Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba ulondoloze uthando: kwintlekele ngeyona nto inzulu

Intlanganiso yokuqala ngothando ayisalibala. Njengoko kulindeleke umhla wokuqala, iqhwa eluswini, intliziyo kwizithende. Enyanisweni, ngexesha kunye nokuqala kokonwaba okupheleleyo, isiphepho somoya sidlula. Kwaye ufuna ukugcina iimvakalelo zakho zothando. Khawucinge, kukho iindlela zokwenza!


Uthando olucingayo


Xa sisondela ngakumbi ukuba sazi omnye, iipasenti zothando zikhawuleza. Ngoko ke, ukugcina iimvakalelo zokukhanya, umntu kufuneka ahlangane ngokungabonakali kangangoko kunokwenzeka: kanye ngonyaka, yonke iminyaka emihlanu. Kwaye into eyona nto ingcono ukuba ayihlangane nonke, kodwa ukugcina ingqibelelo yeNkosana Enhle emphefumlweni. Ngamanye amaxesha unokondla lo mfanekiso oxabisekileyo ngemifanekiso evela kumafilimu nakwaveli. Unokondla nayiphi na imvakalelo kwiNkosana yakho kwaye ucinge yonke into oyifunayo - umfanekiso ococekileyo awuyi kuthintela kule nto. Ngokungafani nenene, ehlanganiswe ngesikhumba kunye neenwele zomntu.

Nangona kunjalo: Kule ndlela, abafazi abancinci bamaziko aphakathi nendawo aphezulu baphila. Bazithandana ngokuzithandela nabaculi okanye amaqhawe amabhuku. Kuze kube yindoda yangempela (ubuncinci kwithuba elithile) ayiba ngumchasi wePrince yamaphupha afanelekileyo. Kodwa nangona oku kwangempela kuvela ekugqibeleni, kunokuhlala kunqotshwe ngongcamango, ngokukhawuleza ukuyiqhathanisa noMntu Okhethiweyo. Akukho mntu kwihlabathi onokumelana nokukhuphisana okunjalo: kungekudala uza kuqokelela izinto zakhe aze aphinde azifihle emva komgca wokugqithisa.


Uthande ngendlela enye yezithuthi


Othandekayo nabathandekayo bayaqhubeka bengakuhoyikisi-ingenanto-ingabe asikho isizathu sokonwaba? Le meko ibuye igcine isethi epheleleyo yemvakalelo yothando! Ukungagqithwanga, umgca omnye, akukho uthando olufanayo lungagcinwa amashumi eminyaka njengeenkonzo zeeholide. Kufana nokuthanda iNkosana ecinga. I-check check does not threaten your relationship: yiyiphi intetho ethandekayo, ukubetha umunwe ngesando; uyabalala ebusuku; Zingaphi kangangexesha elilishumi elinikeza iintyatyambo? - ezi mpahla ziya kufa kunye naye.

Nangona kunjalo: Ubuhlobo obunjalo bufana nokugula okungapheli kwexesha elide, ukuphoqeleka ukuyeka amaninzi amaninzi. Uthando olumgangatho omnye lwenyaniso lugxotha kakhulu umnini walo umnqweno.


Umdlalo ngokukhawuleza


Ukuba ezi ndlela zincinci azihambisani nawe, unokuhlala ugcina uthando lwakho ngokufumana imeko engapheliyo. Nje ngo-Romeo noJuliet! Ngendlela, awaziwa oko kwenzeka ntoni ukuba la maqhawe enothando ahlangene phantsi kophahla olulodwa ukuze aphile kunye ngokuvuya ngonaphakade. "Romeo othandekayo, ndidiniwe ukuqokelela iisokisi zakho emagumbini!" "UJuliet, kodwa akwenzi nto nento, kwaye ndidiniwe njengenja.


"Kwenzeka njani ukuba isidlo sakusihlwa - asilungele?"


Nangona kunjalo: Ukubamba iqabane kusemngciphekweni rhoqo: kuthekani ukuba unqoba yonke imithintelo? Ngokukhawuleza ukunyamezela kwakho kuya kuvuzwa ngokuphumelela ngokupheleleyo? Yintoni ke iya kuba yinto evuyisayo yothando?


