye emva koko unokuvukela aze akuxelele ngawo. Ngenxa yoko, uya kuhlala ukhawuleza kwaye uzigxeka ngenxa yokuba ungenasivikelo nesisilumko, ukuba ubomi buyingozi.

Icebiso

Nikela. Oku kuya kuba inkxaso kunye nesiqinisekiso sokuthi uya kuhlala umntu nangemva kokudumala othandweni. Loo mfazi unamathuba amaninzi ukuhlangabezana nomnye umlingane womphefumlo. Omnye uya kucinga ukuba akaselula kwaye akayi kumfumana isikhulu. Omnye ucinga iminyaka engama-30 ubudala. I-Anekotorye kwaye kwiminyaka engama-60 ikhupha amandla anjalo kunye nabahlali abanomdla abaninzi abanokuba nomona.

Ziqaphele njengomntu, phuhlisa italente yakho, nambathobele intliziyo yobomi kwaye ujabule.