Umbuzo othi "Yintoni oyenzayo?" Ngaba uyimfuneko. Ngento ongenayo into, yonke into icacile. Kwaye kubonakala ngathi: uya kufunda impendulo echanekileyo-ke isicwangciso seminyaka emihlanu kwiminyaka emine, kunye nolonwabo ngaphandle kwemida. Kodwa inkcazelo phantse isoloko iyimfihlakalo ehlanganiswa ebumnyameni. Kwakunjalo ngcamango kwinyanga yokuqala yoNyaka omtsha owasenza sibe neenjongo eziphambili zekamva.
Yiba nguwe
Ngomhla, uzama ukuthabatha njengo-Angelina Jolie, onjengo-sexy njengoPenelope Cruz, kunye neenkcukacha ezinjengeGwyneth Paltrow. Ubulumko-umsebenzi-onengqiqo, njengoCleopatra, onobuqili, njengoHilary Clinton kunye ne-compromise, njengoMargaret Thatcher. Ngokuphinda ulandelelwano olufanelekileyo, unyanzelekile kwi-samaseb. Njalo, ukususela kwiveki entsha okanye ukususela kumnyaka omtsha, uzenzele izithembiso zendalo, ezichanekileyo nezizenzekelayo ukuya kwindawo yokuzivocavoca, ungadli ubuninzi, kwaye ulahlekelwe iikhigram ezi-5 ngo-Matshi 8. Ufuna uthando kuwe: unomdla, njengoAntonio Banderas, onobukrakra, njengoJohnny Depp kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, unesizalo esilungileyo. Kwaye ngenxa yoko - uzuzwe ngokudumala rhoqo. Eyinyani, ukhangela abo bangokoqobo, abanamdla. Ngokungathandabuzekiyo, ngomfanekiso ongaqhelekanga kunye nokuzincama, ngokunjalo, ukunconywa, ukuqulunqwa ngobuchule, akukho ukungaqeqeshi. Yeka ukugqoka imaski. Bonisa ukuba ungubani inkwenkwezi. Abalandeli abaninzi baya kufuna ukufana nawe kunye nomntu onjengawe!
Musa ukutshintsha abanye
Ukuba uthe wakhuliswa kwi-kindergarten, ngoko uqeqesho lwabafundisi, ukususela ebuntwaneni ukhumbule ukuba kufuneka uncede abemi abangenangqiqo ukuba babe ngcono. Le ngongoma unokukhupha ngokuphepha. Ukukwazi ukuqonda abo bajikelezayo njengabo, ukutshintsha ngokupheleleyo umfanekiso wehlabathi. Awunakuphinde ufundise umntu owayengumntu osisigxina - indoda engabonakaliyo, uMama, ocinga ukuba ungumntwana ongunaphakade, kunye neenkokheli ezisixhenxe eziLwesihlanu. Unika uvavanyo lokungakhethi kwimeko yonke kunye nokwakha ubomi bakho, ngokulandela izigqibo ezithatyathwe. Kwaye ngenxa yoko, abantu abajikelezile baya kuyeka ukuzama ukukutshintsha.
Phila ngokufanelekileyo
Umntu ngamnye unesidanga sakhe kunye nomgangatho wakhe wokuvavanya ithemba. Kukho into eyodwa kuphela edibanisa bonke - ukugcina isimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo. Ukuphoxeka emlonyeni wakhe kunye nokuhlekisa ukuhleka ngexesha elinzima, xa umphefumlo ubuhlungu, akukho mvuyo inokuzisa. Ukuqhubeka kunye nezikhalazo, kunye nokukhangela ukubamba ezintweni zonke, ziphazamisekile. Ukususwa kwimeko yendalo "yabantu abanetyhefu", ukuba ngeemvakalelo zabo ezimbi nezobi zidla amandla enu, kwaye sele zenze indlela yokwakha yokulungisa iingxaki naziphi na iingxaki, unokubona ukuba uphumelele kangakanani kwaye ujabule ukuba uphile!
Hlela ngokwakho
I-original and large scale think. Yishiye yonke impazamo yakho kunyaka ophumayo. Qala, umzekelo, ukulwa nobuvila, umona, ukuhaha, ukunyaniseka, umona, njl. Ngexesha, ngaphakathi, uya kukwazi ukulungelelanisa neenguqu zakho ezintle kwaye, ngaphandle kokungazi, uya kuba ngumxhasi osisigxina kwiqela lezempilo kwaye uza kuphinda akhohlwe ngonaphakade indlela eya kwi-confectionery, apho uhlala uhamba khona. Kwaye nenye ingcamango. Cinga: uyayiphulaphula isithethi okanye umane ulinde, xa eyeka ukufaka "i-pyatikopek"? Sitshintshe wena kwaye uya kuqonda ukuba unokuziphumelela. Olu nqununu luya kukuphefumlela, longeze amandla kwaye lukukhuthazelele kwimpumelelo emitsha.
