Ukubonakala komntwana kwintsapho kuhlala kukuvuyisa, kodwa ngexesha elifanayo umthwalo onzima. Oku kukunyuka kweengxaki ezininzi kunye noxanduva, kunye nokutshintshwa kwenkqubo eqhelekileyo kwintsapho, kunye neenguqu ezininzi, ezinkulu kunye nezincinci.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, abazali bavame ukwenza yonke into ngokwemigaqo, ukuze bazibonakalise bona kunye nabo bonke abantu abazungezile ukuba ungumzali omhle . Ngomdlalo ongenalwazi, umama noyise bayaphelile, kwaye umntwana uhlala esilungile, kodwa ukhathala ngokupheleleyo, abazali abacaphukileyo nabangakhathaliyo. Utata uya emsebenzini, akunjalo ukulala ngokwaneleyo. Kwaye umama unomsebenzi wakhe wokujikeleza-ukutya, ukuhamba, ukugcoba, ukuhlamba, ukuhlamba, ukucoca, ukucoca, ukupheka ... Ndifuna ukulala njengawo onke amaxesha, ubuthongo buba buhlungu.
Ungenzi "ihashe eliqhutywayo" . Ukuba uyaqonda ukuba oku akukwazi ukuqhubeka nokunye - ukuqokelela ngokukhawuleza ibhunga lentsapho. Cinga malunga nokuba kukuphi na ukunyaniseka, kwaye, ukuthembela kuyo, kuza nemithetho emitsha nemigaqo yentsapho yakho.
Umzekelo, ukuba ukhathele, kwaye umntwana akanakhululwa - ungayiqondi ithawula nesepha! Gcoba ukuhlamba kude kube ngomso. Ingane yakho ayisebenzi kwindawo yokwakha, ayikho into engcolileyo. Khawucinge nangethuba elifanelekileyo lokuhlamba-mhlawumbi oku kuya kuba ngokuhlwa xa indoda ibuya ekhaya isuka emsebenzini kwaye inethuba lokukunceda? Cinga ngomsindo womntwana wakho, abantwana abaninzi banokuphelelwa amandla ngokuhlwa ukuba ukuhlamba kuya kuba yintlanulo. Emva koko kuya kuba ngcono ukuhlamba umntwana emva kwemini okanye kusihlwa. Kwakhona, qiniseka ukuxhuma abanye kulo mzekelo. Ngaba intombi yakhe yamvakashela? Omkhulu, makamncede!
Ukuba i-crumb ayithandi ukubhukuda kuwo onke - ngoko naliphi na ixesha, zama ukuthatha ibhobho enkulu ndawonye! Bonke abantwana bathanda ukuhlamba nabazali babo. Into ephambili kukuba uhlambe uhlamba phambi kwaye uzihlambe ngaphambi.
Akuyimfuneko ukuzama ukulungelelanisa - oku akunakwenzeka! Musa ukuhlamba izitya - akunandaba, uya kuhlamba kamva. Ingubo e-ironing, nayo, ingalinda - emva kwayo yonke, oku akuyiyo ingubo yokugqibela yakho kunye nengubo yokugqoka yabantwana. Ungalungiseleli izitya ezimnandi - awukho kubo ngoku, pheka izitya ngokulula, iintsuku ezingama-2-3. Ngendlela, izithelo eziqingqiweyo kunye nemifuno, iimveliso ezigqityiweyo kunye nezinye izitya zokutya ngokukhawuleza ziya kunceda.
Musa ukuyeka uncedo lwabafokazi! Uncedo lwabanye kwintsapho apho kukho umntwana omncinci kuyimfuneko, kungekhona ubuthathaka. Ngoxa uhamba nomntwana wakho evulekile, vumela izihlobo kunye nabahlobo bahlambuluke, isinyithi, ukupheka, uhlambe, njl. Ewe, bona, kwaye akunjalo. Ngoku ubaluleke kakhulu umoya omtsha, kuba esi siqinisekiso sempilo. Yaye ukuba unempilweni, uya kuba nempilo kunye nosana lwakho, kodwa ngaba le nto ibaluleke kakhulu? Ngendlela, akumele uhambe kwindawo efanayo. Ubomi abubonakali buyimfusa kwaye bubuhlungu - guqula iindlela.
Ukuba umntwana wakho elele ebusweni - uphonsa yonke ishishini lakho kwaye uya kulala! Ukuba ungeke ulale, ke ubuncinane ukuphumla. Yaye akukho "andiyizixhamla"! Oomama abangabongikazi, ubuthongo bubungundoqo bokuphucula i-lactation. Kwaye nangona ungasondli, usengumntu onobucayi kunye nesimo esicasulayo sokuba umntwana uziva ephilileyo, kwaye udlula kuye. Njengomphumo - i-crumb ingenangqondo, eyenza ukhathele ngakumbi. Ngoko kuya kufika isangqa esichukumisayo.
Akukho mfuneko yokucinga ngokuthe ngqo! Ingcamango yokuba ngelixa umntwana esincinane, unina akanalo ilungelo lokuzijonga kwaye uzihlekise - ngokuphambukayo! Ewe, ngoku unalo ixesha elincinci kuwe, kodwa ungazilibali wena uze unxweme ekukhathaleleni umntwana. Vumela umyeni udlale encinane nge-crumb de uze wenze umququzelo kwaye usebenzise imaski ebusweni bakho. Ngokubhekiselele ekuziphatheni - okwenziwe, awukwazi ukuya kwi-nightclub, kodwa ukuxhomekeka kwendalo kunye nokuya kwiindwendwe akuvunyelwe nhlobo. Kwaye ukuze uhambe kumyuziyam okanye ukupaka epakini, uya kuncedisa ukubethela okanye i-kangaroo.
Musa ukudimazeka! Fumana isisombululo esifanelekileyo kwintsapho yakho, khetha indlela eya kuba yinto efanelekileyo kakhulu kuwe, kwaye kungekudala uza kubona ukuba ubomi bube lula!