Kakade ke, amava olwalamano oluxabisekileyo lokuqala phakathi kwendoda kunye nentombazana ayisoloko iphela ngomtshato, imikhosi yesizwe kunye nokuzalwa kwabantwana. Ngokuqhelekileyo baphela kwisithuba, kuba abantu abancinci abasoloko bekulungele ukuguqula ubomi babo i-degrees ezingama-180 baze baqalise ngokutsha, njengokungathi zivela kwi-slate ecocekileyo. Omnye umntu engazange ahambe, umntu wayengenakulinganisa kwimikhwa engavamile yesiqingatha sakhe, umntu wayengenelisekanga ngolu hlobo lokuba ubudlelwane obubi beyithatha inkululeko yakhe engapheliyo-kwaye kwakhona wayefuna ukukhulula. Kodwa lo bubomi, kwaye ulwalamano lokuqala luqala kwaye luphambili, ukunika eso sibini ingcamango yinto ebomini, uxanduva, kunye nendlela zonke ezi zichaphazela ngayo uthando (kwaye unako?).
Ekubomini bakho ixesha lifikile xa unelisekile ukuhamba phantsi kwenyanga nganye iintsuku ezintathu, xa usuku lwakho oluthandayo luyakunika ixesha. UNabil nosminu la ma-chocolate, ayenokuthinteka kakhulu kwiintlanganiso zabo zokuqala kunye neentlanganiso. Ukukhathala kokulala, ukugubungela umququ, wodwa, ebhedeni elibandayo. Ukukhathala ngaphambi kokuba ulale ubhale imilayezo emide malunga nothando lwakhe olungapheliyo. Kwaye ngoko ufuna ukuhlala usondele, umhlangabeze emsebenzini, umlungiselele isidlo sakusihlwa. Buza ukuba kwenzekani kuye ngeli mini, ukubukela indlela adibana ngayo kwi-sofa emva komsebenzi womsebenzi onzima. Yenza i-massage ephumayo kwaye uthethe ngohlobo luni lomntu onalo, unamandla kangakanani kwaye ukhaliphile. Bamba ngobumnene iinwele ngesandla sakho, uphefumle kwiqholo lakho elimnandi ... kwaye ngaphambi kokuba ulale, ungabhala izikhalazo ezininzi ngothando, kodwa ubambezele ngenyameko ezindlebeni zakho, uzive intliziyo yakho ibetha ngokukhawuleza ngokukhawuleza ngamazwi akho. Ukuze uzive iimpendulo zakhe ezibuthakathaka ngendlela enokunyanzela ngayo kwizandla zakhe eziqinileyo, efihla ubuso bakhe ngokubanga ... Ewe, kufike ebomini ngamnye wethu umzuzu xa uninzi lwawo ufuna konke oku kwaye yilo.
Uyabona ngokunyanisekileyo impendulo yakhe - ndicinga ukuba ulungele ulwalamano oluqinileyo, uyazi ukuba akakwazi ukuhlala ngaphandle kwakho kunye nosuku, kunzima ukuba ushiye umnyango wakho. Udla ngokukhawuleza kukubizela kuye, ukuhlala kunye nobusuku bokulala, kwaye emva kokufunda nabazali bakhe. Okanye uqeshise indlu kwaye uhlala ngokwahlukileyo kumntu wonke, ekhoneni lakho lasezulwini, elonwabileyo elithulekileyo. Kwaye unike imvume yakho, ungathandabuzeki, kuba uvele nje uvakalise oko ude ulophulile!
Kwaye ngoku ufumana isidleke esifanelekileyo kwaye uhambe kuyo, uzele ithemba elizayo. Wena, ngokwenene, uyazi ukuba ubuhlobo obunzulu phakathi kwendoda kunye nentombazana isigaba esitsha ekuphuhliseni uthando lwakho, inqanaba eliphambili, elinoxanduva kwaye kungekhona kubantwana bonke. Kwaye wena, kubonakala ngathi ukulungele ukwenza oko, unesiqiniseko samandla akho kwaye uthando lwakho luya kutshabalalisa zonke izithintelo ezinokuma endleleni yakho yobomi.
