Iimpawu zesimo sezimzimba zowesifazane zifana nokuba ngexesha lokukhulelwa kunye nexesha lokugqibela lokutshatyalaliswa kwemvelaphi ye-hormone yowesifazane ibangela ukubonakala kweengcinga ezibuhlungu kunye nokuphuhliswa kwengcinezelo. Kwaye ukuba phantse wonke umntu weva malunga nokudakumba kokubandezeleka, abantu abambalwa baye bakuva ngokuxinezeleka ngexesha lokukhulelwa.
Yintoni eyenzekayo kumzimba wesetyana emva kokukhulelwe?
Kwiingqondo zethu ixesha elide kunye neengcamango ezigxininisekile zokuba ngexesha lokukhulelwa kukho ukuhlaziywa komzimba wesetyhini, obangelwa yiinguqulelo ze-hormone, ukuba zonke iinguqulelo zowesifazane kuphela ukuzuza, ukongeza kwimpilo yakhe nokuguqula ngaphandle ukuze kube ngcono. Ukongezelela, iingcamango ezintle ezinxulumene nokulindela kokuzalwa komntwana, nazo zifaka isandla kwisimo esihle, esinokuthula.
Ngexesha elifanayo, uphando lubonisa ukuba phantse umfazi wesibini ufumana uxinzelelo kwixesha langaphambi kokubeletha. Kule meko, iimeko ezikhokelela ekubonakaleni kweempawu zokudakumba zingahluka. Ngokomzekelo, iimeko zengxaki zinokubangela uxinzelelo: iingxaki zemali, ubudlelwane obunzima nomyeni wakhe, ukungabi nendlu yokuhlala, njl. Iimvakalelo ezimbi kaninzi zikhuthazwa ziingcamango malunga nezitsha zabo, isimo esingaziwayo xa ekupheleni kwendlela ethile yobomi iphela. Ngoko, loo ntokazi iyaqonda ukuba akulula kakhulu ukukhokelela indlela yokuphila, ukuhamba, ukudibana nabahlobo, kunye nomsebenzi othile "ukuhlaselwa". Ngokuqhelekileyo umfazi uqala ukufumana ingcamango engaxhamliyo malunga nokuba wakhetha umntwana ngokuchanekileyo kumntwana wakhe, nokuba uya kukwanela umntwana ozayo, nokuba uya kuba nakho ukunika zonke iimfuno zakhe ngokwezimali ngokwaneleyo kunye nobaba onothando nononophelo. Ukudandatheka kwiimeko ezinjalo akusiyo into engaqhelekanga. Ngokuqhelekileyo kwindwendwe kunye neengqondo zengqondo, la mabhinqa athetha, ezama ukuchaza imeko yabo, njengoko, ngokomzekelo, badibana nabahlobo abadala abancinci, abancinci, abangakhathaliyo, kwaye xa bebuya ekhaya bajonge ngokwabo kwisibuko, baqala ukuzixolisa, kwaye Ndihlala ekhaya, ndinamanqatha, ndodwa, kwaye ikhefu lonyaka liqhekekile, kwaye akukho nto inomdla eyenzekayo ebomini ... Kwaye nokuba uqaphele ukuba ezi ngxaki azibalulekanga ukuba zibandakanye ukubaluleka kubo, ngamanye amaxesha umfazi unokulungisa izinto ezintle, kwaye kukho kunye nokunika isandla uxinzelelo. Ukongezelela, akufanele unqabe into ebalulekileyo ye-hormone njengobangela wokudakumba ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Ukutshintshwa kweHormonal akukho nje kuphela utshintsho ekusebenzeni kwezitho zangaphakathi, kodwa kuphazamisa inkqubo ye-nervous.
Kodwa umntu unokukwazi ukwahlula njani isimo sengqondo esibi ukususela ekuqaleni kokudakumba njengengxaki yokuxilongwa kwezonyango? Kufanelekile ukuba sicinge ukuba iingcamango ezixhalabileyo, ukungaqiniseki nto akuyikuzikhulula ngaphezu kweeveki ezimbini, akukho ukungaqondi, ubuthongo buphazamiseka. Ukuba ibhinqa ayiguquki kwiimpawu eziphazamisayo, ukudakumba kungadlulela nangemva kokunikezelwa, kuphazamise ixesha eliqaqambileyo lobomi, kunye nemiphumo yakhe kwithuba lokugqibela emva kokubambisana linokuba lukhulu kakhulu.
