Ndiyindoda ebonwabileyo. Andizange ndibe ngumhlaza. Untsonkothile, uyonwabile, uphaphekile, unxakile, kodwa ungalunci.
Andizange ndibe ne-aspen, kwaye 90-60-90 yavela kuphela kwisixa. Ubunzima bam, endiwuphatha ngentlonelo enkulu, ngenyameko ngokuqwalasela ubunzima emphakathini, ngokunyanzela ukuguquka kummandla we-90 +5. Nangona kunjalo, ngelo xesha andingazi ukuba ndingummeli wobafazi "abakhulu" kwaye ndazibiza ngokuba "i-blonde ekuzaleni kobomi." Ukuba songeza kule nto ukuba umbala wezinwele zam ungcono kakhulu, ngoko ke kunzima ukuqonda ukuba kutheni uninzi lwabahlobo bam belumamathele ngokukhawuleza, ukuphulaphula iingxelo ezinjalo, kuthathwa njengento engathembekiyo.
"Andiyiqondi," uLena wathi ngamazinyo akhe, engazibambeli, "ungayinceda njani kwaye unandiphe ubomi ubomi obunzima obukhulu phantse?" Ngaba akuyikwesabisi nonke? "
Sathetha ixesha elide ngalobo busuku. Ndandiphulaphula uLencino ndimnxusa kakhulu. Kodwa kungekhona ngenxa yokuba engonwabanga ngenxa yokuphelela kwayo. Kodwa ngenxa yokuba akayiqondi inzuzo yakhe kwaye akwazi ukuwusebenzisa. Xa uLela eshiya, ndahlala edeskini ndathabatha ipeni. Kwaye ndabhala eli nqaku.
Izikhundla ezintathu ezithathwa yihlabathi
1. Owesetyhini uhlala ehle
Jonga ngokukhawuleza indlela ukuzola nokuzola ngayo umfazi ngamnye ozele. Indlela ahlala ngayo! Ukunyakaza kwakhe kuphuza, kuhamba kakuhle, kugcwele isithunzi. Ikhanya ngokuzingca nokuzithemba. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kuba akadingeki ukwenza okungenani izinto ezimbini ezithatha ixesha elininzi kunye nomgudu kwaye unqande naliphi na ibhinqa lokulinganisela ngokomzwelo: 1) zama ukuqhubeka kunye nefashoni - asikwazi ukukwazi ukufana nabanye; 2) ukukhawulela kwisidlo esingumntu onobukhohlakele kwaye ugxobhe umgca phambi kwemiboniso yeevenkile zokuthengisa. Ngaphezu koko, ngaphantsi koxinzelelo lwe-"chocolatele" yethu, nayiphi na imibimbi iphela. Kwaye malunga malunga nemida yexesha, xa bengayi kuba nokukhathazeka ngathi.
2. Owesifazane othobekileyo uhlala ehlakaniphile
Ngokuqinisekileyo, ngenxa yokuba ixesha elithile, amantombazana amancinci angaphantsi ayisebenzisekanga kwaye ngamanye amaxesha agxothayo ejikelezayo, umfazi ozelekileyo unikeza iincwadi zokufunda, ukuthatha inxaxheba kwiingxoxo zeengcali kunye neengxoxo, ngamanye amaxesha zidlala nokufunda iilwimi zangaphandle. Akunakukhetha. Abanye baze bafikelele kwinqanaba lokubhalwa kweengcali - ngicinga, kuphela isizathu sokungabi nongaphezulu komzimba.
3. Ibhinqa elipheleleyo litshatile ukutshata Iminyaka emininzi ibukele amadoda, ndafika kwisigqibo: umbono wabo unomnye umzekelo, unenzuzo kakhulu kuthi - usasazeke. Le ndlela ihamba ngendlela: indoda ihamba ngezitrato, ikhangele ngokungqalileyo kwiwindow yokubonisa iteksi, kwaye ibona ijikeleze kuye amabhinqa ahlukeneyo amabini. Kwaye nangona omnye wabo ephumelela ukuyihlawula ngethuba, ke ziphi iziqinisekiso? Emva kwayo yonke, ehamba kufuphi naye, uya kubona abanye abangamashumi amabini. Kwaye ngubani owaziyo ... Kodwa ke uyavela - ibhinqa elipheleleyo. Le ndoda iya kuba ngakwesobunxele-yona, kunye nokubonakala kwesokudla-yona. Konke kupheliswa ngokupheleleyo kwaye ngokupheleleyo. Kwaye ke jonga ngokungqalileyo, ungakhange ukhangele ngokusondeleyo-kwaye ubuhle, kwaye buqili, kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu - into engavamile! Emva koko uyaqonda: Yena, ekugqibeleni Yena!
Kwaye konke oko. Akunakuze senze nantoni na, khetha nje uninzi-kwaye kubhalisi. Okanye kwiiCanary Islands, yilokho othanda ngaphezulu.
Ewe, ngoku, ukuqonda ukuphakama kwakho, unokuhamba ngokukhuselekileyo kwisitrato, kwisitoreji, ukuya kwivenkile. Ukuziphakamisa wayephakamisa isikhumba sakhe waza wadlala ngokukhawuleza ngekhwama lakhe. Emva koko, ngaba abanye besifazane, bajonga ngandlela-thile, kodwa ezandleni zethu baxhamla ngokukhawuleza kwinqanaba labesifazane babo.
Ewe, ukuba ibhinqa elipheleleyo liya kuhlaziya ikhabethe lakhe, ke ngenxa yoko kukho iinkohlakalo ezinzima.
3 iingcebiso ezifanelekileyo malunga nendlela yokuziphatha kwivenkile:
- Musa ukuphulaphula abo bathi: "Akuyi kunanela wena," kwaye uqale ukulinganisa ubukhulu obukhulu: kungcono "ukugalela" amaxesha amahlanu kunokulahlekelwa yinto enye.
- Musa ukuthenga into oyifunayo, kodwa, ngokwemthengisi, "welula" okanye "ithwala". Ukuba inyaniso iyasasazeka, iya kulahlekelwa yifom yayo. Kwaye ukuba akunakululwa na?
- Ungathathi nento engcono kakhulu, ukuba ayikufanelanga - awufuni ukukhangela nje?