Ngoko, yintoni imigaqo ebalulekileyo oyifunayo ukuba uyidle kwaye uyenze ukuze ubelethe intombi?
Umama ngamnye akayidingi imingcamango yokucinga ukuba umntwana uya kuba njani. Kodwa, ngelanga, abantwana abanakukukhetha. Ngoko ke, kubalulekile ukwenza into ukuze ufumane umphumo oyifunayo. Enyanisweni, akudingeki wenze okungakumbi kwaye ezi zenzo azikho ezinzima njengoko kubonakala ngathi ukuqala.
Ewe, kulungile xa abazali bobabili befuna intombi ukuba izalwe. Inyaniso kukuba i-psychology yethu kunye namandla angathintela umntwana ozayo, kumlinganiselo omkhulu okanye ngaphantsi. Ngoko ke, ukuba indoda ayifuni intombi, kodwa yindodana, kunokwenzeka ukuba uya kuphazamisana neendlela zakho ezininzi kunye nomnqweno wakhe. Ngokwemvelo, oku akuthethi ukuba iminqweno yakhe imthintela into yokuba intombazana ingazalwa, kuba iminqweno yakho idlala indima apha.
Kodwa, kwakhona, kuhle kakhulu xa wena kunye nomthandayo wakho ufuna intombi. Ngendlela, izazi zeengqondo zikholelwa ukuba amakhwenkwe afuna iintombi ngenxa yokuba zibona kubo abafazi abafanelekileyo abangasoze baphoswa baze bazinikele. Bafuna ukubona okulungileyo kwiintombi zabo, bafuna ukuzinyamekela kwaye bazive ukuba amantombazana athembele kubabawo. Mhlawumbi oku kungenxa yokuba abanye abantu baye baxhalabisa ngengqondo kunye nabasetyhini kunye neentombi zabo bekhangela into ababeyidlalayo.
Kodwa, nangona kunjalo, ngoku asikhulumi malunga neengqondo zabantu, kodwa malunga nendlela yokuzala intombazana. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ngokukhawuleza kulungile ukuba sikhumbule ukuba ayikho enye indlela echazwe ngezantsi ayiyi kunika isiqinisekiso esilikhulu. Kodwa, nangona kunjalo, ezinye zazo zinceda ukwandisa amathuba okuba umntwana wesini esithile ukuya kuma-90 ekhulwini.
Ngoko, makhe sithethe ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo zokucwangcisa ngesondo somntwana.
Ngokomzekelo, kukho indlela enjalo, isiseko sokubala okuchanekileyo ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Le ndlela ibizwa ngokuba yiShettles. Yintoni le ndlela yokucwangcisa? Phantse wonke umntu uyazi ukuba isondo somntwana kuxhomekeke kwi-spermatozoa, apho kukho i-chromosomes yamadoda namabhinqa. Banobude obude bokuphila. Ngokomzekelo, kwaziwa ukuba ii-kromosomes zamabhinqa zihlala iintsuku eziliqela, kunye nabesilisa - ngeeyure ezingama-24. Ngoko ke, ukuba ufuna intombazana, ngoko kufuneka ulale ngesondo iintsuku ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokuba u-ovulation. Ngendlela, akubona bonke abafazi abazi ukubala ixesha le-ovulation. Enyanisweni, akunzima kuwo onke, kodwa, uya kufuna ixesha elithile ukuchonga ngokuchanekileyo yonke into. Ukuqala, kwiinyanga ezimbini ukuya kwethathu, ulinganise ukushisa okusemgangathweni ekuseni, ngaphambi kokuba uphume ebhedeni uze uphawule idatha kwigrafu. Ungayisebenzisa ukucacisa umhla wokuvuthwa, kuba kungomhla lo bushushu buhlahla, kwaye ngosuku olulandelayo, ngokuphindaphindiweyo, lukhuphukela kuma-degrees angamashumi amathathu anesixhenxe. Ukongezelela, ngomhla wokuphefumula, phantse bonke abafazi bafumana ubuhlungu obukhulu kwisisu esisisiswini, kunye nesicathulo esincinci kunye nesisu.
