Yaye kwaye uhlala ngeemvakalelo zabo, iimvakalelo kunye nokwesaba behlisa izandla zabo ngokukhawuleza. Ngoko ke kufuneka wenzeni xa kukho umlutha weziyobisi ekhaya?
Imizwa.
Okokuqala, kufuneka ujamelane neemvakalelo zakho, kungakhathaliseki ukuba zinamandla kangakanani. Ukudideka kwakho, akunakunceda loo mzekelo, kwandisa nje imeko. Kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba izidakamizwa zezidakamizwa ngumntu ogulayo, kunye nesimo esithile esasasazwa ngokuzenzekelayo, kwaye sinokudluliselwa emva kwezizukulwana ezininzi.
Musa ukuzigxeka. Inyaniso yokuba ilungu lenu okanye ilungu lentsapho liyinto engafanelekileyo, kungekhona iphoso lakho. Le meko idla ngokukhokelela kwiingxaki zomsebenzi, kunye nabahlobo, imali, impilo, ngokubanzi, xa ngenxa yokungafihli ithemba, umntu uqala ukufumana indlela yokuphuma kwimeko ngokuncedisa iziyobisi.
Umlutha ugulo olubi, kodwa kunokwenzeka ukuliphilisa. Ngoko ke, misela kwaye uqale ukwenza.
Okufanayo kufuneka kulandelwe isimo sengqondo somhlobo-umlutha. Ngamanye amaxesha, into oyibonayo iya kukunceda.
Buza, mamela, ufunde.
Ekulweni nokuxhatshazwa kweziyobisi, ingakumbi xa ukhangele iindlela zokuphazamisa isigulane, sebenzisa zonke izixhobo: umsakazo, umabonwakude, intanethi. Ungaziphepheli ukubonisana okufanayo kunye neengcali, njengabalcologists kunye neengqondo zeengqondo. Ngaphambi kokuba uthathe nawaphi na amanyathelo, thobela ukuthotyelwa, ibhunga olifumeneyo, imeko zokuphila apho ukhona. Kwaye, ke, khokelwa ngumqondo wakho oqhelekileyo.
Hlalani nikhumbula ukuba awunabo bodwa, baninzi abo bathule kwaye bathathe yonke into, kodwa kukho abo bakulungele ukwenza yonke into ukudonsa umntu ovela kulo ngoku kuxhomekeka. Yazi ukuba umlutha weziyobisi kwintsapho ayinakuphiliswa ukuba akafuni. Ngako oko, uya kufuna iimigudu ephezulu, kuba uyaqonda ukuba akunakwenzeka ukumphoqa umntu ukuba enze into ayifunayo.
Kukho imibutho engabonakaliyo enikezela ngoncedo lwamahhala kungekhona kuphela kubasebenzisi beziyobisi, kodwa nakwizihlobo zabo, bafundise imigaqo yokuziphatha, ukhuseleko kunye nokucebisa indlela yokukholisa umlutha weziyobisi ukulahla iziyobisi. Kukho unokufumana inkxaso kunye nokuqonda abantu abanjalo njengawe, fumana iingcebiso zobomi kwaye wabelane ngamava akho. Ngokuqhelekileyo iintlanganiso ezinjalo azibonakali. Akuyi kuba kubi xa uhambela imibutho enjalo, ukuze ukwazi ukufumana ulwazi olungakumbi, njengeengcali ezahlukeneyo ngamava ahlukeneyo asebenzayo kuyo yonke indawo kwaye udibana neemeko zokuhlukahluka kancinci. Phakathi kwabo kukho inzululwazi ezininzi ezinetalente ezingakwazi ukunikela inkqubo yazo.
Awukwazi ukunceda ibhizinisi lokumemeza.
