Njengomthetho, oomama abatsha abanqweneli ukuncelisa umntwana wabo osana. Ngelishwa, abazi lutho malunga nokutya okufanelekileyo. Oku kuyinyani ngokukodwa kubasetyhini, owamkela okokuqala ngethuba lomama. Kufanelekile ukwazi ukuba kulo mzekelo kuya kufuneka uphumelele ukuhlazeka kwaye uphulaphule isiluleko osinikezwayo.
Indlela engokwemvelo yokuncelisa umntwana.
Kuba umama nosana luhlobo oluhle kakhulu lokuncelisa, olusondelene ngqo nebele. Kodwa kwezinye iimeko, akunakwenzeka ukuba wonke umntu abone amabele emehlweni, ukuze atye umntwana. Ngokomzekelo, kwiimeko xa ufumana iindwendwe, umfazi osemncinini uyavuswa ngentloni. Yintoni enokuyenza kwezi meko? Apha, ubuchwepheshe bwanamhlanje buza kuthi. Ngokukodwa kwiimeko ezinjalo, ipompu yebele iyenzelwe. Akunzima ukumfumana. Phantse nakwephi na ikhemisi kukho iipompo zesifuba ezikhoyo. Ziza ngeemeko ezahlukeneyo kunye neendidi, ngoko zilungeleka kalula kwisikhwama sakho.
Ngamanye amaxesha kukho imeko apho umama kufuneka ahlukane nosana ixesha elithile. Ubisi lobisi olugcinwe kwiimeko eziyinyumba luya kunceda umntwana wakho agcwale kwaye anelisekile lonke ixesha.
Xa unyamekela intsapho phambi komama ngamnye, kukho imibuzo emininzi ephakamileyo. Ndimele ndidle kangangoko umntwana wam? Ngeliphi ixesha ukuqala? Ngaba kuyimfuneko ukugcina nayiphi na imizuzu yokutya? Impendulo kumbuzo wobudlelwane bokutya, ukuya kweyiphi ubudala, umama uya kufuneka azifumene. Oku kwenzeka kwimeko apho kungekho nxaki ngophuhliso lobisi. Oogqirha bancoma ukuncelisa ukunyamezela unyaka owodwa. Kodwa ngomntwana ngamnye, kunjalo, kwenzeka ngeendlela ezininzi.
Imixube yamanci yinto efanelekileyo yokuncelisa . Nangona okokuqala kukucetyiswa ukuba ukondle umntwana, umxube uya kunceda. Iyeza langoku lijongene nzulu nengxaki yesondlo kubantwana. Oku kubangelwa uxinzelelo olune-inani elikhulu labasetyhini. Ngenxa yoko, bayeke ukuvelisa ubisi. Uphuhliso kule ndawo - kwintsimi yokutya kwasebantwini, sele ifinyelele kwindawo apho iphantse ifana kwaye ifana nayo kwiinkalo zobisi lwebele.
Kwiengxaki zokutya ukutya komntwana, kufuneka uxoxe nodokotela wakho. Kuya kuba luncedo olucebisayo ukusuka kumama abaye bahamba nale nqanaba elinzima lokuba ngumama.
Kodwa ke indlela efanelekileyo kunye neyokunene yokutya isele kwaye iya kubelelwa. Ngenxa yokuba idibene ndawonye, kwaye ngaphandle kohlobo olusondeleyo lwenina nomntwana. Umntwana ubambelela ngokushushumbisa ubisi lomama kunye nokunyamekela. Ukuqhagamshelana ngokusondeleyo, apho umama nosana bezozonke iinyanga ezilisithoba ezibuhlungu, uyaqhubeka. Ngaba akunjalo ummangaliso omkhulu? Kuba umama, oku kundivumela ukuba ndiqhube phambili ukuxubusha indima yam entsha yobumama ngokugcwele, umthamo ophezulu.
Ukuncelisa isondlo kubonelela ngemvelo, ukwakheka kwendalo yonke imvakalelo kunye nenkumbulo. Kwaye kunye nokutya ngamnye umntwana unokubona umama, ukuvumba, kumthinte, ulalele ubisi lwakhe, uve ukuba uphefumula njani kwaye unokuvakalelwa intliziyo yakhe.
Ukuncelisa kuphela kukuqinisekisa ukuba impilo kunye nobuhle bentsana yakho.