Umtshato uthathwa njengenye yeentsuku ezibalulekileyo ebomini babantu ababini abathandanayo. Kungenxa yesi sizathu sokuba ukulungiswa kwesi siganeko esiqhelekileyo kudla ngokufumana umbala we-marathon yangaphambi komtshato. Ngoko ke, ukuba ufuna ukulungelelanisa iholide kwinqanaba eliphezulu kwaye ngelo xesha, ungaphuthelwa yintambo enye kule nkqubo, kufuneka ucebisane kunye nesinyathelo sinyathelo sokulungiselela umtshato.
Ngombutho ofanelekileyo wokubhiyozela ngaphandle kwemizwa neemvakalelo ezingadingekile, kuyimfuneko ukuqhubela phambili kwisicwangciso esicacileyo sokulungiselela umtshato uze ulandele ngqo. Kufuneka, okokuqala, ukuba uthole incwadi ekhethekileyo apho ungagcina irekhodi yazo zonke iindleko zemali kunye neminye imiba yokulungiselela umtshato.
Qala isicwangciso sokucwangcisa umtshato kucetyiswa ngokukhawuleza. Ngamanye amazwi, iinyanga ezimbini okanye ezintathu ngaphambi komcimbi. Kule meko kuphela, unokulungiselela umtshato ngaphandle kokukhawuleza.
Izivakashi kumtshato
Emva kokugqiba isigqibo ngomhla, kufuneka wenze uluhlu lweendwendwe ofuna ukuzibona kulo mhla kwimibhiyozo. Kubalulekile ukuqikelela inani leendwendwe kunye nokwenza okuyimfuneko kumanani alinganayo, kuba inani labantu abaza kumtshato liya kuxhomekeka ngokupheleleyo kwimibutho yonke, kuquka indawo kunye nokugqiba imenyu kunye nokuqashisa imoto. Oku kuhle kakhulu kwinyanga ngaphambi komcimbi. Ngendlela, ungalibali ukucacisa ngokucacileyo, nokuba izalamane kunye nabahlobo bamenywe nguwe baya kuza kumtshato wakho.
Isambatho somtshakazi nomyeni
Ingubo yomtshato kumyeni kunye nengubo yomyeni kufuneka iyalwe ngokukhawuleza. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka uqhagamshelane ne-atelier okanye ivenkile ekhethekileyo, malunga neenyanga ezimbini ngaphambi komhla otyunjweyo. Ndiyabulela oku unokuziphepha ezininzi iingxaki. Umzekelo, ukuba unayo ingubo enqwenelekayo okanye i-suit in store, unokuyikhangela ezinye izitolo, ukuba ubungakanani abufaneleki - ungayilungisa into efanelekileyo kwisicelo sakho, kwaye ukuba uyagula isambatho somyalelo okhethekileyo kwisitekisi, uya kuba nexesha elide ukuthatha imilinganiselo echanekileyo kunye nangaphezulu kweyodwa ukuzama izambatho zomtshato.
Iholide yeholo
Ngoku uye waya kwingcwele yeendawo zokuhlala - umyalelo weholo lokudumisa. Njengomthetho, kufuneka ukuba ilaywe iinyanga ezimbini ngaphambi kokubhiyozelwa, kodwa kwiinyanga zomtshato ezifana ne-ehlobo-ekwindla, ngokuqhelekileyo zibe ziinyanga ezine.
Ubuqili kwiinkcukacha zokulungiselela
Ukuba unokhenketho kwizicwangciso zakho, ungayiguquli inkqubo yokwenza amathikithi kule njongo.
Olunye ulwazi oluphambili lomalungiselelo womtshato luyimenyu, iingongoma ekufuneka zixoxwe ngazo ngokubanzi njengoko kunokwenzeka. Oku kuya kukunceda kwixa malunga neveki okanye ezimbini ngaphambi komtshato (kwaye kunzima nakwiintsuku ezimbalwa) akudingeki uqede zonke iintlobo zokungaqondani ezingabonakala ngokukhetha okungalunganga kwezitya zomtshato.
Kwaye, ke, luni lomtshato luya kuhlawula ngaphandle kwevidiyo yezobugcisa kunye neefoto, ezifanele ziphathiswe kwiimifanekiso eziphathekayo ezineempawu, ezifuna ukuxoxa ngosuku kunye nesicwangciso sokudubula kwangaphambili. Ungakulibali ukuxoxa nomphathi we-toastmaster kwisitekthi se-banquet, esifanele silungiselelwe kwangaphambili. Ngendlela, ukuhambelana komculo kunye neenkqubo zokukhuphisana komtshato kufuneka kukhethwe ngutitshala, inyathelo ngesinyathelo, uxoxisana nazo zonke iinkcukacha kunye nayiphi na imibuzo ephakanyayo nabasanda kutshata.
Ukuhlobisa iholo ingenziwa ukuze ulandele okanye uzienzele. Kwakhona kufanelekile ukunikela ingqalelo ngokukhethekileyo ekuhleleni imoto ngendlela elungileyo yokutshata komtshato, okumele kube yintyatyambo yomtshato.
Kodwa izinto zomtshato ezifana neentyatyambo kunye nezimbali kufuneka ziyalwe ngeveki ngaphambi kokubhiyozela. Ewe, ngenxa yomtshato osekuqaleni kunye ongaqhelekanga, kufuneka, ngokubonakalisa ukucinga kwakho, wenze izibhengezo zakho kwaye unqwenele kwimeko yokubamba kwayo.
Kwaye okokugqibela, bhala phantsi iinkcukacha zesicwangciso somtshato womhla ukusasa kwaze kwaba sekupheleni kombhiyozo. Khumbula ukuba kuphela kubonga ngokunyanisekileyo kunye neyinyathelo ngeyinyathelo ehleliweyo inkqubo yomtshato kunye nokulungiselela, umtshato wakho uya kuba uphelele kwaye uyingqayizivele kwizinto zonke!