Imidlalo yokuzonwabisa kunye nokuzonwabisa kubantwana

Umdlalo wokufihla kunye nokufuna ubonakala ebomini kwintsana enye yokuqala. Kutheni abantwana bathanda ukubukeka nokufihla kangaka? Ziziphi iindidi zalo mdlalo onomdla onokunikezelwa kumntwana? Indawo efanelekileyo yokuzonwabisa kunye nokuzonwabisa kubantwana - oku kuyimfuneko ukuba ngamnye umzali angamncedi umntwana wakhe.

Ukususela kwiinyanga zokuqala

Kwiinyanga ezi-6 umntwana usenokufunda itekisi, nokuba ngaba isiqingatha sihlanganiswe nento ethile. Ukuba kukho iqela lento, ke kukho into epheleleyo - oku kukuvula kwenyanga eneminyaka ezintandathu! UKroha unomdla kakhulu kwizinto ezinje "ezifihlakeleyo" kwaye 'ziyabakhangela'. Kodwa ukuba ukutshatyalaliswa kwaphela kwaphela emva kwe-diaper, umntwana akayi kuwukhangela - emva koko, umntwana ufunda umthetho wokuzinza kwezinto ezingekho kwisigaba, kodwa kuphela ngenyanga. Ukuba iinyanga ezisixhenxe zenyanga zidlala i-toy ephantsi, iya kuqonda ukuba ilala khona. Ukufunyanwa kwale minyaka kwenza kube lula ukwenza imidlalo yokuzifihla kunye nobunzima. Ukususela emntwaneni, ekugqibeleni, unokukufihla ngokupheleleyo into leyo, kuphela kufuneka uyenze phambi kwamehlo akhe - uvuyo lokubonakala kwebhoyiyitha etshabalalayo iya kumenza aphinde akhangele phantsi komsila, i-diaper, isitya ...

Iinkalo ezahlukeneyo kunye neebhokisi, izimbiza, izikhwama, iehokethi zilungisa ulwazi lwesana olusibhozo lwenyanga ezisibhozo malunga nemfihlakalo yezinto ezilahlekileyo. Umntwana ubuza yonke ixesha umbuzo othi: "Ukuba ndibeka i-teddy bear kwisikhwama, ngaba iya kulala apho ndiyivula kwakhona?" Okanye: "Ukuba umama ngokwakhe ushiya ekamelweni ukuthetha kwifowuni, ngaba unokuthi ulahleke okanye Ilizwi lakhe bubungqina bokuba akahambanga kude? "Umbuzo wokugqibela ngowona owona mkhulu kweli nqanaba. Ukuqhotyoshela okukhethekileyo kubantwana kubazali babo kwenza ukuba bahlale bebeka iliso kwiindawo zabo. Kwaye akusekho umdlalo wokufihla-nokufuna, kodwa ukhathazeka nokuxinzezeleka. Umntwana uqala ukukhenkceza, ujikeleze indlu, kwaye oku kukukhululeka: uye ekamelweni elilandelayo uze ukhangele ukuba kusekho umama - iphupha elidala lomntwana. Kwiinyanga ezithoba, umntwana uyazi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuzinza kwezinto, kwaye ngoku unomdla kwiindlela ezahlukeneyo zokufihla nokufuna. Ungayifihla phantsi kwebheki - umntwana, ehleli kwisibhedlele, ukhupha le mkhusane kwaye akayi kuwa. Unokuyiphonsa ithoyilo encinci kwi-cam - xa uyibona le nto, uya kuzama ukukhupha isandla sakho kwaye ufumane ukulahleka. Umntwana ngokwakhe unokufihla ikyube ebhokisini kwaye uyifumane, ukugubha. Kwiinyanga ezili-11 "ukukhohlisa" umntwana ukuba abe nzima nakakhulu. Akayi kukhangela into apho uthabathe khona. I-crumb ijonge ngenyameko isandla sakho kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo iya kufumana into efihliweyo

Kwaye ubomi ...

Iimidlalo zokufihla kunye nokuzifuna zihlaziywa kwaye zikhule "kunye" kunye nosana. Emva koko, umntu ngamnye udla ukujonga into ethile, ukufumana okanye ukufihla.

Emva kweglasi

Zama ukubeka itekisi emva kwesithintelo esicacileyo. Cela umntwana ukuba amfumane. Qaphela ukuba i-crumb izakuzama ukuthatha le nto yokudlala ngokukhawuleza ngokukhawulelana nayo.

Vala isiqhekeza

Nika umntwana izitya ezininzi kunye neebhondi kubo. Thatha nayiphi na into yokudlala uze uyibeke ngaphakathi, uyivale ngesiqhekeza esifanelekileyo. Ingane ikhupha into yokudlala, ize izame ukuzifihla. Ubunzima balo mdlalo akukugcini nje ukubeka into ngaphakathi, kodwa ikwagubungela ngesiqubuthelo sobukhulu obufanelekileyo. Unako ukunika umntwana wakho ukuba aqale ngeenkonkxa ezivaliweyo: uya kuzivula aze afumane ngaphakathi kwelinye lala ithoyizi yakhe. Unokuthabatha amathoyizi ambalwa uze ufake enye kwisitya-oko kukunomdla ngakumbi. Ngoku kufuneka sifumane ibhere, uze uqagele apho umatshini ulele khona.

