Udla kancinci kancinci kwinqanaba lonyango lokuba umntwana wakho wayenomdla kakhulu kwaye akanakhathazeka kwiiveki ezimbalwa zokugqibela? Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukhathazeke kakhulu ngale nto: emva koko, njenganoma yimuphi unina, uhamba nayo: kuthekani ukuba unyana okanye intombi encinci isifo esingazifumani, kwaye ngoko uncedo? Masijongane nezona zinto ezibangela ukuxhalaba komntwana ongaphantsi komnye.
Isizathu sokuqala: "Isisu sam buhlungu!"
Kwiintsana ezisandul 'ukuzalwa, ukubetha kubonakala rhoqo, ingakumbi le ngxaki ithathwa njengeyizinyanga ezintathu ubudala. Le nto yinto yokuba i-digestive tract isakhiwe kwaye "igijime" yakutshanje, ngoko maxa wambi kunzima kuye ukulungelelanisa ngokukhawuleza kwaye ivumelane nokutya ukutya, nangona kubisi yobisi olulula.
Mhlawumbi, uninzi lwabafazi bajamelana nale ngxaki: colic kunye ne-gazikami ukusuka kwintsana yabo, ngenxa yokuba iba yinto engabonakaliyo kwaye ingabikho nto. Uyabona ukuba ngemini umntwana esebenzayo kwaye ehamba ngokuqhelekileyo, ulala kakuhle, kodwa ngokuhlwa uya kuba engapheliyo. Ngenxa yoko, ezi zihluthuko, ekugqibeleni zibukeka zingenangqiqo, zityhulele ebuthongweni obungenalutho, ebusuku, xa uchithe iiyure kunye neeyure ezithwele umntwana wakho ozithandayo ezandleni zakho, uzama ukumqhubela kuzo zonke iindlela ezinokucingwa kwaye ezingenakucingwa, ekugqibeleni uvuke umyeni wakho okanye unina ngesicelo sokukunceda. Emva koko, umva uye wayeka ukuziva into ethile, kwaye izihlunu ezandleni zidibanisa ngokoqobo kwi-node ukusuka ekugqithiseni. Ngoko, uyazi ukuba imbangela yobusuku obungenalutho ebuthongweni kubantwana ukuya kwiinyanga ezi-3 kunokuthiwa ngamathumbu emathumbu.
Nangona kunjalo, "ukuya kwiinyanga ezi-3" akukona ixesha elichazwe ngokucacileyo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, zonke iintsana kunye nezidalwa zazo zikhula kwaye ziphuhlise ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, ngoko ke akunakwenzeka ukuxhoma amathegi kubo "ukuya kwiinyanga ezintathu", "ukuya kwiinyanga ezintandathu". Ngokukodwa xa kuziwa kwimpilo. Emva koko, kukho abantwana abangayaziyo iingxaki ngokubetha. Kwaye kukho abantwana abahluphekayo kwi-colic ukuya kunyaka kunye nesiqingatha.
Ngoko, unganquma njani ukuba umntwana wakho unqabile okanye ucolic? Okokuqala, uzive umama wakho. Ngoxinzelelo olunomnene, uyigqubuthe kwaye unqume ukuba lukhuni. Ukuba umntwana ufumana izibhamu, isisu sakhe sikhumbuza isigubhu: sikhulu kwaye sinzima, ukuchukumisa kubangela enye ukuphazamiseka kwimivumba.
Kunokuba kuncedwe iziqu? Indlela edibeneyo ibalulekile apha. Okokuqala, thatha umyalelo wentsasa ukuze wenze umntwana we-gymnastics. Njengoko uyazi, oku kulungile nje kuphela xa umntwana ephethe i-gazik, ukuhlaja kunempembelelo enkulu ekuphuhlisweni kweemvuthu zenyama ngokubanzi.
Ziziphi izenzo eziya kunceda ukuphepha ukunqanda?
Okokuqala: wabeka umntwana emva, kwisisetyhula ngokukhawuleza, uhlasele isisu esincinci, ucinezele encinci kummandla wamathumbu amakhulu. Ukuxubusha okunjalo kuya kufaka i-gaziki ibe yi-rectum, baya kuhamba ngokukhawuleza baze bayeke ukuhlakulela umntwana, kungakhathaliseki ukuba wayengenasiphelo kangakanani ngaphambili.
Okwesibini: ibhayisekile. Lo msebenzi ujabulela impumelelo enkulu kunye nokufudumala kwabadala, kubantwana kwenziwa kwendlela efanayo, kuphela "inyawo" yinkwenkwe ayikwazi, ngoko kufuneka umncede. Thatha ngeenyawo nje ngaphaya kweedolo, kwaye ubonise ngokunyanisekileyo ukugibela ibhasi. Kucetyiswa ukuba uthathe isisu somntwana kwisisu.
