Amadoda, njengabasetyhini bolu phawu, banokutshintshwa kwimiba eguqukileyo, ngoko musa ukumangaliswa ngenguqu ephazamisayo yokunyaniseka kunye nokunganakwa ukunyaniseka okungekho nto. Nangona lo mkhuba kumadoda awuqhelekanga.
Le ndlela yokuziphatha ishukunyiswa ngumntu osisigxina saloluphawu - iNyanga. Ukongezelela, kunika iimpawu ezintle ezifana nokuphupha, okudibaniswe nokusebenza, ukuqonda, ukukwazi ukuyiqonda kakuhle.
Iintsholongwane zinesidingo esikhulu sothando kunye nokunyamekela, kodwa banamahloni kwaye banqabile ekuthandaneni kunye nothando. Umgaqo "amanyathelo amabini ngasemva kunye nomnye phambili" uya kuthanda ubudlelwane. Inkathazo yonke kukuba iiKhansela zihlala zikhuselekile kwimvakalelo yazo.
Ukuba umfazi onomdla, onentlonelo ungowomntu weCancer, unokungqonge umdlavuza wakhe othandekayo ngokunyamekela kunye nokunyamekela, amaxesha amaninzi ngemini uya kuthetha ngothando lwakhe, okuya kubangela ukuba umdlavuza uphume kwigobolondo lakhe.
I-Cancer iya kuba nombulelo kakhulu ngale meko kwaye ngenxa yoko uya kuyakhela umfazi wayo oyintanda ubomi obukhuselekileyo noxolo. Nangona abameli balo mqondiso benesidingo sothando kunye nothando, banako ukuba ngumfazi wabo olo donga lwamatye elithandayo.
Indawo ehloniphekileyo ebomini yomntu-I-Cancer inikwe unina. Uninzi lweCancer lubona njengelungileyo labesifazana. Ngale ndlela ba khokelwa xa bekhetha iqabane lomntu. Umda weephupha zeCarcer ngumfazi onokuba ngcono kunomama, ngelixa encedisa ukuxhasa i-pedestal, eyakhiwe ngumntu.
Isiqingatha sesibini sesibonakaliso se-zodiac I-Cancer ineengcamango zayo malunga nomfazi ofanelekileyo. Le ndoda imbophelela ngokulula kwaye ilula ngokunyanzela ukunyanzela imifanekiso yothando, iphinda ihambe ngokulula, kodwa ikhetha iqabane lobomi ngokukhawuleza nangokufanelekileyo.
Xa efumana kwibhinqa ingcamango yezinto ezakhiweyo, uyeka ukubuyela emva kwaye uthathe amanyathelo asebenzayo: uba ngumtsalane kakhulu, akayi kukhangela izipho kunye nokuncoma. Ukuba ukususela kwiCarcer uva amazwi omthandayo, ngoko uya kulandela isigwebo, apho ungenakukukhanyela khona. Kwimeko yokulungelelanisa, lo mntu uya kukwazi ukuzungeze wakhethayo ngoxolo nokukhuseleka, kwaye kunokwenzeka ukuba ubomi bunomdlavuza wesilisa bunikwa.
Ngaba unqwenele ukuphumelela intliziyo yendoda? Ukongezelela, umsebenzi unzima kakhulu, ngoko ke umphumo uya kuphazamisa. Ummeli walo mqondiso, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ubulili, yi-virtuoso ekusebenziseni. Ngaphantsi kweemeko, bangenza abantu bahambe malunga nabo. Ngoko ukuba uyamxabisa lo mntu, ngoko ulungele ukwenza izinto zakhe.
Okokuqala, kufuneka ucele umdlavuza. Qaphela: kufuneka ucele iingcebiso okanye iingcebiso, kodwa ungabancedi. Musa ukumkhathaza uRakov. Xa ufumana iingcebiso, ngokobulela ngokunyanisekileyo uze unikeze into ethile ngokubuyisela, mhlawumbi unakekele.
Ukunyamekela umdlavuza kuyisayensi! Kufuneka uzame ukuqiniseka ukuba akanayo into yokuba akukho nto akwenzayo kuwe. Xa iRaki zivakalelwa ngokwabo, zikhula zikhula kwaye zikwazi ukuphuma kwi-shell.
Xa inkqubo yokufunda ngaphandle iphela, uya kumangaliswa yimiphumo, kuba phambi kwamehlo akho kuza kubakho indoda eqinisekisileyo neyomeleleyo, okanye umfazi ozimeleyo nonomdla.
Imfihlelo yokuphumelela intliziyo yomntu - I-Cancer kukuba ngabahlobo kunye nonina. Umele uzuze ulungelo lwakhe kwaye ubhake ii-pie, ungcini kunokuba uyenze. Ukuba udlulisa lo mvavanyo ngokugqibeleleyo, ngoko mhlawumbi i-Cancer yindoda iya kulahla ekusebenziseni kwakho okungenamkhawulo. Musa ukukhononda malunga neCarencers ifanelekile ukukhonkxa. Bafuna ukuxoxa ngeengxaki zabo ngokwemvelo kwaye akukho nto enokuyenza ngayo.
Ufuna ngosuku oza kunqoba umdlavuza? Kwimeko yeCarcer, akukho nto iphumelelayo kunokudala umoya ocolileyo kuye. Ukuba i-cafe yosuku ikhethwe nguye, ngoko ke, mhlawumbi, iya kuba yindawo encinci eyakhayo, apho uza kuba nethuba lokuphumla ekhaya. Qinisekisa ukuba ukhethe iimpahla ezicocekileyo zokukhohlisa. Izitekisi kufuneka zizenzeke, kwaye imigca yokunquma imele ibe ilula. Oku kufana ne-Cancer ne-Cancer.
Akukho ndlela eqhelekileyo yokugcina umdlavuza wesilisa. Iintsholongwane ziqala ukubuyela kuyo nayiphi na isizathu. Indlela ephumelele kakhulu yokukhupha phambili phambili kwiCarcer kukuhlala uhlala umxelela ngothando lwakho oluqinileyo.