Unyaka Wezingane: Amasiko kunye neSikhumbuzo

Abazali abaninzi, xa umntwana ephendulela unyaka ubudala, uqhuba uhlobo lovavanyo. Nguyiphi amandla akhe nokuba ngaba ufuna ngokwenene ukumazi kweli nqaku.

Njengoko kwavela, abantwana beli minyaka banokuvakalelwa nge-aura yezinto. Ngako oko, i-rite yenzelwe ukuchonga umsebenzi ogqithiseleyo ngomoya womntwana. Ngoko, kwienkolelo, kuthathwa njengokuba umxholo okhethwe ngumntwana uya kuba ngumkhokeli wakhe wobomi bonke. Ngaphantsi kwenkcubeko yeVedic, abantu bahlukana baba ngamaqela amaninzi: izazinzulu, abathengisi, abasebenzi, amajoni. Ngaloo mihla, abazali bazimisele ukusebenza ngokuzayo komntwana ngokubeka izinto eziliqela ezihambelana nenye enye imboni. Babenjalo: incwadi, imali, izixhobo kunye nezixhobo zokusebenza. Abazali, emva kokuba umntwana ekhethayo, sele esazi ukuba yeyiphi indlela ekukhuthazeni ngayo umntwana kwaye yiphi imboni anokuphumelela kuyo. Kodwa ngokungafani nemilinganiselo yanamhlanje, ngaphambili isiko senziwa nanini na, kwaye kungekhona ngonyaka. Kodwa ubuncinane bomntwana akufanele kudlule iminyaka eyi-1.5. Kwakukho ezinye izithintelo: izinto zafakwa kuphela yiloo nto ebona okokuqala (awukwazi ukubeka izinto zakho ezizithandayo), umntwana kufuneka akwazi ukukhwela ngexesha lo mthendeleko, ukwenzela ukuba afinyelele into okanye atyeke kuyo, njl njl.

Iziqulatho

Ungayincoma njani umntwana ngomnyaka wokuqala wokuphila? Utshintsho oluninzi lwelungiselelo lwezinto Inendima yabanini-ntombi emthendelekweni

Kodwa abazali banamhlanje bayayiphatha imibuzo enjalo. Uninzi lomama kunye nabafana bathanda lo mdlalo. Ukuba akukho ulwalamano olulungileyo kwisithethe, kungcono ukuba ungayiqhubeki nonke, kuba awukugcini nje ngokumisela indlela yomntwana wakho, kodwa naye ulungiselele yena kunye nawe. Ngokomzekelo, abanye abazali ukuzonwabisa banokubeka ugwayi, utywala kunye neikhondom kumgangatho oqhelekileyo, konke okukuyo. Khawucinge nje ukuba intombi yakho eneminyaka elilodwa ikhetha inkcazo yokukhulelwa. Inyaniso kukuba le nto iya kuhlehliswa kwinqanaba elincinci, okokuqala kuqala phakathi kwabazali, kwaye baya kukhangela ubomi obunjalo ngomntwana wabo bonke ubomi babo kwaye ngoko ke bayamhlela. Ngoko kunokwenzeka ukwenza "udaka" kwiintombazana eziqhelekileyo. Icala elichazwe ngasentla lilinganiselwe kakhulu, kodwa libizwa ngokuba ngumama abatsha kunye nootata ukuba bathathe ingqalelo nayiphi na imiba malunga nomntwana.

Ukuba uzimisele ukukholelwa kwizibikezelo kunye nemikhuba, kunye nemiphumo yeprogram, ngoko kukulungele ukuba ufake iinqwelo zeemoto, amafulethi kunye nekhredithi.

Ngendlela, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba umntwana kufuneka atyalwe kungekhona phantsi, kodwa kwi-litter ekhethekileyo. Abanye bathi le nto ifanele ibe yinqwelo yezimvu, ukuba kunjalo, ngoko unako ukukhupha iingubo zeegusha. Abanye bathatha nje umatshini omncinane baze bahlale umntwana.