Ngokuqhelekileyo ukuba asikwazi ukufikelela kumntu, ngandlela-thile sizama ukumemeza, njengokungathi unengxaki ngeengxaki zeziyobisi okanye utywala, kodwa ngeentetho. Umlutha weziyobisi kwintsapho - ngesithulu sakhe nesisithulu kuye izicelo, ukukhala, ukuncenga, abo bathandekayo. Izinsongo zakho, ingakumbi ezo ongenakuzenza, ziza kuba neenjongo. Ngoko ke kukufanelekile ukuba uqaphele kakhulu ekukhetheni kwamagama.
Umlutha uyabacaphukisa kakhulu, unobundlobongela kwaye kwezinye iimeko zisoloko zingalawuleki. Ngako oko, izisongelo zakho zingamenza asebenze. Zigcine, zilawule, ungazami, into yokubonisa isigulane, ukuba uphakamileyo. Impembelelo kufuneka iqale ngokubonelelwa kwezinto zangaphandle. Musa ukusombulula iingxaki zomlutha kuye, musa ukunika imali, nokuba ngaba ungenele ityala. Unganikeli uncedo lwakho, kwaye uzame ukuvimba zonke iindlela azakufumana ngayo kumntu. Yenza oku ukuze yena ngokwakhe akucele uncedo, kwaye ke wazinyanzela ukuba akuve.
Oku akusona uphawu lokungakhathaleli, baninzi, kodwa indlela yokwenza umntu aqonde ubunzima beemeko. Musa ukwethuka xa okokuqala kubangela ubugwenxa, ukucaphuka, ukuhlaselwa komsindo nokunye okunjalo. Musa ukuphendula kwiisongelo zokushiya ekhaya. Kukho nawuphi na, umlutha uya kubuya khona.
Fihla kwizilwanyana izinto ezixabisekileyo, imali kunye nezinye izinto ezinokuba yindlela yokufumana nokuthenga iziyobisi.
Qiniseka kwizitatimenti zakho kunye nosongelo, ukuba usenza isigqibo sokuba uyisebenzise.
100%.
Ukuba, ekuxazululeni ingxaki, umntu uthembisa isiqinisekiso esingu-100% sesiphumo esihle, kunye nexesha elifutshane kakhulu lokusombulula ingxaki - ungakholelwa. Ukuxilongwa kweziyobisi akukona kubanda, ayiphathwa ngamayeza, kufuna ixesha elide kunye nefuthe elincinci.
Okwangoku, amanani athi umphumo omhle uza kuba ngama-30 ukuya kuma-50% amacala. Ngokuqinisekileyo, oku kuncinci xa kuthelekiswa nomphumo oyifunayo, kodwa kule meko akuyona nje umbandela womnqweno.
Ngoko ke, nangona unenzondelelo nomnqweno, musa ukukhawuleza ukubamba ithuba lokuqala. Emva koko, ngokuqhelekileyo phantsi kwe-adversi enhle, kukho ukungabikho kobugcisa kunye nolwazi. Ngokukodwa kufuneka uxhalabele ngemirhumo yokubonisana kunye neeklasi oya kuzo. Kwiimeko ezininzi, ezinjalo iinkonzo kufuneka zinikezelwe ngaphandle kwentlawulo, kunye nenkxaso yamanqanaba amaninzi.
Kwakungenakukufanelekela ukuba ukhokelwe ngamathambo, abaphili, abaphangi abanethemba lokukukrazula ingxaki kwiseshoni enye, kunye nantoni na ngesithombe, iinwele, njl. Akunakwenzeka, ukuba olo hlobo lusebenza ngokufanelekileyo, ngoko ke abantu abanjalo babeya kunika iinkonzo zabo ixesha elide kumgangatho wamaziko ezonyango ngamachiza kunye nezibhedlele zokulungisa.
Ukuba ufuna ngokwenene ukunceda, bathandekayo bakho, kungcono ukubuyela kumayeza emveli, yenza okusemandleni akho kwaye ube nomonde. Kwakhona kuyimfuneko ukuqinisekisa ukuxhaswa kwamalungu onke entsapho, kuba umlingo kwintsapho iyinkinga efanayo. Emva kwakho konke, kuphela ngemigudu edibeneyo unokufikelela kwisiphumo.