Ukuze ukhulelwe umntwana wesini esithile, kufuneka udle isidlo esifanelekileyo. Abantu abaninzi banokuyicinga njengengqungquthela, kodwa sele ibonakaliswe ukuba ukutya kokubeletha kunokunceda ekuqaliseni isondo somntwana ozayo. Ngendlela, kufuneka kuphawulwe ukuba kungekhona nje umfazi, kodwa umntu kufuneka adle ukutya okuthe ngqo. Ukwahlukana kukuba umfana kufuneka enze oku kuphela ngaphambi kokukhulelwe, kwaye intombazana kufuneka ihambelane nokutya okuthile kunye neenyanga ezimbini zokuqala ukuya kweenyanga ezintathu zokukhulelwa.
Ngoko, ufanele uchithe ukuba ube nentombazana? Kukholelwa ukuba ukutya komama ozayo kufuneka kufake imifuno eninzi, iziqhamo kunye nelayisi. Ukutya apho umfazi odlayo kufuneka abe ne-calcium kunye ne-magnesium. Ngokomzekelo, phakathi kwezitya zakho, iindawo eziqhelekileyo kufuneka zibe yidayisi ye-rice, isaladi yemifuno okanye i-stew, kunye neeshizi zebhokhwe. Kodwa iibhanana kunye namazambane kungcono ukuba ungadli, kuba ziqukethe i-potassium eninzi, ebangela ukuba umfana abe nomntwana. Oku kutya kufuneka kuqalwe ngaphandle kweentsuku ezintathu ngaphambi kokuba ukhulelwe. Kodwa, ukulungele ukhetho, xa esi sibini sihlala kwisidlo seveki ezintandathu ngaphambi kokuba ixesha lokuchumisa.
Ngendlela, amantombazana afuna ukubeletha intombazana ayicetyiswa ukuba adle amnandi kunye nomgubo. Kodwa inyama iya kukhishwa ngaphandle kokutya. Iibisi, ngaphandle kwebhokhwe, ekhankanywe ngasentla, kungcono ukuba ungasebenzisi. Kodwa, kuyimfuneko ukuba nilumkise ngokukhawuleza amantombazana ukuba ngaphambi kokuhlala ukutya okunjalo, kufuneka uhlale unxibelelana nogqirha, njengokuba abanye abafazi bengavumelekile ukuba bajonge isilwanyana.
Sekunjalo, ezinye izibini zisebenzisa i-biorhythms. Iqulethwe kukuba inkolelo yomntwana wesini esithile, inhlanganisela ethile ye-biorhythms iyimfuneko. Ukuba uqokelela ikhalenda nganye yeso sibini, unokukwazi ukubona ngokukhawuleza xa unokukhulelwa intombazana.
Ungakwazi kwakhona ukujonga ngesondo ngendlela yokuvuselelwa kwegazi. Kukholelwa ukuba emzimbeni womntu igazi lihlaziywa minyaka emine, kwaye emzimbeni wowesifazane-emithathu iminyaka. Ngoko ke, kuyimfuneko ukwahlula ubudala bomfazi ngamathathu kunye nobudala bomntu abane. Ukuba ibhalansi enkulu kumfazi - kuya kuba nentombazana. Ngendlela, kule ndlela kukho "kodwa". Kwimeko apho umama weR Rh unobungozi, umphumo uyahluke.
Iindlela ezidwelisweyo zikude kuzo zonke ezingasetyenziselwa ukukhulelwa umntwana wesini esithile. Kukho iindlela ezininzi zesayensi. Ngoko ke, ukuba ufuna intombi - nceda ube nomonde kwaye unolwazi. Emva koko uya kuphumelela.