Kukho iintlobo ezininzi zokubala phambi komntwana. Unokwenza nayiphi na into oyithandayo okanye umxube. Ukuba nayiphi na into ayaneleyo, yifake kwangaphambili.

Utshintsho oluninzi lwelungiselelo lwezinto

Inketho yenombolo 1

Ubomi bokufuzisela:

• Iigrafu luphawu lwezempilo.
• Iimpawu zibonakalisa uluntu.
• Isikhwama sithetha ubutyebi nokuchuma.
• I-tsokolate ithetha ubomi obumnandi novuyo (ungenza indawo ye-kroti).
• I-tangle yeboya - ithembisa ubomi obude.
• Incwadi ithathwa njengophawu lolwazi kunye nengqondo.
• I-Brush - ithi umntwana unokukwazi ukwenza ubugcisa.
• Inkcitho - ifanekisela ukuchuma (inokutshintshwa ngeedola).
• I-Ring - iphrofetha umtshato ophumelelayo.
• Iiglasi-luphawu lobutyebi besayensi.

Inketho yenombolo 2

U msebenzi:

• I-Purse - umntwana unomdla wokuba ngumbhanki.
• Umxube - udidi okanye umgcini wezinwele.
• I-ladle - umpheki okanye umfazi.
• Umshini - umqhubi wezothutho.
• Ibhola - uthembisa impumelelo enkulu kwimidlalo.
• Izikhundla zokuphatha.

Inombolo ye-3

Umntu:

• I doll - indodakazi ikhula (ukuba inkwenkwana).
• Iimpawu zintsapho, umntwana okhulile ekhaya.
• Ibhanki ye-Piggy ngumntwana onomdla.
• Isikhwama esingenalutho - imali iya kuchitheka kwixesha elizayo, ngokungabalwa.
• Imiba - umntu ocolileyo uya kukhula.
• Ipaint ngumntu odala.
• Mask - ubuntu lobugcisa.

Utshintsho №4

• Ubomi (kunye nobomi bebhokhwe buya kudibaniswa):
• Incwadi-isalathisi sesayensi yexesha elizayo, "umfundi ongunaphakade", ukhula kwintsapho.
• Iiswele - inkosikazi yabonakala kwihlabathi lonke (kungekhona nje ukuba ngumntu ongeyonto, kodwa nje isandla sezandla zegolide.
• I mouse ukusuka kwikompyutha - kunye neekhomputha okanye ezinye iindidi zobuchwepheshe obuphezulu ziya kujongana.
• Iipampu ngumama ozayo wabantwana abaninzi (uyise).
• I-Trifle - ithole ukuba libe nobutyebi.
• I-Garlic - iya kukhula inempilo
• Icoleta - ubomi bakhe obuhle bukulindele.
• I-Ribbon, intambo yomthi okanye intambo - ubomi buya kuba bude.
• Intyatyambo (nangona ebhodweni) iyonwabile ubomi bentsapho.
• Intonga - ebomini bakhe kuya kuba nothando olukhulu.
• Izihluthulelo zendlu zifanekisela intlalontle enhle.

Ungayincoma njani umntwana ngomnyaka wokuqala wokuphila?

Kufuneka nje uxwayise abazali abancinci ukuba ngeli xesha umntwana wakho akayi kufuna isidlo esikhulu. Ngokuchasene noko, bambalwa abamenywayo, bangcono kuwe nangenxa yakhe. Masibe sisigxina esincinci salamagama abasondeleyo kunye nezihlobo.

Vumela oothixo kunye nootatomkhulu banceda ukuba uyihobise yonke indlu okanye igumbi eneebhola ezimibalabala. Iibhola ziza kulawula isimo sengane, kodwa kunye nomntu omdala. Makube ngama-clowns, iimoto, iimboli kunye namanye amanani anomdla.

