Uyazi ukuba uthando luni? Unokuthetha ngoku ngokungapheliyo, kwaye, mhlawumbi, wonke umntu uyayiqonda le ntliziyo ngendlela yabo. Oku kuyinto elula, ephakamileyo, engaqhelekanga, eyomeleleyo, eyamkela intloko kwaye ibamba wonke umntu kumanethiwekhi abo. Mhlawumbi, oku kumtsalane novelwano olunzulu kumntu.
UShakespeare wathi: "Uthando luhlanjelwa elowo wonke umntu olukhangelayo, kwaye emva kokufumana, ngokukhawuleza balahlekelwa ngumdla kuyo. Emva koko bephule, baqala ukukhangela kwakhona. Uthando ngabantu alukwazi ukuhlala ngonaphakade. Kwaye, kubonakala ngathi, babulala amaqhawe abo. "
Iingcali zengqondo zikholelwa ukuba abantu abathetha ngothando lwabo, ngokuqhelekileyo bafumana iimvakalelo ezifana nomsindo: uthando, ukuthandana, uthando kunye nokuxhatshazwa ngokomzwelo. Umkhwa wokubambisa abantu ubangenisa abantu. Isiqhotyoshelweyo sibonakala, abantu abaqhelekileyo bayicinge ngothando.
Ngaba wakha wazibuza ukuba yintoni na? Impendulo yalo mbuzo inokuba yintlobo eyahlukileyo: ingabonakaliyo, ibuhlungu, idibeneyo, ingunaphakade, ingcolile, ingcolileyo, njl. Kukho iimpendulo ezininzi, kodwa ezichanekileyo ziza kuba "ezahlukeneyo". Nangona kunjalo, simema abafundi bethu ukuba bazifundele "iintlobo zothando" eziqhelekileyo. Mhlawumbi, ngokufunda le nqaku, uya kukhumbula iimvakalelo oye wazibona kwaye uya kuba nakho ukubhala kwiintlobo ezantsi apha. Ngaba unako, ngaba ungololu hlobo lwabantu abangazange bafumane le mvakalelo ephakamileyo? Kule meko, eli nqaku liza kuba yinkcazelo encinci. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba kwakunjani, "iintlobo zothando" ezibhalwe ngezantsi zifanelekileyo, kwaye uthando ngalunye luhlukile kwindlela yaso.
Umdlalo wothando
Sivame ukuva uthando olubonakalisa. Ngokuqhelekileyo, lolu hlobo luthando luvela ebuntwaneni, xa isilwanyana esincinci sifuna ukuva iimvakalelo ezinamandla, kunye neqabane lakhe liphela nje isizathu. Ngokuqhelekileyo emlonyeni wezithandani ezinjalo kukho amagama: "akakho", "ngonaphakade", "Ndiyathembisa", "kakhulu", "ngokukrakra". Uqhuba abantu baqhaqhaqhaqhaqhaqhaqhaqhaqhaqhaqhaqhaqhaqha, baqhayisa, bangela ukuxabana kunye nokunyanzela izenzo ezingabonakali kakubi. Kubonakala ukuba yonke into ibalulekileyo kwaye ilungile, kodwa ngokwenene, ubuhlobo obunjalo buphela ngokukhawuleza njengoko benzayo, ngoxa ukuhlukana kunzima kakhulu . Uthando ebusheni luyiva lokuqala lolwalamano oluqinileyo xa sihlola zonke iimpazamo zethu.