Uthando kwixesha elizeleyo


Iingcali zengqondo ziyazi ukuba i-half half-life of feelings of romance kwizilwanyana ezimbini ezihlala phantsi kophahla olufanayo ziintsuku ezingama-90.
Oko kukuthi, sinokulindela ukuba kwiinyanga zintathu iimvakalelo ziya kuba ziqingatha kakhulu njengoko zaziqala ekuqaleni. Kwaye ngonyaka baya kuguqula uthuli. Oku, ngokusobala, kwakuqatshelwe ukuba "uhambahamba" uDon Juan. Kwaye kwiminyaka emva nje, ukuziphatha okunjalo kuye kwaphela ekubeni yindoda yesini. Abanye baphila ngale ndlela, ukutshintsha phakathi kwamabini athi: "Uthando lufikile" kwaye "uthando ludlulile."

Nangona kunjalo: bambalwa abalawula ukuhlala bephila ngokuqhubekayo ebomini babo. Kuba ukuhlala ngaphandle kokuzinzileyo kubantu abaninzi abadala kunzima kakhulu.


Uthande unxantathu


Wena, njengesitimela esivela kwincwadi yesifundo seemathematika, rhoqo uhamba ukusuka kwinqanaba A ukuya kutsho B. Kwinqanaba A unayo indoda, ngokubhekiselele kuyo igama elithi "romance" lithetha nje lihlazo. Kwinqanaba В - umthandi kunye nayo yonke impawu yothando. Umyeni unikela ubomi buzinzileyo kunye nentuthuzelo, kwaye umthandi - unomdla kunye nomdla. Indoda ibona umfazi "kuwo wonke ubuhle bekhaya", nangaphambi komthandi, ngokubhekiselele kwimingcele, umngcipheko kunye nemeko engathandabuzekiyo, ubonakala engathandabuzekiyo.

Nangona kunjalo: Masithi ngelinye ilanga umyeni wakho uyakhathala, kwaye uya kuthi: "Yiya kumthandi wakho." Kwaye ngoku, kubonakala ngathi, ixeshana elimnandi lomanyano: abathandi bezandla zangasese bazibandakanya ibini elizinzile. Kodwa kuphela uthando olumuncu ngokukhawuleza kulolu hlobo lweemeko. Oku, ngandlela, ufaka ubungqina kwiimanani: emva kokuphuka nomyeni wakhe ngenxa yokungcatsha, ibhinqa lihlala lihlala kunye nomthandi wakhe kuphela kwimeko enye kwi-10, kaninzi ithetha nomntu wesithathu.


Uthando luye? - Hamba phambili


Ukugcina uthando, sivula i-akhawunti ngokulahlekelwa. Zizo zintlobo ezimbini: mhlawumbi kufuneka sinciphise ngokukhawuleza ubukhulu bokunxibelelana kwaye senze ulwalamano olungathandabuzekiyo; okanye ukufihla intloko yakho entlabathi uze uye kumbono. Okanye mhlawumbi kukufanelekile ukuyeka ukutya okusemgangathweni kunye nokutshintshela kwimveliso emitsha? Mhlawumbi kulungile ukuhlala kunye nomthandayo kwaye ubone: kuza kwenzeka ntoni emva koko, ngaphaya kwexesha leentsuku ezingama-90? Ngaba kukho indawo yothando? Ezinye izibini sele zenze izinto ezifanayo. Uthando luyinkimbinkimbi, kwaye icandelo lothando liyingxenye encinane yalo. Kodwa nguye ozukiswa ngamaculo, amabhayisikobho kunye neenveli. Ngoko kubonakala kuninzi ukuba akukho luthando. Kwaye ukuba uyayikholelwa, uthando luya "kudlula" emva kweenyanga ezintathu!

Kukhona enye imbono yokuba ubushushu bothando buyinto engaphambili. Ngaphandle koko, asiyi kuze senze inkathazo yokwenza le adventure ephambili: ukuqala ukuhlala kunye. Kodwa kuya kwenzeka ntoni emva koko kuya kuboniswa kuphela ngokwenza!