Ukukhulelwa kuhlale kunzima kumfazi osebenzayo. Ukunyamezela, uxinzelelo, ukwesaba umhlalaphantsi akuvumeli ugxininise into ephambili - ukuzinakekela wena nomntwana wakho. Ukongezelela, iingcebiso zoogqirha kunye nezicwangciso zobugcisa zihlala ziphikisana. Masizame ukufumana umgangatho ophakathi. Ngoko, ukukhulelwa nokuhamba ngekhefu lokubeleka ngumxholo wengxoxo namhlanje.
Kuyaziwa ukuba into eyingozi kakhulu kunoma yimuphi umphathi ngumqeshwa okhulelweyo: awukwazi ukuxaka, ukulayisha kunye nokwenza ukwesaba, nawe kufuneka ugcine indawo, uhlawule ikhefu lakho lokubeletha. Umqeshi onqabileyo angonwabile ngokwenene. Kodwa ukukhulelwa akukwesabeki njengoko kubonakaliswa kwiibali ngabaqeshi abangenangqondo. Kwizenzo ezisemthethweni, ngamanye amaxesha kwenzeka ukuba abaphathi kunye nabalingane balindele ngokulangazela ukubuya komqeshwa emva komyalelo.
KUKHULU OKANYE KANYE?
Ukukhulelwa kungekudala okanye kamva kubonakala kwabanye. Ngaphandle kwezigaba zokuqala, xa isisu singakabonakali, ama-hormone aqala ukwenza umsebenzi wawo kwaye atshintshe yonke into: ukubonakala, ukuziphatha kwezinto. Oku kubonwa ngokukhawuleza kunye nabalingani beentombi, kwaye amadoda aya kudala okanye kamva aqonde yonke into. Ngoko ke ufuna nini ukuxelela abaphathi bakho malunga neemeko zakho?
Kungcono ukulinda de iiveki ezili-12 zokukhulelwa - kude kube ngeli xesha isisu singabonakali, kwaye ukukhulelwa ngokwabo kusemngciphekweni kunokuba kamva. Iinyanga ezili-ezintathu sele isisizathu esinzulu sokuya kwiofisi yeenduna. Abasetyhini abaninzi bayesaba ukuqala le ngxoxo, nangona phantsi komthetho wabasebenzi umfazi okhulelwe akanalo ilungelo lokutshisa. Abantu abaninzi bacinga imifanekiso embi kwiingcamango: umphathi uya kuqala ukuhlambalaza, abalingane rhoqo kusasa baya kubuza ngobuhlungu indlela inetyosis yakho ngayo, umcebisi uya kucela ukubamba igama ngaphambi kokushiya umyalelo. Kodwa, mhlawumbi, yonke into iya kuphutha ngokupheleleyo? Umphathi uya kuvuma ishedyuli yomsebenzi wamahhala, ukunciphisa iimfuno, oogxa baya kuncedisa, babelane ngamava, bacebise izibhedlele zokubeletha, baqokele imali ngesipho? Awazi ngaphambili, kutheni "umoya" wena?
INDLELA YOKUPHUMA ISICWANGCISO
Isixa somsebenzi ngexesha lokukhulelwa kunye nokulungiselelwa kweqela ngenxa yokuba awuyi kubakho ixesha elithile kuxhomekeke kwimisebenzi ethile. Ukuba umsebenzi unesidima kwaye awubandakanyi uxanduva lwexesha elide, okwaneleyo ukudlulisela imisebenzi yakho kwisekela, ukummisela kwimiba yezemicimbi, ukumazi ngeengxelo zamuva, njl. Xa ukhe uphathe iiprojekthi zangexesha elide, kubalulekile ukuzisa abaphathi ngexesha elifanelekileyo malunga neemeko eziguqukileyo. Lo xanduva luya kuthetha malunga nobuchule bakho. Thatha malunga neenyanga ezintandathu ukulungiselela ukutshintshwa nokusabalalisa uxanduva phakathi kwabasebenzi.
Kubalulekile ukubala amandla akho, qwa lasela iingcebiso zakho zezempilo kunye nogqirha uze uceba ixesha lokukhulelwa. Ukuya kuluphi inyanga oya kusebenza? Kwiimeko apho kufuneka uchithe ixesha okanye utshintshe ishedyuli? Mhlawumbi ufuna ukwenza umsebenzi othile ekhaya - ngaba kunjalo?