Ekuqaleni uhlala umphefumlo emphefumlweni, zama konke okusemandleni akho ukuba ungavumeli ubomi bakho budle uthando lwakho. Uyihlambulula kunye, yonke imini uhamba phambili ekhitshini, ukukholisa intanda yakho kunye nesidlo esingalindelekanga. Akayikulibala ukunika iintyatyambo uze ulethe ikhofi yokulala, uhlala ebamba ngamazwi akho ngothando kwaye akanakhathala ukubonisa iimvakalelo zakhe. Kwimpelaveki wenza inkqubo yokonwabisa ngokwenene kwaye ungahlali ekhaya, kodwa zama ukuchitha ixesha lokuzonwabisa kwaye unenzuzo. Kanye ngeveki, bonke abahlobo bakho baqokelela endlwini yakho ukulungiselela iplanga elimnandi kwaye ufike ngokuzeleyo.
Emva kwexesha ukuphumla kwakho kuya kuba yinto enqabileyo. Ukuba inyanga edlulileyo awukwazi ukuhlala kwiindonga ezine, kodwa ngoku uvila kakhulu ukuhlangana kwindawo ethile. Kubonakala kuwe ukuba yonke into onayo - sele uyibonile. Kwi cafe awufuni. Kwimidlalo - nayo. Ngoko ulala nje embhedeni, uyamkela, kwaye ubukele iTV. Okanye utshintshile uhleli ekhompyutheni. Okanye ... ngokubanzi, kukho inketho ezininzi, kodwa bonke bahlala ekhaya.
Emva koko uyazixhalabisa ngelokuba uhlala ebomini, ufuna ukuya kumnandi kunye neentombi zakho ngendlela oye wahamba ngayo ukuhamba nge-nightclub ngaphambi kwentsasa, kwaye emva koko udibana nomsola obomvu olwandle. Ufuna ukulungiselela i-shabashka e-grandiose kwisangqa sahlobo, ininzi yokusela ubhiya nokudlala i-bowling okanye ibhilididi. Kodwa awukwazi ukuqonda amaphupha akho, kuba ekhaya uphinde ulinde ukucoca, kukho intaba yokuhlamba impahla engcolileyo kwinqwelo, kwaye akukho nto enye ekulungele ukudla. Akayi kuhamba kunye nabahlobo ngokubambisana.
Kuthatha ixesha elincinci, uqala ukuxhalabisa yonke imisebenzi yasekhaya. Ngelo xesha, umntu othandekayo ngokuphindaphindiweyo emva kokusebenza kunye nabahlobo kwi-cafe ukuze akhuphe uxinzelelo emva komsebenzi wosuku. Uyabuyisela intombi yakho, uthatha ibhotile yewayini kunye nawe-kwaye ulungiselela iseshoni yangempela ye-psychoanalysis, ehambelana nezikhalazo ezinzima "ngobomi obunjalo." Intombi iyancwisana kwaye iyancothula ngakumbi, ngokufanayo ichaza malunga nendlela evuliwe ngayo iindlovu kunye neentombazana zasebusuku. Kwaye uzibamba ucinga ukuba unomona omkhulu wenkululeko yokuhamba kwawo. Kwaye unqumle, ngaphandle kokuphazamisa yonke into, hamba ukuhamba.
Xa umntu opholileyo efika ekhaya kwaye engakufumani khona, uqala ukubiza, kwaye xa uva ukuba usebusuku blubusuku, ucatshukiswe ngokunyaniseka kwakho: ungathini na, kuba andinanto yokutya? Ingxabano iqala, eqhubekayo xa uhamba ngaphaya komda wendlu ... Yaye ukuba uvumela izinto zihambe ngokwazo, kungekudala uzakulahlekelwa lo buhlobo, oza kuzisola emva koko.
Oku, kunjalo, yinto enye yokukhetha indlela ubomi bakho obuya kuhamba ngayo emva kokuba uthathe isigqibo malunga nobuhlobo obunzulu. Konke kwenzeka ngokungafaniyo, ngokukodwa ukuba abantu bakulungele ngokwenene oko kukulindele. Kwimeko nayiphi na - ubuhlobo obunzulu bokuqala abuyiyo kuphela uvavanyo lokuthanda amandla, kodwa luvavanyo lwangempela ebomini, emva koko uza kukwazi ukuthetha ukuba ungumntu okhulile kwaye uqikelele, ukuba ukulungele ukufuna ukuphazamiseka kwiimeko ezinzima kwaye ukhuthaze ixesha elithile , fundisa othandekayo wakho kwaye utshintshe ngokwakho, ukuba iimeko zifuna.