Kodwa into ekhethekileyo kukuba udibanise isifuba nobisi zobisi. Ngaloo ndlela, inxalenye yezondlo ezifunyanwa ngumntwana nonyoko lonina, kunye nezinye zeengxube zobisi. Ukuba unomntwana - owokuqala, ngoko ke, mhlawumbi, uya kuba nombuzo: njani ngokuchanekileyo ukondla umntwana ngomxube uneminyaka eyi-2 nangaphezulu? Siza kukunika iingcebiso ezisebenzayo eziza kukunceda ukuba uqwalasele yonke imiba enzima kule ngxaki.
Kodwa ngokukhawuleza sifuna ukuphawula ukuba ukuba ukhethe ukondla okuxubekileyo, uze ungasebenzisi kakubi ukunyaniseka, kuba kulesi siganeko umntwana uya kuba mncinci ukuba adibanise nebele kwaye umzimba wakho unako ukugqiba isigqibo sokuba ubisi alufunanga. Ngoko ke, ukukhwabanisa kufuneka kusetyenziswe kuphela kwiimeko ezimbi, zama ukuzenza ngokwakho.
Ngoko, indlela efanelekileyo yokutya umntwana ngomxube kwiinyanga ezi-2? Emva kokufunda kanye nokuvavanya le "teknoloji", uya kufunda ukwenza yonke into kumatshini: ngokukhawuleza, ngokucacileyo nangokucokisekileyo, ngoko akukho xesha liza kusinceda.
Nangona uhamba ngokukhawuleza, ungafudumali ukutya kwi-microwave kwibhotile, ngenxa yokuba ibhotile ayinakutshisa njengobisi, kwaye uya kutshisa umlomo womntwana kunye nesisu. Kubalulekile ukuba iimbumba zibe zinyumba kwaye zigcinwe kwisitya, ukuze singabi luthuli.
Imingxobo ye-ingxube kufuneka ibe yinto yokuba umntwana engayisebenzisi umzamo wokugqibela ukunceda umxube, kodwa akakho mkhulu kakhulu, ukuba akayi kunqanda kwaye angayigxina kakhulu umoya ngexesha lokutya. Kwaye kunye nokuvuleka okukhulu kwimbimbo, kunokuthi kubekho umzuzu ukuba umntwana uceceke: bathi, kutheni kufanele ancede, ukuba sele elandelekile. Ngoko ke, xa ukhetha iinjuni, yeka ukhetho oluphakathi-oluhle, uluhlu lwabo lukhulu ngoku. Ubungakanani bentsimbi kubalulekile. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuba uqala ukondla umntwana nge-ingono enkulu, kodwa ke awukwazi ukusetyenziswa kwincinane. Njengoko kunjalo, nangona kunjalo.
Khumbula ukuba xa usondla umntwana wakho ngomxube weebhotile, uhlala eshiya uxinzelelo olubi. Ukuthintela oku kungenzeki, umntu makenze umgodi kwicala leengono, ukuze umoya uhlale ungena kwibhotile kwaye ukutya akuphazanyiswa.
Emva kokutya, kufuneka uhlambe kwaye ucocele ibhotile kunye nengono ukuze ugweme ukuphuhliswa kwee-microorganism kwisitya somntwana.
Musa ukugcina umxube ophekiweyo ixesha elide. Yishiye kuphela kwiqrijini kwaye ingabi ngaphezu kwelanga. Ukuba umxube ugcinwa kwigumbi labantwana kwindawo yokushisa, kufuneka emva kweeyure ezimbini ii-microbes ziqala ukuphindaphinda kuwo. Ngoko ke, kukulungele ukushiya ukugcinwa kokutya okulungele ukulungelelaniswa, kunye nexesha ngalinye ukulungiselela umxube omtsha.
Akuyimfuneko ukukhetha ukutya, ukuthembisa ukuthembisa okanye ukupakisha okuhle. Emva koko, ukhetho lukhulu kakhulu, kwaye kulula kakhulu ukwenza iphutha. Cela uncedo kumzali wezingane zakho, ugqirha ofanelekileyo uya kukuxelela ngokungaqinisekanga: yintoni umxube kunye nendlela yokunyamekela ngokufanelekileyo umntwana useneminyaka engama-2 nangaphezulu.
Ukuba umntwana wakho uyavuka kwaye kufuneka adle, akukho mzekelo akufanele ukukhawuleza uphinde uphikisane, kuba, ngokukhawuleza, senza amaphutha amaninzi. Emva kwakho konke, ibhotile efrijini, kwaye uzama ukufudumala ukutya ngokukhawuleza ukwenzela ukunyusa umntwana olambileyo, kwaye uyifake emanzini ashushu. Ukusuka kwebhola lokushisa, ibhotile ibhujane, kwaye inkqubo yokupheka ibambezeleka. Okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, ulungiselele umxube omtsha kwaye ufuna ukuyipholisa ngokukhawuleza kwaye uyifake emanzini abandayo, kwaye kwakhona uphuphuma. Kuthe ixesha elide lichithe, kwaye umntwana uyakhala. Ngoko ke ungagqizi, yenza yonke into ngokucokisekileyo kwaye ugweme ukutshintsha kweqondo lokuzula.
Futhi ungazami ukushisa kwondlo lomntwana, ngenxa yokuba indalo ayilona ize ilandele ukuba ubisi lukanina luhambelana nokushisa komzimba, ngoko ukutshisa ubisi kungabi kushushu kwaye kungabi nkulu, kodwa kulindeleke. Hlola ngokukhawuleza. Bamba ubisi oluncinane kwisandla sakho, ukuba awuyiva iqondo lokushisa, yiloo nto oyifunayo.
Isixa somxube odlayo siyahluka, ungakhathazeki ngabo, kuba ngamaxesha ahlukeneyo ngosuku lwakho umntwana unesidlo esithile. Musa ukumdla ukutya okusele kwibhotile, kuba umzimba womntwana - njenge-Swiss watch, ichanekile kwaye ingenakuqonda, kwaye uyazi kakuhle: ingaba kufuneka adle ukuze aneliseke.