Njengabazali, awufuni ukukholelwa ukuba umntwana wakho unokufumana iingxaki, ngokubhekiselele kwimpilo yakhe.
Izimpawu ze-Autism
Kubaluleke kakhulu kukuchazwa kwe-autism kubantwana abangaphantsi kweenyanga ezilishumi elinesibhozo. Kule minyaka, impembelelo yonyango kwiimpawu ze-autism inokusebenza kakuhle. Kodwa kungakhathaliseki ukuba ngumntwana wakho ubudala, ungalilahli ithemba lokuba uya kubuyiselwa. Unyango lunokunciphisa umphumo wesifo kwaye uncede umntwana afunde, akhule kwaye aphumelele.
Izimpawu ze-Autistic zivela ebusaneni nasebuncinaneni, kubangela ukulibazisa kwiindawo ezininzi eziphambili zophuhliso, ezifana nokufunda ukuthetha, ukudlala nokusebenzisana nabanye.
Iimpawu kunye neempawu ze-autism kubantwana ziyahluka kakhulu ngemiphumo yesifo. Abanye abantwana be-autistic banokuphazamiseka okuncinci, kanti abanye banemithintelo emininzi yokulwa nesifo. Nangona kunjalo, wonke umntwana onemiqondiso ye-autism unenkathazo, ubuncinane kumgangatho othile, kule mimandla emithathu elandelayo:
- Unxibelelwano ngomlomo nangengqiqo
- Isimo sengqondo kwabanye abantu kunye nehlabathi elibangqongileyo
- Ukucinga kunye nokuziphatha okuguquguqukayo.
Kukho imibono eyahlukileyo phakathi koogqirha, abazali kunye neengcali malunga nento ebangela i-autism kunye nendlela engcono yokuyiphatha ngayo, kuba enye into esingazi ngayo. Kodwa ngombuzo owodwa, wonke umntu uyavuma: ukungenelela kwangaphambili nangamandla kunceda ukuphucula impilo yomntwana.
Nangona i-autism ihlala yimeko yokuphila, ukungenelela unyango kunye nokunyanga kunokunciphisa iimpawu kwaye kuphuculwe izakhono kunye nobuchule. Unyango ulungele ukuqala ngokukhawuleza, uncedo lwonyango lunokuqhubeka lonke ubomi.
Izifundo zibonisa ukuba abantwana abane-autism banamathele kubazali babo. Nangona kunjalo, indlela abavakalisa ngayo oku kufakelwayo ingaqhelekanga. Bobabini abantwana kunye nabantu abadala abane-autism, njengomthetho, bajamelana nobunzima ekuchazeni abanye abantu abacinga nokuvakalelwa ngayo. Abantu abaninzi abane-autismomi baneengxaki ezifanayo ekuboneni izinto ngombono womnye umntu. Umntu onobungozi kunzima ukuphazamisa ukukwazi ukuchaza okanye ukuqonda izenzo zomnye umntu.
I-Autism inokukhokelela ekuziphatheni komzimba nokuziphatha okubi. Ukunyamekela ukulawulwa kwezenzo kunokuba kubonakale ngokugqithiseleyo kwimeko engaziwayo, enefuthe elikhulu kunye nesimo sokudumala. Ukuphazamiseka kungakhokelela ekuziphatheni okubi (ukubetha intloko yakho, ukudonsa iinwele zakho okanye ukuzilimaza).
Ukuxilongwa kwangaphambili kwe-autism
Abazali ngabokuqala ukufumana iimpawu eziphazamisayo zokuqala ze-autism. Uyazi umntanakho kangcono kunanoma ubani kwaye ubukele indlela yakhe yokuziphatha kunye neengxaki zezilwanyana, ezingaboniyo abantwana abangaboni ngexesha loviwo lwexesha elifutshane lomntwana. Udokotela wezilwanyana unokuba ngumlingani oxabisekileyo, unikezele ngokubona kwakho kunye namava. Into ephambili kukuba unokukwazi ukuba le meko iyinto eqhelekileyo okanye kukho ukuphambuka kokuziphatha komntwana wakho.
Ukubeka esweni uphuhliso lwakho lomntwana
I-Autism ibandakanya ukulibaziseka okuhlukeneyo, ngoko ukuqwalasela ngenyameko kwinqanaba lezenhlalakahle, ngokwengqondo nangokwenkcazo yindlela efanelekileyo yokufumana iingxaki ekuqaleni. Nangona ukulibaziseka kokuphuhlisa akubonakali ngokuzenzekelayo nge-autism, bangabonisa ingozi eyongeziweyo.
Amanyathelo athatyathwe
Umntwana ngamnye ukhula ngamazinga ahlukeneyo, ukuze abazali bangadingi ukuba xa umntwana eqala ukuthetha okanye ehamba ngokukhawuleza. Xa kuziwa ekuphuculweni okuphilileyo, kukho uluhlu olubanzi lweemeko zendalo. Kodwa ukuba umntwana wakho akwenzi izigaba ezisisiseko ngokubhekiselele kwiminyaka yobudala okanye uxolisa iingxaki, wabelana ngogqirha wakho kunye nodokotela wengane yakho ngokukhawuleza. Musa ukulinda! Nangona kunjalo, abaninzi abazali abanenkathalo bathi: "Musa ukukhathazeka" okanye "Lindani nibone." Musa ukulinda uze ulahlekelwe ixesha elixabisekileyo. Ukuqala unyango kuqala, amathuba omntwana kufuneka aphucule impilo yakhe. Ukongezelela, kubalulekile ukufumanisa ukuba ukulibaziseka ekuphuhliseni kubangelwa yi-autism, okanye esinye isizathu.