Amantombazana angatshatanga avame ukuphupha ukuba imini iya kufika xa i-horse phezu kwehashe elimhlophe (okanye ekugqithiseni, umnini-shishini kuMercedes omnyama) uya kubonakala emva kwabo, unike isandla sakhe nentliziyo aze amthabise ebukumkanini bakhe apho kungekho zixhala kunye neengxaki. Kodwa njani ukuhlangabezana nale ndoda ebalulekileyo kwaye inomdla kwihlabathi, ukuba asiyazi ukuba singazi njani?
Kwaye phawula ngokukhawuleza i-anecdote apho uMoshashazhdy ubusuku abuza uThixo ngokuphumelela i-lottery, ekugqibeleni uyaphendula ukuba kuya kuba kuhle ukuqala ukuthenga ithikithi yeLotto. Isiphetho esivela kule ngqungquthela, apho kuphela ihlaya, kufuneka ibe ngolu hlobo: ukuba ufuna ukubamba inhlanzi enkulu, lungiselela iimpahla ezifunekayo ngaphambili.
Ndikulungele ukukuhlangabeza
Amantombazana anamhlanje, nangona benovuyo obonakalayo, bembatha ibhulukwe kunye neengubo zamadoda, bayahlaziswa yinkqubo epheleleyo yokusebenzisa inzuzo ebalinganayo. Ngoko, ukuze uhlangabezane ngempumelelo namadoda, yenza uninzi lwabahlobo, akudingeki uloyiko uze ufike kubo kuqala. Khumbula, ngoku ayikho ixesha apho uya kugwetywa ngenxa yezenzo ezisebenzayo.
Kuphi na ozaziyo
Kungenzeka ukuba uya kudibana nothando lwakho kwi-metro okanye kwimarike, ukhetha inyama ye-shish kebabs, usacinga ukuba ukhumbule ukuba kufuneka ukhangele isiqingatha sesibini kwiindawo eziqhelekileyo kuwe. Ngaba ufunda isayensi, uchithe iintsuku zakho kwiilayibrari ezizodwa, uhlala rhoqo kwiindibano kunye neenkomfa? Ewe, akukho nto elula kunokuba ulungele ukumazi umntu oyithandayo kunye nokuphelelwa ngumntu unokuguquka ukwenzela ukuba ufumane nabo okanye uthanda nje into ebantwini. Yonke iveki ichitha kwii-nightclub? Napha, kwakhona, kukho abantu abaneleyo abanokuhlangana nabo.
Ngoko, indawo ezithandwa kakhulu ukuhlangabezana nazo zikarhulumente maziko, oko kukuthi, iimyuziyamu, iilayibrari, iindawo zeekhonsathi, amaziko emiboniso, amabhishi. Oku kubangelwa ukuba ungoko lommandla ongabonakaliyo, apho ungakwazi ukunxibelelana kwisimo esingasesikweni.
Cwangcisa uphinde uceba
Emva kokuba unqume ukuba zihlala phi ihafu lesibini, kuyacetyiswa ukuba ucinge malunga nendlela oya kufikelela ngayo kwincoko kunye nento oya kuthetha ngayo kwimimiselo embalwa yokuqala.
Ukuba isicwangciso sokuthandana ngokuzimeleyo asikho nhlobo, zama ukufumana oqhelekileyo nomntu oyithandayo-mhlawumbi, baya kuba ngu-wand-zashchalochkoy yakho. Nangona kunjalo, kwiimeko ezinjalo, kungcono ukuzibala, kungenjalo kungabonakala ukuba umfokazi omhle uya kukhokelwa ngumhlobo wakho omhle. Ngokwemvelo, kulo mzekelo, uya kuhlala ungenanto. Kodwa nangona usisebenzise uncedo lwangaphandle ukuze uqhelane nabo, landela ukuba ukhulise unxibelelwano olungaphezulu.
Yintoni ofana nayo?
Ukuze unomdla umdla omtsha, kubalulekile ukufumana umxholo oqhelekileyo kwingxoxo. Ukuba udibene nomboniso, unokuxoxa ngeemisebenzi ezinikezelwe kwisichazi-mali, kummandla oselunxwemeni okanye kwisibhedlele kulungile ukuxoxisana nabanye bonke. Ukuba awukwazi ukuza nesihloko esithile, nawuphi na oya kwenza.
Indlela efanelekileyo yokuqalisa umntu oqhelana naye ngeli xesha ukwenza oku kukugubungela iinjongo zakho. Ngako oko, intombazana inokuphosa ngokukhawuleza isikhwama sakhe, sikhubeke, sihlakaze amaphepha, kwaye isikhulu siza kunika uncedo ngoncedo lwakhe. Khumbula, amadoda anjengeziqhawe kwaye angadlala ngempumelelo kule nto.
Ngaba kunzima? Akukho nto yoluhlobo: kukho isimo esaneleyo kunye nentembelo yokuba yonke into iya kuvela. Kwaye kuninzi: khumbula ukuba, omaziyo obafumanayo, kulula ukuthetha nabantu abatsha.