Kwi-leash

Khetha ezimbini zokudlala kwaye uzibophe kwi-ribbon yemibala eyahlukileyo. Bonisa umntwana ukuba unokukrazula itapeyipu uze uyidonse ezi zixhobo. Ngoku zifihla enye ithoyizi, kwaye ke zombini, kwaye ushiye kuphela iziphelo zerbhoni. Vumela inkunzi yokuqala iqonde nje iibheyi, uze uzame ukukhupha kanye nento oya kubiza yona. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka akhumbule ukuba yiyiphi ibhontshi ebophelelwe kuyo. Xa uneminyaka yobudala, inani lamathoyi kunye neebhanki ezinemibala zinganyuswa. Xa uneminyaka engama-4, unokwazi ukubonelela nge-4 okanye i-pairs. Ukunika umntwana ukuba afumane kwaye afihle, ubeka izakhono ezibalulekileyo, uhlakulele ukucinga okucingileyo, kwimidlalo emininzi - izakhono ezifanelekileyo zezithuthi, ukukwazi ukuhamba kwindawo, inkulumo. Yonke le mbonga kumdlalo wokufihla kwaye ufuna!

Ubani e-buckwheat?

Unokunika umntwana ukuba afune izinto kwindawo ethile. Lo msebenzi uya kumphazamisa umntwana kwi-whims, ngelixa udibana ngesidlo sakusihlwa. Umntwana omdala unokuba nzima ukwenza umsebenzi, ukunikela ukuba angaboni ngezandla zakhe, kodwa ngepuni okanye nge-tongs. Yaye ukuba uthetha izinto ezithile zesebe, zinike umbane.

Amanzi amaninzi

Thatha iikomityi ezifihliweyo kunye nezimbiza ezininzi zegouache. Kwisitya uthele amanzi kwaye ufake izinto ezibalawuli: iibhola, iinxalenye zomqambi-into ekhoyo. Imibala yabo imele ifane nombala we-gouache. Gqiba i-brush, umzekelo, kwipeyinti eluhlaza uze uchithe i-gouache emanzini, apho into eluhlaza ihlala khona. Phinda uphakamise ukuze itekisi ingabonakali. Ngoku, vumela umntwana ukuba afihle into ebomvu, aze aphuzi.

Kwi sandbox

Apha ungabonisa umntwana ukuba enze "abhaliphi" - bonke abantu abadala bakhumbula indlela ebuntwaneni bembelwa ngayo i-candy wrappers emhlabathini, egutyungelwe ngeglasi, kwaye, ngokucokisekileyo ukucoca isanti, wayeyithanda imifanekiso. Kwiintsana kulungele ukusebenzisa ifilimu elukhuni ebonakalayo, apho amathoyizi adla ngokutsha.

Phantse ufihle kwaye ufune

Imithetho yendawo yokufihla kunye nokufuna ukwazi yonke into. Umqhubi umile eludongeni ngelixa abanye abadlali bafihlekile. Emva koko uqala ukubakhangela. Zama ukunikela ingcaciso entshonalanga yalo mdlalo kubafana. Ibizwa ngokuthi "i-sardines". Ukufihla yodwa, kodwa ukukhangela konke. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba umdlali ufumana indawo yokucasha, kufuneka amjoyine. Umdlalo uphela xa iqhawe lokugqibela lidibana nabo bonke. Ngaphandle kokuba nensima enkulu, ungadlala nomntwana kwi "Hot-Cold". Kubalulekile ukufihla into ekwiklasi kwaye uxelele imvumba indawo yayo ngamazwi: "kubanda" - kude kude nomxholo othi, "ukufudumala" - kufuphi nomxholo kwaye "ushushu" -kufutshane kakhulu.

Ukuhlala esihlalweni

Ifihla leyo kwaye ifuna kakuhle ngexesha lokulungiselela umbhede okanye ukulinda kumgca. Fumana ileta F, iqhosha elibomvu, iqhosha okanye nokuba nenombolo 12 - njalo njalo, kuxhomekeke kwimbindi.

NgezoBomi ngokucwangcisa

Kwiphepha lephepha, yenza isicwangciso segumbi. Kwabantwana abaneminyaka emibini okanye emithathu, zama ukuthabatha ifenitshala ngcaciso encinane kunokwesiko kwizicwangciso. Hlanganisa nomntwana izinto eziboniswa kumfanekiso. Vumela i-crumb ifike kulokho ubonisa khona kumfanekiso. Ngokubanzi, qiniseka ukuba umntwana uyakwazi "ukufunda imephu." Fihla i-candy, isipho esincinane okanye nje ithoyizi ethile kwigumbi, kwaye kwiplani, umele i-cache ngomnqamlezo. Cetyisa umntwana ukuba afune "ubutyebi".

Kwaye nangaphezulu ...

Kumidlalo yokufihla nokufuna ingabonwa kwaye yonke imisebenzi equle amagama athi "fumana", "fumana" kunye nezinto ezinjalo. Emva koko, ukuba kukho into efuna ukuyifumana, ithetha ukuba le "nto" ifihliwe. Nika umntwana imifanekiso apho ufuna ukufumana ukungafani, ukufumana izilwanyana, ukufumana isithunzi esifanele wonke umntu. Mema umntwana ukuba afune iibini zeesokisi zakhe okanye amatshini. Unokwenza iingxowa ezibiniweyo ngezizaliso ezahlukeneyo - ilayisi, iipasta, i-cotton, imifino, isitashi, iphepha eliqhekekileyo-kwaye ujonge isibini ukuba uthinte. Mema umntwana ukuba athole umdlalo owenzayo. Ukutyala izilwanyana ezinkulu kumntwana kwaye umxelele iimpawu zomntu olahlekileyo okanye "idilesi" yakhe (uhleli phakathi kwe-squirrel kunye nebhere okanye ngasekunene le-squirrel ...). Unokucela umntwana ukuba avaliwe amehlo akhe aze asuse enye yeeyayidayim - kufuneka ukuba uphendule umbuzo: ngubani ofihlayo?