Ukukhupha isisu: i-pros and cons

Ngamanye amaxesha kubangele ukuba abantu bakhokelwa yimigaqo, kwaye bazama ukumboza amagama afakazelwe ngento ebizwa ngokubabulala. Ewe, kuba ngenye indlela awukwazi ukubiza ukukhipha isisu. Bazama ukuzithethelela ngeemeko, ukuphelelwa lithemba, kunye neemeko eziphathekayo. Kodwa ezi zizathu nje. Wonke umntu kufuneka azi ukuba ilungelo ukusuka kumama wokukhulelwe, umntwana uhlala, ukhula kwaye ufuna ukuzalwa.

Kwaye igama elithi "embryo" oogqirha, ababiza ngokuba ngabantwana, liphela nje ithuba lokubuyela emva kweengxaki kwaye ungathatheli uxanduva lwe-infanticide. Kwaye kuyamangalisa ukuba kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, abafazi abazange bafunde ukuxabisa impilo kunye nobomi babo. Akusiyo imfihlo ukuba amatyala angabikho kokukhulelwa emva kokukhipha isisu ayenzekayo. Le nkqubo engenakuphikiswa ayinakudibanisa abaninzi abasetyhini, into ephambili kubo ukuba baphule ukukhulelwa okungafunekiyo. Kulo mzuzu, akukho mntu ucinga ngomntwana.

Kukho iintlobo ezimbini zokukhipha isisu, ukukhupha isisu (umyalelo) kuqhutyelwa kwiiveki ezilishumi elinambini, kunye nokukhupha isisu, ezinokukwenziwa ukufikelela kwiiveki ezingamashumi amabini anesine. Akukho nanye kwezi ndlela kubantu, kuba ukubulala akunjalo.
Ukukhipha isisu ngexesha elincinci kuthathwa njengento ebuhlungu kakhulu kwaye akubandakanyi nemiphumo emibi. Kodwa le ngcamango iphosakeleyo. Nayiphi na ingenelelo kwinkqubo yendalo ingakhokelela kwiimeko ezinzima. Inokuvula igazi okanye ihlale ingxenyana, eya kukhokelela kwiinkqubo ezivuthayo, kwaye inkokheli yonke into ingagqiba kakhulu. Inkqubo iqulethe ukusondeza umntwana ngaphandle kwesibeleko nge sixhobo esikhethekileyo, kwaye ke, ukuba usayibona i-remnants, ukukhangela. Zingaphi iifilimu malunga nokukhipha izisu zadutshulwa, zisebenzisa ikhamera encinci, kwaye ifilimu ibonisa ngokucacileyo ukuba umntwana uyamelana nezenzo zoogqirha, uzama ukufihla aze aphephe. Akukho ndawo yokulinda uncedo, emva kokuba bonke abantu abangabomthonyama, unina, bethengile. Kodwa unobomi obuncinane obunokumelana nawo.

Ukukhupha isisu emva komhla wecala kufuneka livalwe ngumthetho. Emva koko, ngokuqinisekileyo umntwana ophilileyo uyaqwengulwa kwaye ususwe njengento engabalulekanga kwaye engadingekile. Aba bantwana baqulunqwe kakuhle kwaye balungele ukunqoba ubunzima. Ngethuba apho abazali abathile balwela ubomi bentsana efanayo. Abanye ba bulale. Imiphumo emva kokukhipha isisu ngokukhawuleza iyanzima. Ukungabi nalutho, ukuvuvukala, oku kunokukhokelela kwiinkqubo ezithintekayo. Isimo somzimba, oku akuyona into embi kakhulu. Kunzima kangakanani ukuhlala nomntwana phantsi kwentliziyo yakho ixesha elide, sele uziva yonke into, uyazi izwi lakho. Ukuhlengahlengiswa kweHormon emzimbeni kusele kwenzeka, ukuguquka kwemizwelo, iiminqweno zitshintsha yonke iminithi. Kwaye kukho ukukhanya akukho nto. Umzimba wawulungiselelwe ukuthwala umntwana, ukuzala, ukuncelisa. Yaye yonke into iyashintsha ngokuphawulekayo. Ubungenakwenzeka kuphela ngaphakathi, kodwa emphefumlweni. Uninzi lwabafazi baqonda ukuba babulala umntwana wabo, kuphela emva kokukhipha isisu. Kodwa kuphelile.

Oogqirha baqhuba uvavanyo, ngaphambi kokuba inkqubo ibonise ividiyo efanayo malunga nokukhipha isisu, kwaye ubuncinane ubuncinci babesetyhini abakhulelweyo benqaba ukwenza umsebenzi. Kuthetha ukuthini oku? Oku kungqina nje ukuba asiyazi okanye abafuni ukwazi yonke inyaniso. Ukungayiqondi kwizenzo zabo, sizama ukuzikhusela kwisimo esibuhlungu, siqhubeke nokubulala iintsana ezisiswini. Kufuneka ukuba uqaphele ukuba "umntwana", "imbungu", akuyona into ede kwaye engaqhelekanga. Lo ngumntwana ohlala phantsi kwentliziyo.

Ezi ifilimu kufuneka ziboniswe kubaselula ukuze zibenze bacinge ngaphambi kokuba benze iphutha. Kwaye ke mhlawumbi ke baya kuqala ukwenza izigqibo ezifanelekileyo, ukuba kungcono ukuzikhusela kunokuba baxhomekeke kwintlungu enobomi obuncinci, ngokuqinisekileyo abazange bafanelwe ngeso simo sengqondo. Ngaloo ndlela, ukugcina impilo yabo kwikhaya elizayo kunye nokuzalwa kwabantwana abanomdla.