Kwakhona, abazali banokwenza i-albhamu ekhethekileyo kwiphepha. Thatha iifoto ezithathiweyo zonyaka kwaye omnye uzinamathisele, ngeli xesha ubeka imitha (inyanga) kunye nenqaku lokutsala kwisithombe esilandelayo. Thatha iifoto ezili-12: ukususela ngowokuqala ukubonakala kwimiqondiso kwaye kube ngumnyaka o-1.

Ikhalenda ingaba nomxholo ohlukileyo: inyo yokuqala, isinyathelo sokuqala, igama lokuqala kunye njalo njalo. Oko kukuthi, ubonisa indlela umntwana wakho ohamba ngayo kulo nyaka kunye nendlela akwenza ngayo.

Unokwenza isithsaba esihle segolide kunye nokuyihlobisa ngentloko yomntwana, kunye nabazali.

Ngaziphi iimbono ezikhoyo zokubhiyozela usuku lokuzalwa lokuqala, funda apha

Inendima yabantwana bakaThixo kwi-festival

Vumela oothixo bawenze amanqaku kwi-albhamu: baya kuluhlula iimbambo kunye nemilenze kumntwana, ukuze kamva kubonakale ukuba kuvela njani. Unokwenza umgodi kwibhodi ekhethekileyo okanye ngasemva kweemitha zamatye (cacisa ukuphakama) kwaye uqhubeke le nkcubeko minyaka yonke.

Isiko elide kukusoka kweenwele zonyaka wokuqala wokuzalwa. Yenzele koothixo kunye noyise. Ngenxa yoko kuyimfuneko ukuba unqunyulwe kwicala ngalinye lekhanda (unqunyulwe ukusuka kumacala amane) kwi-curl encinci. Abanye bakhetha ukukrazula i-nalyzo, kodwa oku akuyimfuneko. Ululeko lwaluko oluvela kumacala amane luphawu lomnqamlezo, oko kukuthi, lokukhusela. Ngoko, ukuba inkwenkwe yakho isele ikhulile ize ingene emkhosini, i-curl iyomkhonza njengesiqhelo esinamandla kunye nokukhusela ngengozi. Kule nto, xa unyana engena emnyango, unina kufuneka adle intloko yeenwele zakhe aze azibeke kulawo anqunywe ngonyaka. Ngaloo ndlela, intambo encinane yeenwele ezincinci kwakufuneka ifakwe kwisiqhumiso kwaye yanikwa unyana wayo. Le ntetho yenzelwe ukukhusela ekukhuselweni, ukungaphumeleli kunye neengozi ezahlukeneyo.

Ukuba iyintombazana, iincwele zakhe zinikezelwa ngosuku lomtshato wakhe. Oku kunika intombi ithuba lokushiya indlu kayise ngonaphakade, ukwenzela ukudala yakhe intsapho eyonwabileyo.

Emva kokuba iinwele zinqunywe, zifanele zifakwe ngokufanelekileyo kwiphepha elikhethekileyo okanye i-handkerchief. Izinwele azigcinwa naphi na, kodwa kwikhaya laso, emva kwemifanekiso yabangcwele. Ngoko unike ithuba kumandla kaThixo nobabalo ukunceda umntwana wakho. Kukholelwa ukuba abangcwele balinda umntu kwaye banganikeli amandla angcolileyo ukuba athathe umphefumlo wakhe.

Emva kwegama

Kungakhathaliseki ukuba yiyiphi, umhlobiso oyintloko kunye nesizathu seholide yinkwenkwe ngokwayo, ngoko ugqoke kakuhle kwaye uqiniseke ukuba umntwana ukhululekile kule ngubo. Yenza inombolo enkulu yezithombe ezahlukeneyo kwimemori. Namathisela ama-butterflies adibeneyo yonke indawo, faka iipensele ezimbala. Makhe umntwana angene ebomini ngokukhawuleza aze aphile kwaye aphile.