Ukungaphumeleli kwezithandani kuboniswa ngabazali bomthandi, kodwa oku kudla ngokungekho nto.
- Ntombi, uphathwe iminyaka engaphezu konyaka ukusuka kumlutha weziyobisi. Kutheni ufuna into!
- Mama, ngokwaneleyo! Kuye isiqingatha sonyaka ukususela ekukhutshweni kwakhe.
Ubuthathaka buyabonwa ngabahlobo, kodwa bakhetha ukuthula kuze kube mtsha womtshato, kwaye abathandi abanenhlanhla abayi kubuza, kuba bajonga ukukhetha kwabo. Emva koko, bakhetha umviwa obalaseleyo, kwaye abakhathaleli ukuba abanye bacinga ntoni?Ininzi imitshato, ngokuqhelekileyo abo abangenalo amava obomi bentsapho, bacinga ngokuphila emva komtshato, phantse njengobomi beparadesi obulindele emva komtshato.
Ngokombono wabo, ukuba bayathandana, oku kubomi, ukuba iimvakalelo ezinjalo phakathi kwabafazi abangeziinyanga zokuqala zokuthandana ziya kuhlala ngonaphakade. Ukuba akukho mntu uya kubahlula, kuba uthando lwabo luya kunqoba zonke izithintelo.
Phantse ezininzi ezininzi ezingabonwabileyo, kodwa zichazela ezi zinto ngokuqhelekileyo ukuba abantu abazange batshatile ukuthandana, kwaye akukho njengaye.
Kwaye ngoku umtshato osindelwe ixesha elide! Wamkelekile kwihlabathi lobomi bentsapho bokwenene!
Utshintsho lobomi bomfazi emva komtshato luyinto ebonakalayo!
Ihlabathi, apho iindawo zokuhlambela ezininzi ezingcolileyo, apho iisokisi kunye nezicathulo zihlakazeka naphi na, apho "izinto ezahlukeneyo" zilahlekile. Ihlabathi apho kulula kakhulu ukulimaza kungekhona nje ngegama, kodwa nge-glance.
Ihlabathi apho abazithandayo abanokuthi babe yiintshaba ezithandwayo, kwaye indlu, emva komtshato, iya kuba yinto yemfazwe yangempela.
Dumisani abo banokwanela kunye nokuqonda okungekho ukuwa kwizinga lolwalamano olunjalo.
Nangona kunjalo, nakwintsapho egcinwe kakhulu, ngamanye amaxesha ingcamango ingena kuyo, kodwa yintoni apho uthando lwangaphambili lwaluya khona, lwaluphi na iimvakalelo zangaphambili? Mhlawumbi senze ukhetho olungalunganga, kwaye sivumele umntu ongalunganga ebomini bethu? ..
Akanayo isondo esaneleyo, kodwa yena uninzi lwezesondo. Uphelile kakhulu, intloko yakhe ibuhlungu, emva koko umva.
Kwaye kukho iinguqu ebomini komfazi emva komtshato.
Ufuna imoto entsha, kodwa akafuni imoto, kodwa ufuna ijazi entsha.
Ufuna ukutyelela abazali bakhe, kwaye uyamthiya uninazala. Uza kujonga ibhola, kwaye umboniso owenziwe ngumdlalo weTV, kwaye andifuni ukuvelisa ngaphesheya.
Njengoko ikhandlela liyashisa, iimvakalelo zobudlelwane obusondeleyo ziphela, zinika indlela yokuziphatha. Kwaye ngoku, akusekho bantwini ababethandekayo, kodwa abantu ababini abangafaniyo abacinga ngokungafaniyo nokwenza izinto ngokwahlukileyo.
Ekuqaleni babumbene elwandle luthando, kodwa ngoku yonke into iyashintsha - amaza obomi bobubomi ayathatha omnye komnye ukuya kumanxweme ahlukeneyo.
Ngoku banokuthi baxhomekeke kwimeko yangoku kwaye bajongwa ngumdla wokuphila, okanye babaleke baye kukhangela amaqabane amasha ukuba azame ukufumana ulonwabo kunye nomnye umlingane.
Okanye mhlawumbi baya kwenza umsebenzi omningi kwaye benze umsebenzi onzima ukuze bafunde indlela yokuthandana ngokwenene, utshintsho ebomini yowesifazane emva komtshato wawungancinci:
- xa umyeni esheshayo esuka emsebenzini ukuya ekhaya, kuba umfazi wakhe othandekayo umlindele,
ukuya ekhaya uthenga iintyatyambo kumfazi wakhe othandekayo,
- umfazi ulindele ukubuyela kwendoda yakhe ethandekayo, ekhokelela ekubonakaleni kwezinto ezintle,
- Umfazi ulungiselela isidlo esimnandi kumyeni wakhe, kwaye kungekhona kuphela kwieholide.
Ukufezekisa oku, kuya kubakho ukugcina indawo enjalo: "Siya kuhlonipha omnye nomnye umdla"
Xa okhethiweyo wakho eqinisekile, ekuthandeni kwakhe - ubona ihlabathi "ngepinki", kwaye uzama ukukuthanda ngakumbi, kwaye uyakuthandwa ngenxa yakho kunye nolwalamano aluguquki kuwe.
Ufezekisa iziphumo ezingcono kumsebenzi okanye kwishishini. Ufuna ukuncedisa wena kunye nosapho lwakho.
Ukuba akukho luthando olulandelayo, kwaye abafazi bavakalelwa kukuba abanamkelekile, abayi kuba nobomi bentsapho kodwa abayi kuhamba kunye nomsebenzi.
Kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo xa uthe ukuba kunzima ukufumana-kuyanconywa ngakumbi!