Okwesithathu: bhinqa imilenze yentsana emadolweni, thatha iinqumlo uze ucinezele ngokumelene nesisu - oko kuthiwa "imbumba ye-embryo pose" kuya kubangela. Emva koko, ulungelelanise imilenze uze uyibeke ngokulinganayo phezu komhlaba.
Phinda le mizimba elula ekuseni kwaye ngokuhlwa xa nje umntwana efuna. Musa ukumnyanzela ukuba akhuthazele ukuhlawula - ukuba engengomoya, ungathuthuli imvuthu, udlale nayo, uhlalise, uze uphinde uzame.
Ukongezelela ukusilalisa, unako ukunika umntwana i-dill vodichku, njengeprophylaxis - kusasa nakusihlwa ukuze uphuse isipuni seveki ezimbini. Kwakhona kunceda ukuphepha ukunqanda.
Ukuba umntwana wakho uyakhala ngokukhawuleza kunye neengqimba emva - ezi ziimpawu zinyaniso ukuba uhlushwa yi-colic. Beka umntwana emphethweni wakho kwaye ubeke ngesisu ngesisu emva kwemizuzu emi-5-10. Emva koko fakela into efudumalayo kwisisu - umzekelo, umbane omncinci omncinci womntwana, okanye ingubo, ulungele ibhetri. Uwasindisa ngokupheleleyo kulo mzekelo isandla somama eshushu, esiqhotyoshelwe kwisisu.
Iingcali zonyango zikwacetyiswa kwiimeko ezinjalo ukubeka umntwana ngesisu esiswini kwisisu esingenalulwelwe ngumama - ukushisa kwemizimba kunye nokuphakamisa isigqi kunye nokunciphisa i-diaphragm ukulinganisa ukunyakaza kwama-massage kunye negalelo ekukhutsheni i-gazik kunye nokupheliswa kwe-colic.
Ukuba uncelisa, kwaye ngokukhawuleza waqala ukuphawula ukuba umntwana wayeka ukulala ebusuku, kwaye wayenomtsalane, uphinde ucinge ngokutya kwakho. Ukulahla umgubo kunye namafutha, ukususela kumnandi - konke oku kubangele ukubonakala kwe-colic kunye ne-gazik. Ukuba umntwana usondlo oluxubekileyo okanye olufakelwayo, cinga nje: ngaba uyamzisa into entsha okanye, mhlawumbi, umntwana kufuneka adlulise umxube ngokukhawuleza? Zama ngokutya, kuphela ngokucophelela, ngokukhethekileyo kunye neengcebiso zogqirha.
Ukuba imeko ayikuphelelwanga ngokupheleleyo kwaye awukwazi ukuhlalisa umntwana okhalayo ngeyure ephukileyo, sebenzisa amanyathelo angqongqo - ukusetyenziswa kwamachiza. Into eyona nto ayikukubanika umntwana ngendlela echanekileyo, njengamanyathelo okukhusela, njengoko inxalenye yabantwana isetyenziswa ngokukhawuleza kumayeza, kwaye kwiimeko ezimbi kakhulu abayi kukwazi ukunceda. Eyona ndlela enokuyenza yokuphelisa i-colic kunye ne-gazikov "i-Espumizan L", "iHipp" itiye kunye ne-fennel kunye nabanye abaninzi: apha unako ukunxibelelana ngenyango lwezilwanyana kwaye ufumane ikhambi lakho.
Isizathu sesibini: "Ndifuna ukubona umama!"
Ukuqwalaselwa kwabazali kunye nokunyamekela umntwana kunanoma yiphina ubudala kuyisiseko sengqondo yakhe yokuziphatha kwengqondo. Ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba khona kunye nenkxaso yunina - uhlala entle. Oku kuyinyani ngakumbi kubantwana abancinci, abanikelwa ngumama jikelele.
Ewe, siyaqonda ukuba imeko neemeko zihlukile. Omnye uhlala nomama okanye umama-mkhwenkwe, unomyeni wezomnotho, kwaye unokukwazi ukujongana nomntwana omncinci kuphela, ukushiya yonke imibandela yasemakhaya kubantu basekuhlaleni. Kodwa kwenzeka kwakhona ukuba unina kufuneka anakekele umntwana kwaye abe nexesha lokulungiselela umyeni wakhe, uhlambulule indlu, uhlambe iimpahla zezingane ... Ukuba kungekho mntu unokunceda, ngamanye amaxesha ufanele ushiye umntwana wedwa kwisibhedlele, okanye kwi-arna egumbini elinye njengoko uhlala unina. Ukuba uva ukukhala ngokusana, ufuna ukuphonsa konke kwaye usebenze. Ukuyithatha ngesandla kuyindlela yokusabela ngokwasemzimbeni. Nangona kunjalo, yintoni enokuyenza ngemisebenzi yasekhaya?
