Ukuthi ukungathembeki kwamathambo kuthatha phi?
Ukususela ebuntwaneni. Iingcali zengqondo zikholelwa ukuba ukungabikho kwothando ebuntwaneni, kunye nolwazi olubi lukaMama, lunokubangela ukungaqiniseki kwaye ngenxa yoko, ukungathembeki kubantu
- Ukungaphumeleli kwamava adlulileyo.
- Ukuxhalabisa ngokwexesha elizayo.
- Ukungathandabuzeki
Asiyi kuxoxa ngesihloko sokungathembeki okulungileyo okanye kakubi. Ngokuqinisekileyo ukungathembeki kwenza kakubi kumfazi! Ukuba ukungathembeki kuqala ukuhluma engqondweni yakho nangomphefumlo wakho, kufuneka uzame ukuyichitha. Yaye ukuba i sizathu? Nangona ukungathembeki kungekhona, akufaneleki ukunika ingcambu ejulile emphefumlweni wakho. Inyaniso kukuba ukungathembeki kwindoda ayikwazi ukubonakala kuwe kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi bakho. Kwaye uya kuqala ukubonisa ukungakholelwa kubuhlobo obusemsebenzini, kunye nabahlobo, nabantwana kunye nobomi ngokwabo.
Yintoni ethembekileyo?
Ithemba linamandla omntu ukugcina intliziyo yakhe ivulekile! Yaye ukuthembela sisiseko sobunye ubudlelwane. Oku akuthethi kuphela oko ufuna ukukholelwa kwabanye, kodwa umnqweno wokugcina intliziyo ivulekele ubomi kunye nabanye kuzo zonke iimeko. Oku kunzima!
Ubomi bomntu siqu, ukuthembela kukubalulekileyo ekuphumeleleni nasentlalweni!
Iingcali zenzululwazi ziye zafumanisa isizathu sokungathembeki kwabesifazane?
Izibalo zibonisa ukuba abasetyhini banakho amathuba okungathembeli amadoda kunamadoda kubafazi. Kwaye ke, umkhwa woluntu ukukhangela kuyo yonke into ngencazelo yesayensi ayizange iphumelele.
Izazinzulu zaseDutch zanquma ukuchaza ukuba kutheni oku kwenzekayo. Kwinkqubo yokuzama, izazinzulu ziye zafika kwisigqibo sokuba ukungathembeki kumadoda kuhambelana ngqo nomlinganiselo we-testosterone wesifazane, i-hormone yesintu emzimbeni. Inani elongeziweyo le nkunkuma liya kubangela ukungathembeki kumadoda. Oku kubangelwa ukuba i-testosterone, ngelixa likhuphuka, livimba i-hormone yenjabulo ye-oxytocin kwimizimba yabasetyhini, ekunciphiseni izinga lokuzithemba kwi-croakers.
Indlela yokufunda ukuthembela kubuhlobo?
Isinyathelo sokuqala esibalulekileyo kukubona ukuba kukho ingxaki. Ungajonga njani? Phawula indlela osabela ngayo kwintlanzi yeenwele kwiingubo okanye i-sequin kwikheythi yakho oyithandayo? Ukuba imbono yokuqala ye-obizmeni, sele isele imfuneko yokubetha i-alamu.
- Indlela eyona ndlela iphumelelayo kukuba wenze ukuzihlola kwakho kwaye, ekugqibeleni, qalisa ukuzithanda ngokwenene. Phakamisa indlela yokuzineliseka. Kuwumsebenzi onzima nokusebenza kanzima ekuthandweni kwakho, kunokuba utyumle ubunzima obunqabileyo kunye nokungahambisani nokungahambi.
- Thatha ubunikazi ngokuziphatha. Kufuneka uyeke ukulawula! Imfono engapheli kumyeni wayo, ukufunda iimeyile, iifom, njl. Kubalulekile ukumisa ukuba umntu akayiyo impahla yakho, kodwa umntu ohlukeneyo onqwenelayo kunye nemithetho kwaye, ngokungaqhelekanga, amalungelo. Ulawulo aluyi kuba yintshixo ekukholweni.
