- Ngaphambi kwakho, kungekhona umntu wakho, kuba njengeentyatyambo, izipho kunye nezinye izibonelelo, ummeli wesini esomeleleyo akakuniki kwaye akayi kubona kuyimfuneko.
- Iimvakalelo zakho ezivela kwizipho kunye nezipho ezifunyenweyo-ekugqibeleni ukudumala okupheleleyo.
Ngokuqinisekileyo ndiya kukuxelela ngakumbi malunga nabo. Nangona kunjalo, ekuqaleni ndiya kugxininisa kwinyani, kunokuba kubanzi, njengokuba kuninzi lwabafana abasondela kwizikhetho. Abameli beesondo eziqinileyo bakhetha njani isipho intombi yabo? Uninzi lwama-polls lubonisa ukuba ukhetho lwesipho senkosikazi kummeli wesini esomeleleyo yiHoleni yangempela. Amadoda amaninzi awanakho indlela yokucinga, njengokungathi ukhona. Iingcamango ezinzima malunga nokukhetha zinethuba lokulifumana kwiinyanga. Umgangatho onamandla uhamba phakathi kokuhle, ukucokisa, okuyimfuneko, okuyimfuneko, engavamile kwaye "ngokuqinisekileyo wayekuthanda" ... Kodwa isipho, kungekhona ingqalelo.
Ngaba umntu osemncinini unyanzelekile ukuba anike iintyatyambo kunye nezipho? Kukho iqela lamantombazana abamkela izipho ezinikezelweyo. "Ndiyintle, inqabileyo, inhle. Kwiinyawo zam, njengam, yonke into imele ishiywe. " Umbuzo: Kutheni, ngokwenene, unyanzelekile ukuba anike nantoni na?
Ukukhusela: Ngokwenene, kutheni? Njengokuba nayiphi na intombazana inkulu, kwaye, mhlawumbi, akusoloko isisisombululo sokucela imvume. Ukongezelela oku, yonke into engeyona nto ibangelwa umlutha ozinzileyo, kwaye kamva ukunciphisa intshiseko. Isiphelo: Ngaphezu kwama-80% kwabesifazane bafuna ukufumana iintyatyambo ngesipho, kwaye akubalulekanga ukuba yintoni kanye. Nangona kunjalo, phantse amaninzi amabhinqa abeka ubuhle bemifuno kwisithuba soku-1 kwisihlomelo sezipho ezingenanto. Ngayiphi na indlela, ungayifumani i-HONEY ngobuninzi-ibe yinto engavamile kwaye isebenzayo! Ngendlela, inkqubo "yokukhuthazwa" kulabo abamkela abafana njengomthombo oyimfuneko yezipho, kwisiqendu esisekelweyo sinethuba lokuphindaphinda kwizemidlalo. Kude kube nini umgama omde ulungele ukusingatha, kwaye xa ufika ekugqibeleni?
Abanye bathi bangenzi nto, kodwa abanako okwaneleyo. "Uyakhathalela, uthetha ngeemvakalelo, kunye nabo bonke abafazi" "budenge", kwaye akayeki ukuhamba nam ngokungqinelana namaziko okuthenga, kwaye ufumane ikhofi ebhedeni ngokupheleleyo, ebudeni bam bemihla, esoloko esondele kum. " Umbuzo: Ukuba akubi, kutheni unganginika nto? Kodwa ngaba akunakukukholisa ngokuhlukile? Eyona nto ingcono kuyo. Oku akulungele bonke abameleli besondo esinamandla (abanqwenela ubuninzi bezinto ezinokwenzeka). Isiphelo: "Phucula" (kuba ucinga ukuba akunakwenzeka ukuba uphinde usebenze umntu) okanye utshintshe uluvo lwakho. Oku ngakumbi - oku ngezantsi. Ngendlela, mhlawumbi ukufumana ulonwabo olupheleleyo ufuna iiluleko ezincinane. Zama ukuziva iimvakalelo, unethuba lokuba naye. Kutheni abameli beesondo eziqinileyo besincede sizenzele izipho? Kukho izizathu ezininzi.
Indoda e lihlazo.
Kukho nabameli abancinci bezesondo ezinamandla. Ngokuqhelekileyo banobukrakra ubudlelwane kunye ngokubanzi, kunye nokubonakaliswa kwimiba yabo. Yaye ukuba awuqapheli ukuba ububele bobubele okanye "isipho", mhlawumbi, ubomi obudibeneyo kunye naye buya kubuzwa. Ngaba kulungele ukuvuselela lo buhlobo? Ukususela ekungabikho kokusebenza ngokusemthethweni, konke kuyafana ngexesha elide. Okanye zonke i "buns" ziya komnye umntu ...? Ukufumana iintyatyambo kumntu oyithandayo, izipho kunye nokuqwalasela? Ekugqibeleni, wagqiba ekubeni ngaphandle kwezipho ezifanelekileyo, ingqwalasela, ubomi obungakumbi kunye nobomi abubonakali buphelele kuwe, kwaye ukhethiweyo wakho unako ukukwenza ube nolonwabo. Imfundo yinto enkulu! Qala ukwenza ngokukhawuleza. Into eyona nto kukukwenza yonke into ngokubambisana ngokuchanekileyo nangokuchanekileyo. Zama ukukhumbula ngokuhlushwa kwabantu xa ukhetha izipho ozithandayo. Ngokuchanekileyo kwingxoxo ithetha, ngokungathi uyayithanda, okanye uyifunayo. Ungalibali ukuthetha apho unokufumana khona.
Zizenzele nge-bouquet okanye encinci, nangona kunjalo, into engathathi hlangothi (isikhwama, isikhwele, ikiti yomntu, njl.). Ungakulibala ukuliphosa, njengokungathi mhlawumbi unikwe ubuso bomntu. Ukuvumba kobambiswano kuya kuvuselela kuye inkulu.
Nangona kunjalo, yazi umlinganiselo. Ukuthengwa kweengubo entsha kulula ukufaka ubungqina kunomshini wanamhlanje (ngokukhawuleza ukuba umbane wefestile weglasi awuzange uphume "kumdala" okwamanje). Kodwa ubukhulu besipho kunye nokubongwa kufuneka lumelane. Ngenye indlela, isiphumo siya kuba sahlukileyo. Ukuba ukhenketho oluphambili lukukhokelela ukuba ujonge, kutheni unika enye into? Iintyatyambo kunye nezipho ebomini - kungekhona into ephambili, kodwa intokazi enengqiqo, ukuba yinto ethile-oh-oh-oh-ekulungeleyo, iya kuba nokufezekisa ngokuchanekileyo into efunwayo.
Kuqinisekiswa ukuba amadoda afana nesipho ekupakalweni okuqhakazileyo kunye nemibala engaphezulu kwamantombazana (ndenze uvavanyo kwi sampuli yama-roses angama-55 - umphumo ungaphaya kwengcaciso!). Kuphela kuphela esi sipho akumele siboniswe singathinteki. Phakathi kwala madoda "adonsa ngokusemthethweni" ezi zipho azivunywanga. Ngoko, kutheni abameleli besini esomeleleyo banika iintyatyambo zabo iintanda? Mhlawumbi ba soyika ukuba ngokubuya abayi kufumana nantoni na? Ukuba ufuna ukufumana izipho ezivela kumntu - yiba yinkosikazi yakhe, umhlobo kunye nentanda yakhe. Yaye uya kuphumelela!