Umama omncinci, eendongeni zendabuko, uziva uvuyo kunye nokukhululeka. Ngoku uya kuyinyamekela umntwana kwiindawo eziqhelekileyo. Kwaye kuya kumnceda kule nto kungeyena umyeni wakhe kuphela, kodwa kunye nezihlobo, ezinokumncoma kunye nezifiso ziya kufudumala intliziyo. Nangona kunjalo, abanye abayithandi ingxolo engapheliyo kwaye bafuna ukukhawuleza ukuba baphumelele kwintsapho yoxolo xa kukho ezintathu kuphela. Kwaye umntu uloyiko lokuba abayi kuhlangabezana nemisebenzi emitsha. Kodwa bonke oomama abancinci bafuna ukufudumala nokuthuthuzela ngosuku ababuya ngalo esibhedlele. Oku kuya kwenzeka ukuba yonke into icingelwa kwangaphambili.
Ndifuna kanjalo ...
Usuku lokuqala ekhaya wena kunye nosana unelungelo lokubamba ukuze uziva ulungile. Ncitshitshise imeko, leyo ingabangela ukucaphukisa kunye nokuphazamiseka. Ukuba awufuni ukudibana nomnye umntu ngaphandle komyeni wakho ngomhla wokukhutshwa kwakho, ndixelele ngawo. Ndixelele ukuba ulindele ukuba wonke umntu atyelele kamva. Ngokuqhelekileyo kuphela ootatomkhulu ovumelekileyo ukuba babone iimvumba kuqala. Ngokuqhelekileyo ubukho babo obubanceda abazali abatsha ukuba bavumelane ngokukhawuleza. Buza umyeni wakho nabazali ukuba bahlambulule indlu, hlamba iingubo zakho, ventile amagumbi kakuhle. Kwinyanga edlulileyo wenze uluhlu lwezinto zonke izalamane kufuneka zifike kumntwana wakho ngokubuyela ekhaya. Maye baqinisekise ukuba isisindo esibalulekileyo siyathengwa. Ungakhathazeki ukuba akukho mveliso kwiqrijini. Inokwenzeka ukuba, izalamane ziza kusombulula le ngxaki, kwaye umama okanye othandekayo uya kulungiselela ukutya bonke abantu, kuba bayaqonda ukuba kunzima kangakanani emva kokuzalwa ukuma kwisitofu. Khumbulani ukuba udinga amabhanana, ii-apulo, amabhisikidi.
Hlangana, siye safika!
Utata wayeziphakamise ngokuqhayisa imvilophu exabisekileyo endlwini, kwaye umama, ukhathala kancinci, wamomotheka, waya kubeka iintyatyambo kwiifestile. Ukususela ngeli xesha, abazali abancinane baqala ubomi obuhluke ngokupheleleyo. Okwangoku, umntwana unokufakwa kwindawo yokulala. Ukutya okudliwayo ngaphambi kokuba uhambe, ulele ubuthongo. Kakade, wonke umntu, kwaye ngokukodwa umyeni wakhe, ufuna ukunyamekela ingqalelo umntwana. Vumela izihlobo zibone umntwana. Uyakuva ulwandle lwamancoma: "Oo, yintoni enhle! .."
Qaphela umcimbi
Ukuba unamandla kunye nomnqweno, qulunqa iqela elincinane lentsapho ngokuhlonipha intsana. Iqela elimnandi ngoku - kungeyona nto ingcono. Ukubhiyozelwa kwentsapho, iiyure ziyakwanela. Intsapho iyanele ukuqokelela kwithebhile yekhitshi ukuze ndibulele umama ngenxa yentsana enhle kwaye unqwenela ngenene ukuba bonke abazali abatsha bahamba phambili. Ungabi ngamagama afudumele, kodwa uwamkele kwaye udlule kuwe: ewe, umntwana wam uya kuba nempilo; Ewe, uya kuvuyisa; Ewe, ndinomonde; Ewe, siya kuphinda siphumelele! .. Nangaloo mini uthatha isigqibo sokuchitha yedwa kunye ne-crumb, ke mhlawumbi, uya kuthanda ukuthokoza nje kuphela, ukuba unqwenela ukunqwenela iiglasi ... kunye netizi elimnandi. Into eyona nto kukuba awuyikuxina, kodwa ujabulele umoya ofudumalayo lwasekhaya.
Ummangaliso omncinci
Emva kokuba zonke izalamane zihambile, ukuya kwelinye igumbi, ixesha lakho liya kufika. Ukuhlala kunye nomntwana omnye komnye, khumbula oko konke okuqala ngawo. Unqumle njani ukuba nomntwana (okanye ngaba unqumle into yonke kuwe?). Njengomyeni kwi-trimester yokuqala, ukuba ungabhubhisi umonakalo we-toxicosis, awuzange usebenzise i-lotion yakho eyintandokazi, ukubeka kuwe ukulala ngokukhululekile kwiimfestile ... Mhlawumbi, kuya kuba mnandi kakhulu ukuba uthethe ngomculo othulileyo okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, ufuna ukuthula, ophukileyo kuphela iziqhekeza ... okanye mhlawumbi umntwana sele evukile ukutya okulandelayo. Shintsha i-diaper uze uyidle. Okanye utshintshe umyalelo. Ingane yakho iya kukuxelela oko kubaluleke ngoku ngoku. Indoda iya kuyibona okokuqala kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo iya kuba neengxaki ezinzulu: ukunyamekela umntwana, uthando nokubulela kuwe. Ungamangaliswa ukuba ngexesha lokutya kweemvuthu emehlweni omthandayo uya kuphawula ukunyaniseka - kuye konke oku kutsha. Uya kuziva uzijikelezileyo ngononophelo: uninzi lwenkxaso nenkxaso, kunye nezandla zakho - ikusasa lakho eliqhelekileyo.