Ukuphuma kuya kuba yimbutho okanye isikhungo sokugula. Uza kuthwala umntwana emva kwakho ukusuka kwelinye igumbi ukuya kwelinye igumbi, ulamle ngezwi lakho, ngokuthe rhoqo ufike kuye ukuze udibanise, uhlasele. Mhlabelele ingoma, xelela i-fantasy story - nje musa ukumnika ixesha lokuzihlamba, ngoko uyaqonda ukuba unina ulahlekile kwindawo ethile. Abanye abanomama benza umsebenzi ococekileyo kunye nosana, kunye nemisebenzi yasendlini ngoncedo lwe-sling - ngoko i-crumb izakuba kunye nawe, kwaye izandla zakho ziya kuhlala zikhululekile kwezinye izinto.
Isizathu sesithathu: "Ndibanda / nditshisa"
Oomama abancinci, ababengenamava ekusebenzisaneni nomntwana, banako ukunyanzela umntwana wabo. Ngokomzekelo, "Isifo" soomama abaninzi-bahlala becinga ukuba abantwana babo bayabanda. Xa thina ngokwethu sihamba ngeengubo kunye nezicathulo, umntwana usengeniswe ngengubo efudumeleyo. Kwaye ekhaya sibeka i-kitry kit, ukwenzela ukuba i-crumb ingabi ngqanda, nangona thina sihamba kwiT-shirt. Sizama ukwenza ukushisa kwegumbi ngokuphakamileyo kunokwenzeka, ukuthabatha kuzo zonke iintlobo zobuqhinga: siquka ukushisa kwegesi, i-air conditioners okanye i-heaters. Ngaloo ndlela, ukulinganisela umoya nokomisa. Nangona bonke ootitshala bezilwanyana baphinda ngokuphindaphindiweyo: iqondo lokushisa kwigumbi kufuneka libe yi-+18 degrees, kungcono ukufudumala umntwana ushushu.
Kwaye kwenzeka ukuba abantwana bethu balele kwisibhedlele bembethe kwaye bekhala - bashushu, baqhwaqhazela, i-pampers ibangela ukungakhululeki.
Kwenzeka enye indlela ngeenxa zonke: Umama, emva kokufunda malunga nobunzima, banokugxotha abantwana kubuninzi, nangona asikho ihlobo esitratweni. Kwaye abantwana balala phantsi kwaye bengabinqotshwa - yingakho bakhala bonke ubusuku kuba banento enqabileyo.
Umama kufuneka ahlale eqwalasela ukushisa komzimba wengane ukuze abone ukuba ukhululekile ngeengubo. Kule nto, akudingeki uzive u-spout, njengoko oomama kunye nogogo bahlala besenza. Kwiintsana, i-"state regime" iyatshekishwa emva komlomo wesibeleko. Lapho iinqununu ziphela khona. Ukuba intamo ikhupha - yithatha isiqingatha seengubo ezivela kwintsana, kwaye ukuba iphosi ibanda kwaye ibhakabhaka, yigqoke ngokukhawuleza.
Isizathu sesine: "Ndifuna ukutya / ukusela"
Isizathu asiyinto encinci, kodwa akusiwo wonke umama onokukwazi ngexesha eliqondayo ukuba ulambile okanye unxanelwe oluhlungu umntwana wakhe. Kubonakala sengathi udla nje. Andizange ndicele ukusela ngaphambili. Kodwa, mhlawumbi, isabelo esizalisa umntwana omnye asinelisekanga ngokupheleleyo indlala yenye. Zama ukunika umntwana olunye ubumba okanye ubisi lwebele, okanye umnike i-compote okanye amanzi-kuxhomekeke kwiminyaka.
Isizathu santlanu: "Ivula ngaphandle!"
Ngezinye izihlandlo abantu abadala ngezinye iinkalo banomdla kakhulu ekutshintsheni kwemozulu kunye neengcinezelo Abantwana, mhlawumbi, banokuziva bechukumise ngakumbi utshintsho lweemeteorological: imvula, ukufudumala ngokukhawuleza okanye ubanda obubandayo, iindudumo. Ngoko banako ukukhala.
Ukuba unezifo ezinjenge-dystonia ye-vegetative-vascular dystonia, kuyafaneleka ukuba ukhangele ukuba umntwana wakho uzuze esi sifo. Mhlawumbi uye wandisa uxinzelelo olungenakunyango. Ingcali enekhono liya kukwazi ukuchonga oku ngokusebenzisa uchungechunge lwezifundo. Ukuba i-ICD ifunyenwe ngexesha, unokukhawuleza ukunika unyango unyango kwaye ukhuphe ukuvela kwe-IRR nezinye izifo.