- Amandla axelwe ukudala imeko ephosakeleyo endlwini, ukwakha uxhumano lwengqondo kunye nendoda kunye nokukhanga kwakhe. Into eyenzeka kukuba xa kuvela i-mistrusts, ezi zinto zichaphazeleka ngokukhawuleza.
Isiphetho esipheleleyo. Ukuba umgomo wakho kukugcina ulwalamano, ngoko kufuneka uzenzele ingqalelo, yenza izinto ozithandayo, uhlakulele iinkalo ezonwabisayo zobomi, ngokubanzi, nangayiphi na indlela, phawula ukuzithemba kwakho.
Ungayijonga njani ngokufanelekileyo?
Ukuba ukukrokrelwa kwakho akusiyinto yokunyusa, kodwa imeko ephindaphindiweyo. Enyanisweni, kudla ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba izikhalazo azikho phantsi. Ngokuqhelekileyo uthemba umntu, kodwa kukho izizathu zokungathembeki.
Okokuqala, kufuneka uqalise ngokukhawuleza amanyathelo achazwe ngasentla. Emva koko ukhangele ukuba ukwesaba kwakho kungenasiphelo. Ungajonga njani? Okokuqala, sigqibo ngokucacileyo-ngaba ufuna ngokwenene ukujonga kwaye uza kwenza ntoni emva koko? Nayiphi na ibhinqa elaneleyo lingachazela ukuba kulungile ukuba uthethe ukuba uthembele indoda kule ndawo okanye kuloo meko ngaphandle kokuhlola. Kodwa ukuba unqume ukukhangela oko unako:
Khangela nje ukuyihlola ngokuthula, usebenzisa uncedo lomcuphi. Kule meko, kulungile.
Ukunyaniseka ukuthetha nendoda. Eli nyathelo libafazi abanobugorha nabanelisayo. Kwaye ukuba ukuba phakathi kwakho nomntu wakho ubuhlobo bokomoya, oko kuya kuzuza kuphela. Kodwa le ndlela ayiqhelekanga.
Kukho iindlela zamachiza zamanje zokuvavanya.
Izindlela zamanje ezisetyenziswa kakhulu kwihlabathi eliphucukileyo
Ekuqaleni kwekhulu lama-21, abantu babeye batyebile kakhulu. Awukho uhlaselo olukhethiweyo!
Ngokomzekelo, eJapan, abafazi benqaba ukuhlazisa i-lipstick ukuhlola kwiikholeji zabo baze bafune abanye abantu bavumba. Ukulawula abayeni baqala ukusebenzisa i-nebulizer, esekelwe kwi-chemical compound, esetyenziswa kwiimviwo zonyango. Isebenza njengephepha le-litmus. Xa uchithelwa kwindawo yokuhlamba, iimpawu zenguqu ziba luhlaza.
Ukuthengiswa kwezi mali kuqhubeka eJapan ngokuhlakanipha! Kuyafaneleka kakhulu - i-dollar ezingama-280. Kwaye izibalo zidanisa: abathengi abaziintloko ngabasetyhini. Iindlela ezifanayo ziqhelekileyo eNgilani. Ukuthandwa kwabo kukhula kuphela.
Isiphelo. Yithemba okanye ungathembeli, hlola okanye ungakhangeli - kufikelela kuwe. Kodwa isiphetho esibalulekileyo kukuba: Ukuba uyamthanda ngokwenene umntu wakho kwaye ulwalamano oluqinileyo, kufuneka uthembele kuye. Kuyathemba ukuba uyisiqinisekiso sovuyo kunye nokuvisisana emphefumlweni womfazi. Ukuba uluthando lokwenene, akufuneki ukuba ukhangele izizathu zokuvuma.