Yenza ubuhlobo noogqirha
Usebenzisa ukuphucula iikhompyutheni kunye nokuhlola imoto, ekugqibeleni, utshintshe isithende ezicathulweni - ziphathe kunye nokusebenza ngokusemzimbeni. Ingcamango yokuhlolwa kwexesha lezezifo ayiyonto embi, ifana nesenzo sokukhangisa phantsi kweendlela ezifanayo: "Ngenye imini kwipolyclinic unyaka ngaphandle kwayo!". Khumbula, ixesha libiza kakhulu ukulilahleka ngenxa yokugula.
Funda ...
... Ukugqibelela ukuthetha isiNgesi, ukuqhuba ngokugqibeleleyo, ukudansa ngokukhawuleza, kusasa ngaphambi kokuya emsebenzini, ukwenza ukwakheka okulungileyo kunye neenwele, ukupheka okumnandi, ukulungiswa kakuhle. Kwakhona, kukhuselekile ukukhusela yakho (echanekileyo!) Iphuzu lokujonga kwaye uzive ukhululekile ukuvuma ngokungafanelekanga, uthi "cha" endaweni ye "ewe" kunye nakwezinye izinto, kwaye ngexesha elifanayo ukwahlula imeko apho kufanelekile. Funda amapolisa phakathi kwemigca (ukuzikhusela), kwaye ujonge kakuhle uhlobo oluthile lwezemidlalo, fumana umdlalo wakho, ungacasuli malunga nezihlunu, unqamle imali ekhohlo kunye neyokunene, ungabuyeli ... Okokuqala, ungazijezisi kodwa akakwazanga ukuqonda zonke ezi mpawu kunye nezakhono.
Yenza isicwangciso
Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba umntu onqwenelayo uya kuqonda indlela. Ngako oko kulandela ukuba kunokuthenjwa ngakumbi ukucinga kwangaphambili kwendlela eya kwiinjongo. Futhi uzizuze ngeyonke inyathelo elifanelekileyo. Ngoko ke, ukwahlula nawuphi na umsebenzi kumaphuzu - ukususela kuluhlu lwezinto zokuthenga uphendlo lwesiqingatha sesibini - soloko unakho ukuphendula umbuzo: "Kutheni ufuna le?" Kwaye "yintoni na endiyenzayo?". Oku kuya kunciphisa kakhulu umngcipheko wokulahlekelwa ubuthongo. Njengoko bethetha, ubomi buqhubeka, ngelixa abantu bakha izicwangciso zabo kuwo!
Ukulala ngaphezulu
Umntu olele ulahlekelwa uluntu. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba zininzi iiyure kumgama, asinayo ixesha elaneleyo nantoni na. Iphupha liyakusindisa! Inokunyusa ukuxininiswa kwengqwalasela, ukuvelisa nokuvelisa. Ngamanye amagama, le yithuba elilodwa lokuhlala liphezulu. Uyavuma ukuba uvele phambi komntu othandekayo okanye umphathi ngendlela engavumelekanga. Ngokwenzululwazi: nganye iyure yokulala ngosuku ingaphakamisa ithoni ebalulekileyo ye-15%, ngelixa umphumo ubonakala kwangoko. Khumbula, ubuthongo obubusuku abukho ngaphantsi kweeyure ezingama-6, yindlela yokungaphuthelwa nantoni na.
Qhubekani ninganikeli isithembiso
I-Ambient-ukuba ikwazi ukumangalisa ngamabhaso abo. Mna - kungekhona ukuzingcazela ngoko ngenxa yokukwazi kwakhe ukugcina ilizwi lakhe. Kukho isithethe esithile: ukuqulunqa uluhlu lwezithembiso ngobusuku bukaDisemba 31 ukuya kuJanuwari 1, ukutshisa, kunye nomlotha kunye ne-champagne kwi-boycourt yokuqala. Kule meko, yonke into iya kuphila ngokwayo, ngaphandle kweminye imizamo engadingekile. Kufanelekile ukungongeza: okwesibini kunye nolungqambileyo kuya kulibala ... Ngoko, kuyintoni le nto kubalulekile ukuthetha ngesifungo nangobhala?
Thatha kwizandla zakho
Phantse uluhlu loNyaka olutsha olwenziweyo. Kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo uye wathembisa ukuba wena kwaye ungatshintshi abanye, kwaye ulale ngakumbi kwaye ufunde izinto ezintsha, kwaye uhambe uye kukhanga! Ngaba konke oko? Akunjalo! Thatha konke ezandleni zakho kwaye ungalokothi uthembele kumntu ongekho, kwaye ngokukhawuleza uqaphele ukuba ubuninzi ubomi bakho buya kutshintsha. Khumbula ukuba akukho nto isilayidi ehambayo, ngoko ke, ukuba into okanye ufuna ukutshintsha into ethile, soloko usebenza!