Isizathu sesithandathu: "Mama, ndibuhlungu ..."
Mhlawumbi umntwana wakho uyalimaza into ethile: oku, akunjalo, akunakwenzeka ukuba kubangele ixesha elide leenyanga, kodwa ukuba awuqapheli nayiphi na ingxaki zempilo - unokuqalisa isifo okanye ingxaki, kwaye ngoko kunokuba yinto ende ukuba kube nexesha elide lokuzisa ubuhlungu obuhlungu zengqondo.
Ngoko ke, uviwo lweenyanga ngonyango lwezilwanyana luyimfuneko nje. Kwiinyanga ezintandathu kunye nonyaka kufuneka ubonise iimvumba zakho ukuba zincinci iingcali: i-neuropathologist, i-cardiologist, udokotela wamazinyo, ugqirha ogqirha, ophthalmologist. Baya kunceda ukufumanisa ingxaki kwaye bathathe ixesha lokuyichitha.
Kungenzeka ukuba umntwana uyathuthunyiswa yintambo: umzekelo, xa wabuya waphula amanxeba akhe, akazange abone ikhonkco elibukhali - kwaye ngoku ke ikhonkwane yagqalwa kwaye yaqala ukuyithintela isikhumba. Ngoko ke, hlalutye ngokucokisekileyo umraki womntwana imihla ngemihla. Ukuze ugweme ukubonakala kwamakhonkco aphilileyo, apho i-crumb iyakwazi ukuzilimaza, ungasebenzisa iifayile ezincinci ezikhombisayo, kodwa ungathathwa ukuze ungangonakalisi iplastiki yengane.
Nokuba ususe ngokucophelela kwiingubo zakho zokugqoka kwaye uhlambe izinto kuphela kwipowusi ekhethekileyo, kwaye mhlawumbi kungcono - ngesepha, ngesandla. Emva koko, iipowdines zamanje ziqukethe i-phosphates, ezinokuyicaphukisa isikhumba esincinci somntwana.
Isizathu siyesixhenxe: "Mama, mna pokakal!"
Ingane inesidingo esikhulu se-diaper okanye i-panties - iyayicaphukisa isikhumba kwaye ibangele into engathandekiyo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kunzima ukungaqapheli ukuba umntwana we-pokakal - impumlo yam umama akazange aphumelele. Nangona kunjalo, kwenzeka kwakhona ukuba umama uxakeke ukupheka kwaye akavumi ukuvumba okhethwe ngumntwana. Ngoko ke, into yokuqala yokujonga xa umntwana ekhalayo yimeko kunye nokuzaliswa kwe-diaper. Ukongeza, qinisekisa ukuba i-diapers ye-diaper ayixineli amalungu omzimba wesini.
Isizathu sesibhozo: "Ndifuna -ndikhala!"
I-Whims ngenxa ye-whims - le ngxaki ibonakala isondele kakhulu kumnyaka, xa umntwana eqonda oko kunokusetyenziswa ngabazali. Ngako-ke waphonsa i-toy, wakhala - kunye nomama uyabaleka kwiimbini zombini ukuphakamisa i-rattle kunye ne-prisylsykivayas, amnike i-chadushka. Ngokuqhelekileyo, umntwana usheshe asebenzise ukunyuka kwabo kuye ngokufuna. Ekugqibeleni, xa uqonde ukuba ixesha lokubandakanyeka ngokukhawuleza ekukhuliseni kwakhe kwaye ufundise ingcamango yokuba "akunakwenzeka", ubhekane nengxaki xa umntwana ephendulela kakhulu ngolu hlobo "cha." Uqhubela umsindo kwaye uyaqhubeka efuna. Imfazwe yangempela yezinto!
Nanku kuyimfuneko ukuphumeza iqhinga elikhethekileyo: indlela eya kumntwana ngamnye ixhomekeke ngqo, ngoko jonga uze ufumane, njengoko besithi. Akunangqiqo ukubonisa ubungqongqo kubo bonke abantwana, kodwa into yokufundisa yokulwa neempembelelo zabantwana abakhulileyo sele isesihloko kwinqaku ehlukile.
Njengoko ubona, zikho izizathu ezininzi zokuba kungani oomama bekhalaza kwiintombi zabo kaninzi, bathi, umntwana wam akahlali! Siyathemba ukuba inqaku lethu liyakunceda ufumane ingxaki kwaye uthathe indlela echanekileyo yokuyilungisa!