Khusela ilungelo lakho lokwenza oko unako kwaye ufuna ukukwenza, nangona ukwesaba kwabasemagunyeni ukuba ukukhulelwa kuya kukuthintela ekujonganeni nemisebenzi. Ngokomzekelo, ezinye iiprojekthi zangexesha elide zingadluliselwa kubalingane kwaye zinike amandla onke kwiimeko olawula ngazo ukugqiba ngexesha. Ngaphambili, lumkisa abathengi abaqhelekileyo ukuba uya kufuneka unikezele ishishini kubalingane.
SIPHUMA KWI-LAD EZIQHELEKILEYO
Abo bajwayele ukubeka iminqweno yokuqala kwimeko, ukuba babe yienkokheli, benze izigqibo ezizimeleyo, kunzima ukutshintsha ubomi bomi buthule, ngoko ke ixesha lokulindela umntwana kumfazi weshishini unokuphelisa ngengozi yengqondo. Kule nto, ubandezeleka kunye nempilo: imithwalo enzima, ukunyamezela kungabangela ukuzalwa kwangaphambili. Ngoko ke, ngexesha lokukhulelwa, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba kuphela okuphambili kuwe okwangoku umntwana ozayo. Ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba awukwazi ukulungelelanisa nangayiphi na indlela, cela uncedo kwi-psychologist. Ungabi neentloni ngolu hlobo - unengxaki yakho oh indlela ongekho yedwa ...
UMSEBENZI WENKONZO
Uluvo lokusebenza ekhaya lundwendwe kwinyanga yesixhenxe yokukhulelwa, xa umfokazi wesifo somzimba, umphathi nomyeni othandekayo, njengokungumqambi, wazama ngamandla ukungonakalisa ngelikhefu lokubeleka, "kusho uAlga. - Ekupheleni, ndaya kuphumla. Kodwa emva kweeveki ezimbini zobomi obuthulileyo ndandibuhlungu ngenxa yokubuhlungu kunye nekhanda, ndazikhumbuza nakwiindwendwe eziqhelekileyo zentloko, ingakhankanyi ucwangciso oluxakekileyo lwemihla ngemihla kunye nezingcingo ezingapheliyo. Ukuze ngingahambi kakuhle, ndajoyina umkhosi wabasetyhini basebenza ekhaya, inzuzo kunye nomsebenzi we-journalists iselula. Kwaye ngomnyaka wesibini ndaye ndahlala ekhaya nomntwana, ndenza umsebenzi wendlu kwaye ndisebenza. "
KUMTHETHO
Ngokomgaqo-nkqubo wezabasebenzi waseRussian Federation, ukuphela kwekhontrakthi yengqesho kumsebenzi womqeshi kwimeko yokukhulelwa komqeshwa akuvumelekanga; Kwakhona ixesha lokuvavanywa lichithwe. Ukuba ixesha lesivumelwano sengqesho liphelile, umqeshi kufuneka alonge.
• Ikhefu lokubeletha li-70 (xa kukho ukukhulelwa okuphindaphindiweyo - 84) ngaphambi kokubeleka kunye no-70 (kwimeko yokuzalwa okulukhuni - 86, ekuzalweni kwabantwana abathathu -110) emva kokubeletha.
• Zonke iinyanga ezilisithoba unelungelo lokuthatha ixesha lesahlulo okanye umsebenzi wesikhathi-nxaxheba kumaxesha apho kukho isincomo esifanelekileyo kumgqirha wakho.
• Ngekhefu lokubeleka, uza kufumana inzuzo elinganayo nemali yakho eqhelekileyo yemivuzo. Ukongezelela ekuhlawuleni ikhefu lokubeleka, kukho ezinye iinzuzo zabamama abalindeleyo:
- isibonelelo xa ubhalisa kwiiveki ezili-12 zokukhulelwa;
isibonelelo sokuzalwa komntwana;
- Isibonelelo sokunyamekela umntwana ade afinyelele unyaka nesiqingatha.
