Okokuqala. "Ityala lesitshatileyo." Bambalwa abantu bacinga ngeli binzana, phantsi apho abantu baninzi balindele ukulala ngesondo. Kodwa ngaba ingabizwa ngokuba ngumsebenzi wokusebenza? Ubundlobongela beentsapho kufuneka buqinise ubudlelwane phakathi kwabatshatileyo, kwaye bangazibopheli. Ukuchitha ixesha elingakumbi ngesondo. Khanyisa amakhandlela anamekayo, uthenge i-champagne, udibanise ama-strawberries kwisikhilimu esityutyiweyo okanye ushokolethi oncibilikile uze usile kumthandekayo kwi-spree. Ngokuqhelekileyo izinto ezinjalo zikunceda ukugcina ubudlelwane. Zama ukujikeleza ubusuku bonke obuchithe ebhedeni omnye nendoda ethandekayo, kungekhona ekugubungeni kwansuku zonke ukusuka kwicala ukuya kwelinye icala, kodwa kwiholide ethile kunye neyothando. Zama ukuzama, ngokuqinisekileyo, ngokuvuma kwamabini omabini, kungenjalo kuthiwa ubudlwengulo. Ukuqhawula ubomi besondo. Ngokuqhelekileyo izinto ezinjalo zikunceda ukugcina ubudlelwane.
Okwesibini. Akukho mzekelo ungayithelekisi nobomi bakho nabanye ubomi. Xa uqala ukuthelekisa intsapho yakho kunye nezinye iintsapho, ucinga nje ngeenzuzo ezibekwa ngazo, khumbula ukuba kuzo zonke iintsapho azikho nje i-pluses, kodwa nazo zizinzuzo, kuba kukho iingxaki ezifanayo kunye nokunye. Akunabo bonke abafazi abaqala ukuqonda ubukho beendwendwe okanye abangaphandle, bamomotheka ngokucokisekileyo, ukuba omnye wabo uyenzile okanye uyisidenge, kwaye ekufikeni ekhaya uhlazo luqala. Kwaye abanye abasesikhumbeni bayakhuphuka ukubonisa lonke ihlabathi ukuba yintoni intsapho enhle. Khumbula, yonke intsapho, yintoni umntu kwaye ayifanele ilingane nabani na.
Okwesithathu. Icandelo lezemali lomtshato. Ukuba umntu akafumani ncinane - oku akuyi kukukholisa nabani na, kodwa ukuba akazami ukufumana imali, kuba kubi nakakhulu. Indoda ezama ukwenza into ethile, ukuphumelela, ukunqoba, ihlala ifezekisa into ayifunayo, kwaye umfazi uyazi kakuhle ukuba akusoloko iimeko zikhula kuye, unokubandezeleka kwezinto ezithandayo. Kodwa ukuba oku kwenzeka unyaka unyaka, umntu utyhoxisa kwiintsilelo, ukungaphumeleli, oku kube yinkinga ebeka ulwalamano olubi kakhulu endleleni yokusongela. Indima yabasetyhini kulo mzekelo kukukhuthaza umntu othandayo, ukuze azi ukuba uza kujolisa ntoni, kwaye kutheni ufuna ukufumana ngaphezulu. Kulula kakhulu ukwenza oku. Kwanele ukubonisa intlonipho nomonde ngakwakho, uphathe kakuhle umthandi wakho, ekuboneni oku, uya kulwa nemali ephezulu.
Yesine. I-Egoism intshabalalise ubuhlobo bobudlelwane obukhulu, kwaye bobabini babenobungane kunye nothando. Xa umntu ebeka kwindawo ebomini bakhe, uyabagxotha bonke abantu. Ingxaki ephambili yekhulu lama-21 ukuzingca. Abantu bancinci bacinga ngabanye kwaye bahamba ngokugqithiseleyo kwiintloko zabo ukuze bafumane oko bafuna. Kodwa ebomini bentsapho ayisebenzi. Intsapho kufuneka ihlale yintsapho kwaye ukuba ungene emtshatweni, shiya u-egoism yakho, zama ukuhlala kwabanye, kodwa ungazishiyi ukuzingca, yonke into ilungele ukumodareyitha.
Ngesihlanu . Zi mfihlelo. Ngokukhawuleza xa abafazi beqaqa izibonakaliso zokungathembeki kwaye isibini sitsho ukuthembela kumhlobo, oku kuba yinkinga ekufuneka iqwalaselwe ngokukhawuleza. Amanga awazange akhonze ngenxa yenzuzo yomntu, ngokuqhelekileyo ubuxoki buchitha yonke indawo. Ukuba ufihla into evela kumthande wakho, kungekudala okanye emva koko uya kufumanisa ngoku okufana nale nto kunye nobudlelwane bakho bunokuba bubi ngakumbi. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba wenze ntoni, kufuneka utshele wakho umthandayo kwaye ukuba uyakuthanda ngokwenene, ngoko yonke into iya kuxolela kwaye iyayiqonda.