Ncedisa umntwana ukuba enze abahlobo

Ukuba ubuncinane kanye xa uva kumntwana wakho ibinzana elithi "Andiyithandi mntu" okanye "Abayithathi nabo ukuba badlale kunye", ngoko uyazi ukuba kunzima kangakanani kumntwana ongenabo abahlobo.

Thina, abazali, asinakuthatha indawo yabantwana besihlobo, kodwa sinokumnceda ukuba aqonde izixhobo eziphambili ezixhomekeke ekubunjweni kobuhlobo kunoma yiphi ubudala.

Ukuvuleka

Nabani na ubuhlobo buqala ngomqondiso othile, obonisa ukuba abantu ababini bafuna ukuba ngabahlobo. Ngoko ke, isinyathelo sokuqala endleleni eya kubomi kukubonisa umntu omthandayo, ovulelekileyo kumhlobo wakhe. Abafundi basesikolweni bahlala bebuza ngokuthe ngqo: "Ngaba ufuna ukuba ngabahlobo kunye nam?", Kodwa abantwana abakhulileyo abanako ukubonisa uvelwano.

Ukubulisa

Indlela elula kakhulu yokubonisa ukuvuleka kukubulisa umhlobo onokuthi ungumhlobo. Umntwana onamahloni usoloko unengxaki ngale nto. Ukuba abanye abantwana bathi "Sawubona!", Uguquka kwaye akaphenduli nto, okanye ugawula into ethile ekuphenduleni. Kungenxa yokuba uziva ekhululekile kwaye eneentloni, kodwa oku kubangela abanye abantwana: "Andiyithandi, andifuni ukuba nantoni na endiyenzayo!" Akukho konke into enentloni evakalelwa ngayo, kodwa uthumela loo mqondiso.

Ukuba konke oku ngasentla kufana nomntwana wakho, kwaye ufuna ukumnceda, zama ukuhlaziya ukubingelela nabanye abantwana kwifom yokudlala. Phula lo udonga. Cacisa umntwana wakho ukuba xa ubingelela abanye kufuneka ukhangele emehlweni, bumnandi kwaye uthethe ngokukhawuleza ukuba uvalelwe. Ifowuni ngegama lenza ukubingelela ngakumbi. Emva kokuba usebenza, ncedisa umntwana ukuba abone abantu abambalwa kwindawo yakhe yangempela, lowo yena ngokwakhe uya kubingelela.

Ukuncoma

Ukuncoma yindlela enye elula yokubonisa ukuvuleka kobuhlobo. Kuhlala kukuhle ukufumana ukunconywa okunyanisekileyo, kwaye sivame ukuba novelwano nabantu abathobelayo ukuqonda iimpawu zethu ezilungileyo!

Cinga kunye nomntwana wakho iindlela ezimbalwa zokuncoma abafundi ofunda nabo. Makube lula: "I-T-shirt enhle!" - ngomhlobo odlala ibhola yebhokisi, "Ndiyathanda indlela owayibhala ngayo isibhakabhaka!" - ngenxa yomsebenzi wobugcisa oontanga, "Unomkhonto omhle" -kuba umfundi ofunda naye ugqoke into entsha. Le mizekelo nje.

Ukuxolelwa

Inceba encinane yindlela efanelekileyo yokubonisa uvelwano. Unokuboleka ipensela kumfundi ofunda naye, thatha indawo kumntu, ncedise into yokuhambisa okanye ukwabelana ngesidlo sasemini. Ukuthabatha inika ububele kwaye yindlela enhle yokwenza abahlobo.

Kwiqela lihlala lizintando, kwaye rhoqo abantwana bazama ukuthenga ubuhlobo babo, banike imali yabo okanye izinto ezixabisekileyo. Ayize isebenze. Abantwana abaninzi abanakubelana nabo ngezinto ezintle kunye nabo, ukuze banganikezwa, ngoko awuyikufanelekela inhlonipho yabo. Kwaye ngokugqithiseleyo ngezipho zakho, umntwana wakho uza kuphelelwa yithemba, kungekhona ukuba avulekele kwaye ahlalisane. Kukho ulumkiso olungaphezulu. Ububele buchongwa ngamanyathelo, kungekhona ngenjongo. Ngamanye amaxesha abantwana abancinci babonisa isimo sabo, bakhawula okanye babanga abantwana abafunda nabo, befuna ukuba badlale nabo kuphela. Ukuba abanye abantwana abakhululekile ngokuziphatha, akunakwenzeka ukuba bayakujonga njengobonakaliso benceba. Kufuneka uncede umntwana ukuba angafumani iindlela ezinzima zokubonisa intlungu.

Ukubonakaliswa kokuvuleka kuyisigaba sokuqala endleleni yokufumana abahlobo, ivula ngokubanzi umnyango wobuhlobo. Kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba wonke umntu angangena kulo mnyango. Ukuze ukwandise amathuba okufumana abahlobo, abantwana kufuneka banikele ubungano kulabo abakulungele ukuphendula. Le yecandelo lesibini eliyinhloko yokwakha ubudlelwane obuhle.