• Ngokuya kwesicelo sakho, umqeshi unyanzelekile ukuba akunike ikhefu ukuba unakekele umntwana ongaphantsi kweminyaka emithathu ubudala ngelixa egcina indawo yomsebenzi. Enyanisweni, ngaphandle kweentlawulo.
• Ukuba unina ongumongikazi, kufuneka ukuba unikezele ikhefu lokusondeza umntwana uze uneminyaka eyi-1.5 ubudala.
FUMANA NEENKONZO ZEPRAYIMARI
ISICWANGCISO SOKUQALA: Fumana ixesha apho umphathi wakho akudingeki ukuba ahambe apho kwaye uya kuba nemimoya.
HLAWULISA I-OPPORTUNITY YAKHO: Mamela ingcebiso yugqirha. Ukuba ugqirha ekuxelela ukuba ugweme uxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo, kungcono ukuyeka umsebenzi onzulu.
LUNGISELELA UKUQHUBA: yenza uluhlu lwemibandela ofuna ukuxoxa ngayo nomphathi. Xa ulungiselela intetho, kunceda ukucinga ngesicwangciso somsebenzi wakho ngaphambi kokuzalwa komntwana. Ngaphambi kwangoko, jonga kuwe ukuze ufake indawo kwaye ulungele ukulungelelanisa ukhetho lwakho.
Ziqaphele: zikhumbule iimfuno zakho ngexesha lokukhulelwa: ishedyuli yomsebenzi wokutshintsha ukulala okungcono, ukuba kuyimfuneko, uyavuma ukwenza inxalenye yomsebenzi ekhaya, uthathe ixesha lakho ngeendleko zakho, njl njl. Xoxa nomphathi weentlawulo ozilungeleyo kwikhefu lokubeletha kunye nethuba lokubuyela kwindawo yokusebenzela emva kwayo.
UKUPHATHA
Ndazala, njengoko besithi, ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka kwemveliso. Andizange ndifune ukuzisa umntu omtsha kwimeko yelo daba, ukulahlekelwa isikhala, imali kunye neziqinisekiso. Ngethuba lonyaka emva kokuzalwa ndasebenza ekhaya, ndandisoloko ndifowuni kwaye ndafika kwiofisi ngexesha. Ngoku ndiqhubeka ndisebenza njengomgcini-akhawunti oyintloko kwindawo enye. Umlawuli waya kumdibana nam, ngokucacileyo, akazange afune ukungena endaweni yam ngomntu omtsha. U-Elena, oneminyaka engama-32 ubudala
Emva kwekhefu lokubeleka, ndaya kwizifundo ezihlaziyileyo ndaza ndathumela i-intanethi kwi-Intanethi. Emva kwexesha elithile, ndanikelwa ukuba ndibe yinhloko yesebe laseMoscow yenkampani enkulu yokubamba. Ngenxa yoko, ndakwazi ukuhlala nomntwana kwi-kindergarten, kwaye ke kwakukho ukugxuma kumsebenzi wam. UMaria, oneminyaka engama-34 ubudala
KUFUNEKA UKUZI!
Ibhinqa elinomdla omkhulu kulo mbandela wokukhulelwa kunye nokuya kwekhefu lokubeleka, kuyafaneleka ukuqikelela ukuba:
♦ Uza kufuna imali ngeemfuno ezahlukeneyo, ukususela kwimali yokutya okunomsoco ngexesha lokukhulelwa nokubeletha kwaye uphelele ngeendleko ze-kindergart kunye nesikolo esihle;
♦ Kubalulekile ukunquma kwangaphambili ukuba ngubani oza kuhlala kunye nosana xa uya emsebenzini. Ungadlulanga ixesha lokukhangela i-nanny efanelekileyo okanye uhlele nabazali bakho kusengaphambili malunga "nomsebenzi wolawulo";
♦ Ukuba uya emsebenzini emva kwekhefu lokubeleka, uya kubuzwa ngubani oza kuhlala kunye nosana xa egula;
♦ Kucetyiswa ngexesha lokukhulelwa ukuvumelana nobunkokheli ekutshintsheni kwexesha lesinye okanye - ngomthwalo omkhulu wokusebenza - ukuguqulwa komsebenzi olula.