Uthando-zithiya
Yimangalisa njengoko kubonakala ngathi, uthando luya kuba yintlondi. Nguwe xa "undizalela njani (a)", "Andifuni ukukubona" ufuna ukuthetha ngokuphindaphindiweyo kunokuthi "Ndiyakuthanda". Xa ufuna ukuqokelela kuwe konke okuphefumulayo kwaye uphumele ngaphandle, uthi "uphume ebomini obugqithiseleyo" kwaye ujonge ngqo kwintliziyo ethandekayo yomntu. Le ngxabano engapheliyo, iifowuni ezingabanjwanga, iinyanga ezidlulileyo ziphela kwindowri kunye neengcamango zomntu obathandayo kunye nesigaretha esinjengogada. Ngelo xesha unyaka omtsha wenza unqwenela ukuba awusoze uthanda umntu kwakhona, kodwa kwiingcamango zakho zendlela yokukhawuleza ukulahla le "isifo esibomfayo esibomvu." Uthando-luya kuthiya xa abalingani bengenakukwazi ukudibanisa ubudlelwane. Mhlawumbi oku kubangelwa kukuba abantu ababini, ngokufanelekileyo kwemvakalelo enamandla, bazange baqaphele ukuba bahluke kakhulu.
Uthando-ubuhlobo
Ukususela ekuqaleni, olu dlelwane lwakhiwe ngokuqonda kunye nokuthembela, ukuqinisekisa ukuba uzinzile kwaye ukhululeke. Akukhokhwele elinobundlobongela, izitya eziphukileyo, amava, ngaphandle kweengxabano ezincinane zasekhaya. Ulwalamano oluqinileyo nolulinganiselweyo, oluya kwenzeka xa luhlukana, luya kuba ziqhekeza. Olu hlobo lolwalamano luyilungele ukudala intsapho kunye nokukhulisa abantwana. Njenge-kefir ye-2%, ikuvumela ukuba uhlale uphilile kwaye uzive ulungile ekuseni. Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukungangeni kweli bali kulutsha xa ufuna ukuzinikela ekuvumelaneni nomdla.
Uthando - ukuzimela
Umzekelo, uthanda ibhola, iingoma ezipholileyo, umculo omninzi, iinkampani ezinomsindo, igarita ... kunye naye. Uthanda umculo weklasi, i-melodrama, ithalayetha ... kunye naye. Baphathana njengento yokuzilibazisa, inzondelelo, njengokutsalwa kwezilwanyana ezizodwa. Abantu abanjalo badlala ngothando, ngelixa begcina ubudlelwane obukhuselekileyo. Baya kuhlala bephila ubomi obuhlukileyo, bahlala behlukileyo "mna" kwaye abayi kuze kube nye. Ngamanye amaxesha abantu baziphatha ngale ndlela, ngokuyisimangaliso baphunyuke kwintlekele yothando. Bajwayele ukufumana esinye isihlwele, banxiliswe kwiSuku lweValentine, ngokuqhelekileyo bangabangani abahle baze bathi intlonelo ngokukhawuleza xa inqaku elithi "Ndiyakuthanda" lixhomekeke emoyeni. Ubuhlobo obunjalo bufana ne-hepatosis, xa umntu eqonda ukuba oku kakubi, kodwa uzama ukuyikhupha ngaphandle. Emva koko unquma ukushiya yonke into njengoko ikhona kwaye ulinde de ibe ihlala ngokwawo. Kufika ixesha apho amanxeba endala enhliziyo sele sele nekrotvotochat kwaye umphefumlo ugcwele imizwa emitsha, njengomoya wokuphefumula okanye amanzi abandayo emva kwesomiso.
Love-chameleon
Ezi mvakalelo ziyimfihlakalo kwaye ziphosakele. Abalingani bayazi, kodwa kungabi nakwazi ukuba balindele ntoni omnye komnye ngomzuzwana ozayo. Baxabana, kodwa akwanele ukuhamba. Xa bezama ukuchaza isizathu sokuba behlangene, abafumani amagama afanelekileyo. Abayiqondi into ebophayo kunye, kodwa ke, bayesaba ukuphula le nxu lumano.
Siyathemba ukuba ngokufunda eli nqaku, uzenzele izigqibo. Ngaba ulwalamano? Uza kuthatha uhlobo luni?