Ziziphi iimpawu kufuneka umfana athole ithuba lokuzibhenela ngokuziphakamisa isihloko esithi "uphelele"?
Ngokwezengqondo zengqondo, umntu ofanelekileyo kwihlabathi lanamhlanje kufuneka abe nokudibanisa ngokubambisana kwamanani abantu, axabiswe ngamaxesha onke, njengamandla, ubuqili, ubunzima, isikhundla esicacileyo sokuphila, uxanduva, "insimbi yengqondo". Kodwa kunye nomntu ofanelekileyo kufuneka abe nomnene, onomnene, onenkathalo, - iimpawu ezinjalo ziqhelekileyo kumantombazana.
Imbonakalo yinto eninzi yeendlela eziphambili ekufuneni okufanelekileyo. Kwaye akukhona nje ngezinto ezikhangayo kunye neefom. Umfana kufuneka abe nekhono elifanelekileyo, akwazi ukuthatha iingubo kunye nezesekeli, wazi ukuba uzijonga njani. Ukucoceka, ukulungiswa kunye nokumomotheka okumnandi kukubaluleka okubaluleke kakhulu. Iingubo ezinamakhanda, iinwele ezinobunzima kunye nezintathu zemihla emithathu ziye zakuba yinto edlulileyo.
Imfundo, i-intelligence, imfundo ngexesha lethu lidlala indima ebalulekileyo kwimfono yomntu othi "uyona mhle kwihlabathi". Umnxibelelanisi othakazelisayo owaziyo ukunika iingcebiso ezixabisekileyo, umntu owaziyo iinjongo zakhe ebomini kwaye uyazi indlela yokuzifezekisa, uya kufumana lula kumdla wendoda efanelekileyo.
Kwilizwe lanamhlanje le-pragmatism kunye nokubala okulukhuni, ukuxabana kunye neentloko zixabisa ubunzima begolide. Yiyiphi intombazana engaphupha ngezenzo zobuqhetseba kuye intanda yakhe, izigidi ezibomvu zeeresi kunye neenqwelomnxu ezimnyama? Ixesha le-candy-bouquet, iintlanganiso, u kisses, uhamba ngaphantsi kwenyanga kunye nezinye iimpawu zothando zama-romedies kufuneka zihlale zisenkonzweni kunye nomntu ofanelekileyo kweli hlabathi lanamhlanje.
Umntu ofanelekileyo kufuneka abe ngumphefumlo wenkampani. Uvuyo, ubuchule, obunomdla ocolileyo, kulula ukuthetha - ezi ziimpawu umntu ophethe isihloko esithi "uphelele". Uyakuhleka, kwaye uphelele ukuba intombazana. Elula "umtyholi", ukukwazi ukukhwela inkunzi okanye ukuphonsa uthuli emehlweni abuye avunywe ngabanye besini esilungileyo.
Iimpawu ezifana nokuzidla, ukungahloniphi, ngokweentombi zamantombazana, azibandakanyi kwi-asethi ye-guy efanelekileyo. Eyona nto ixabisekileyo, ukukwazi ukukhusela iimvakalelo zabo, ukuxhatshazwa ngokukhawuleza ekusebenzelaneni nentombazana, ngokukodwa kwinqanaba lokuqala.
Intombazana nganye kwizinga eliqhelekileyo lijongana nantoni na njengotata wabantwana bayo kwikamva. Ukusuka kweli ngcamango, umfana omele ukhuthaze, ngaphezu kwakho konke, ukuzithemba nokuthembela. "Mvalelwe njengodonga lwamatye" - le iphupha lamantombazana amaninzi. Ngako oko, indoda efanelekileyo ehlabathini lanamhlanje kufuneka ibe yimpumelelo, izithembele, ihloniphekile, inyanisekileyo, inyanisekileyo. Amantombazana amaninzi angathanda ukubona kwintsapho yabo, indoda engakwazi ukuphendula ngenxa yezenzo zabo kwaye inako ukukunceda nayiphi na imeko.
Kubonakala ngathi kule ngcamango engenhla kwakunokwenzeka ngokubanzi ukwenza umfanekiso wendoda efanelekileyo kweli hlabathi lanamhlanje. Kodwa ukudibanisa zonke ezi mpawu ngamagunya akude wonke umntu. Kwaye kuyimfuneko? Kwiintombazana nganye yindoda ethandayo - efanelekileyo. Ukuba uyayithanda, kulula ukudibanisa kunye nempazamo ethile, kwaye zonke izidima ziba zibalulekileyo. Abantu abafezekileyo abakho. Into ebalulekileyo kumntu kukukwazi ukuthanda nokuhlonela iqabane, umnqweno wokuphucula, ngoko umfanekiso wendawo ayiyi kuba kude!