Nangona kunjalo, izazinzulu zaseFransi zatshicilela iziphumo zeminyaka yakhe emininzi yophando, ebonisa indlela inkqubo yesistim ekhulelwe ngayo umntwana. Kwaye ukuba ukubona kunye nokuvumba kungabonakalisi iimpawu zophuhliso, ngoko ke intlephu kunye nokuphulaphula kuyaqala ukukhula kumntwana osuka kwinyanga yesithathu yokukhulelwa. Ngoko ke, umntwana ubaluleke kakhulu ukuva ilizwi lethenda lomama ngokuphindaphindiweyo, nangona ebudeni. Ngelo xesha, iingqondo zengqondo kunye neengqondo zezinto zengqondo ziye zatyhila enye into ebalulekileyo echaphazela ukuphuhliswa ngokupheleleyo kwe-fetus - oku kukuxhamla phakathi komntwana nonina.
Kuye kwabonakaliswa ukuba uthando apho umfazi ephethe umntwana wakhe, ezo ngcamango ezinxulumene nokubonakala kwakhe kunye nolwabelana naye umntwana, zinempembelelo enkulu ekuphuhliseni i-psyche ye-fetus, kunye nememori yayo yeselula. Kule nkcazo iimpawu zomntu ezisisiseko zomntwana zibekwe, eziza kugcinwa kuyo yonke impilo yakhe yangaphambili kwaye ziya kuba nefuthe kuyo.
Iingcali zaseCanada zenze uphando phakathi kwabasetyhini abangama-500, okwesithathu kubo bathi ngexesha lonke lokukhulelwa, abazange bacinge kakhulu malunga nosana lwabo. Kwavela ukuba ubunzima beli sithathu leintsana ekuzalweni kwakungaphantsi komyinge. Ukuqwalasela oku ngakumbi kubonisa ukuba abantwana abavela kweli qela baxhomekeke kwiinkathazo zesifo kunye neengxaki kwi-digestive system.
Ubuchule beengcamango ezimbi ezichaphazela ukuphuhliswa komntwana buchazwa yeso sizathu senyama. Ngethuba lokuxinezeleka, izilonda ze-adrenal ziqala ukuvelisa i-catecholamines, ezibizwa ngokuba yi-hormone yokucindezeleka. Banceda umzimba ukujamelana noxinzelelo. Yimpembelelo yama-catecholamines emzimbeni wethu ocacisa intliziyo, i-swept, ukwanda kweemvakalelo kunye nokonwaba xa kwenzeka imeko exinzelelekileyo, leyo ke, ekuncedeni ukunqoba uxinzelelo. Ngethuba lokukhulelwa, i-catecholamines ingene kwi-barrier barrier to fetus, ngaloo ndlela yakha imvelaphi yengqondo yomntwana. Yingakho amava anamandla kunye namava enomama anokuba nefuthe elibi kumntwana, onokuchaphazela ubomi bakhe kamva.
Ngokuphambene noko, iingcamango ezivuyayo kunye ezintle, umvakalelo wakhe usasazeka kumntwana, ekubeni "ii-hormone zovuyo" eziveliswa ngumzimba wethu - i-endorphins ichaphazela umntwana. Imvakalelo evakalelwa ngumntwana esisu kwisibeleko somama ikhunjulwa ngumntwana kwaye mhlawumbi kwixesha elizayo ingathintela umlingiswa womntu ozayo.
Kwaye okubaluleke kakhulu, khumbula ukuba uthando lomama lunempahla enhle, ipropati engakhusela umntwana ekuchaseni izinto ezinobungozi, nakwiimeko ezinzima kakhulu. Nangu ke, ukukhulelwa, iingcamango ezimbi zichaphazela umntwana. Cinga kuphela okulungileyo!