Luhlobo luni lwamabhinqa amadoda afuna?
Eentloko zonke umntu uhlala nomfanekiso wesifazana ococekileyo. Abafana bafuna yonke into kanye: ukwenza loo ntokazi ibe yinhle, ihlakaniphile kwaye iphakamileyo yokuziphatha, kwaye mhlawumbi ikhetha i-tigress ebhedini kunye nomntu ophethe umkhonto ekhitshini, kwaye xa ehamba kunye nabahlobo bayayithanda ibhola, kubhetele! Kwinqanaba elithile, umfanekiso wesifazane ococekileyo kumadoda uhlahliwe kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo. Umfazi omnandi, onikezwa ngomhla wokuqala, akayithinteli kwimilinganiselo kwaye uyayazi into ayifunayo - ngokuqinisekileyo unomdla kumntu, kodwa ukuba ufuna ukudala intsapho kunye naye okanye ubuncinane baqale ubudlelwane? Kungenzeka ukuba omaziyo uya kupheka kusasa olulandelayo, xa kuthiwa "ukusa kwangokuqala" kwesifo - wangena kumntu oqhagamshelana naye, kodwa awuzange ube noxinzelelo lwangaphakathi phakathi kwakho nomntu.
Kodwa umfanekiso wesibini wesifazane ococekileyo (masiwubize intsapho) idibene neenqobo ezahluke ngokupheleleyo - ukuthozama, ukunyaniseka, ukuzivala. Sisiphi isigqibo esithatyathwe ngumfazi kule nto? Khumbula, indoda enenjongo enzulu ayiyi kuqhubezela imicimbi, i-blackmail kwaye ibeke imimiselo "okanye uyayenza, okanye ndihamba ..." Ngokuqinisekileyo, abafazi bayashukunyiswa kwaye ngamanye amaxesha sifuna ukumnika owamthandayo ngokukhawuleza ukubonisa ukuba uyona . Kodwa sicebisa ukuba singenzi oku! Le ndoda ingumzingeli. Amanye amaxesha ngokukhawuleza aphelelwa ngumdla kumantombazana angenayo ukuphumelela. Musa ukuzibonga ngokuzingca kwakho akufanelekanga. Mhlawumbi ungumpheki omhle kwaye izitya zakho ziqhelekileyo, kodwa indoda kufuneka iphumelele ilungelo lokuzama. Zixabise kunye nezakhono zakho!
Ungayiqonda njani ukuba uthanda umntu?
Indlela yokuqonda ukuba ungathanda umntu, ungakanani uzimisele ukuhamba nobudlelwane bakho kwaye akacingeli ubuhlobo kunye nawe? Okokuqala, masithi oku: uluntu lwethu luxubusha inani lamadoda afuna isibini kuphela ngeveki. Amadoda, njengabasetyhini, abafuni ukuchitha ixesha kunye nokutyalomla ubudlelwane obungayi kubakho nantoni na. Ngokuqinisekileyo, elowo umntu unomgca wexesha lakhe phakathi kobudlelwane obunzulu kunye nomcimbi. Kodwa, njengomthetho, ukuba umntu uyakhathalela ngaphezu kwenyanga enye - unokuqiniseka ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba injongo zakhe zinzulu kakhulu.
Kufanelekile ukuthobela ingqalelo. Ngamathuba amaninzi umntu anika izipho, ulungise amangalisa amancinci kwaye, yintoni ebonakalayo, utshintshe izicwangciso zakhe zokukuhlangabeza? Bonke abameli besigxina esisinyanisekileyo sabantu baxela ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba ukuba intombazana ayithandayo, yona kunye neentaba zikulungele ukuyijika. Ngoko ke, amantombazana akufanele aqikelele ezo nkwenkwezi ezingabakhathaleli. Ndikholelwe, amadoda anesizathu esisodwa salo mkhuba - akuninzi kwaye ndifuna. Enyanisweni, ubudlelwane abuyikunyanzelisa umntu ukuba ayeke umsebenzi wakhe kwaye ube ngowakho ngokupheleleyo, kodwa iintlanganiso rhoqo kunye neqhinga kufuneka libe.
Yintoni amadoda ayifunayo ukusondelana?
Kwaye kwakhona kwakhona imfuno yabantu abathandekayo ibonakala. Bafuna ulwalamano oluphezulu. Okwesabisa kakhulu kunye nokwahlukileyo kwamadoda kwintsebenziswano kukukhawuleza kwowesifazane. Kwinto enokuthi ibonakaliswe njengezwi (iibhokisi zokulenga "sibini esitshatileyo", sithetha ngomtshato wesikhathi esizayo), kunye nezenzo (ukuza kubazali, ukuya kwiikhosi zabatshatanga kunye nokunye okunjalo). Khumbula ukuba amadoda anentlonelo enkulu kwinkululeko yabo, musa ukuwathabatha kubo nangamazwi. Amadoda ayawaxabisa nokunakekelwa kwinqanaba labasetyhini, bathanda ukuqonda ingxenye yesibini abangeke bayigxininise kunye neendleko zokuya kwi-cafe, ekuboneni ukuba umntu unenkathazo emsebenzini okanye ngaphandle kwimoya.
Njengoko ubona, isigxina esisisiseko sabantu asifuni ukuthanda into engafanelekanga, eqinisweni, into efanayo esiyifunayo kumadoda kwaye thina, bafazi. Unokuqonda kangcono umntu, ukuba uthetha naye rhoqo, izihloko azibalulekanga. Xoxa malunga nantoni na nayo yonke into - unxibelelwano luyakunceda ufikeleleke emoyeni!