Ukungalungi
Iyintoni ingxaki? Kwenzeka ukuba abantu bawunaki imibono yakho malunga nococeko kunye nokuhleleka. Abazenzi i-manicure, banxiba i-shirt efanayo iintsuku ezimbini ngokulandelelana kwaye bashiye iiplati ezingcolileyo phantsi phantsi kweesokisi ezihlakazekile. Ngaba kulunge ngexesha lokubona ukuhlazola ngokucokisekileyo kunye nepini yokuqhafaza ukulungele ukumlandela emva kokuphishekela indlu? Uvakalelwa ntoni xa ubona iisokisi phantsi, uxutywe kunye nezindleko zokutya kunye neemagazini? Mhlawumbi, umthetho: umntu akayikuxabisa imizamo yakho yokugcina indlu ihlambulukile. Ngokukhawuleza ufika kwisiphetho esingenangqiqo: ayikuxhasi ukuhlanzeka - kuthetha ukuba ayithandi.
Yintoni endiyenzayo? Izigqibo ezingenakuthenjwa ziya kuphelelwa entlokweni xa sithetha ngamava ethu ngamazwi kunye ne-addressee yamabango kwaye siqiniseke ukuba akayi kuphuma ngaphandle nje ngokuba umyalelo uphezulu kuye, kungekhona ngenxa yokuba wayeke ukuthanda. Cinga nje imeko echaseneyo - indoda idinga ukuzingcwaliswa okungeyona ndawo, kwaye uhamba nemibandela yokulungiswa ngokukhululekile. Yintoni elula - ukuba uhlale ungcolile okanye uhamba? Kuzo zombini akulula, kodwa uyavuma malunga nemithetho yokuba bobabini uya kugcina.
Ukungabonakali
Yintoni eyenzekayo? Unako ukuchitha phantse yonke umvuzo wakhe kwi-console entsha kwaye ukususela ngaloo mini uze uyeke ukuphonsa iisokisi, kuba akayi kuwathabatha-akungakhathazeki xa uvuyo lwalo lusesandleni sakhe. Iyakucaphukisa ukuba ukhule, kodwa akayi. Usuvele ucinga malunga nabantwana kunye nemali-mboleko, kwaye unengqondo yakhe ehamba phambili kunye neentshaba.
Okokuqala, kufuneka ukwamkele into yokuba wonke umntu unenkwenkwe encinci ekugqaleni kwakhe-yingakho ethanda ukubethelela amathoyizi, izixhobo, iimoto. Kwaye ngendlela, ngenxa yobumnandi bentliziyo kunye nesibindi, ubuninzi bezinto zenzululwazi ezenziweyo zenziwa ngesini esomeleleyo. "Ukuba kubonakala kuwe ukuba umntwana ubengumntandi othandekayo, mhlawumbi ulwalamano lukhona i-hyperopeak, kuba iindima ezi zibini zihlala zixhasana." Ukuba oku kufana neyinyaniso, zama ukuthetha nendlela yokuthetha kunye nesiqingatha sakho sesibini kwisantya esilinganayo, njengeqabane, ungagxothi okanye ukhomba.
Umsebenzi ongunaphakade
Ubiza, uthabatha ifowuni, uthi uya kubuya, kodwa akenzi oko kwiyure. Uyazifowunela inombolo yakho, kodwa uyayiphonsa. Emva koko uza ekhaya emva kobusuku. Ngokwemvelo, ucinga ukuba wayengekho nayiphi na intlanganiso, kodwa kunye nenkosikazi. Esi sizathu sokuqala esibangela ukuba iimvakalelo zengqondo kubasetyhini. Kodwa nangona xa kunengqiqo eqhelekileyo, umona usalondolozwa, kodwa kungekhona kwi-blonde ephawulekayo, kodwa kumsebenzi wangempela ngokwawo-kubaluleke ngaphezu kwakho? Kodwa ke, vumelani, unomona omncinane kangangokuba unomdla kuye, kwaye awukho isifundo sokuthanda.
Simele samukele ukuba abantu bahlala becala ngakumbi ngezo shishino zabo kunokuba siyiyo. Kubo, le nto ibaluleke kakhulu ebomini, indlela yokuzibonakalisa. Mthembise kwaye ungenze ukuba ndihambe nawe kwi-vet, kuba i-parrot izolo! Umsebenzi womnye umntu uvame ukucaphukisa xa kukho ixesha lokunganeliseki. Yenza umsebenzi wakho, umdlalo, usapho, abahlobo - yonke into eyenza ubomi bakho buzityebi kwaye bunomdla. Emva koko ngokuhlwa kusikhundla samabhinqa abathandayo baya kuliva ibali lakho malunga nosuku oluchithwa ngokukhawuleza.
Ukungathandabuzeki
IiNkcazo ezinjengokuthi "Andiyazi into enokuyinikela ukuzalwa komama wam", "zigqibelele apho siza kudla khona isidlo sakusihlwa" okanye "Andizange ndithenge ikhekhe ngenxa yokuba andiqinisekanga ukuba unobungozi bokutshiza umdaka" uyacaphukisa, kuba amaninzi amantombazana aqinisekile , ukuba umntu wokwenene kufanele azi iimpendulo kuyo yonke imibuzo! Xa uthetha into enjalo, ikusasa lakho elibonakalayo libonakala kuwe kumatshini - uhlala ekhaya nabantwana abantlanu, naye ubiza kwivenkile aze abuze: "Bantwana, thengani ubisi kunye nomxholo we-fat% okanye 3.5%?" "loo nto inkwenkwe yathi - le nkwenkwe yenze."
Okokuqala, into oyibiza ngokuba yinto engathandabuzekiyo inokuba ngumqondiso wothando olukhulu (ucela ukuba ufuna ukuba uyithande), umqondiso onobungozi wokungathembeki (ukwesaba ukungazikholisi) okanye ukukhathala (kufuneka ukhethe indawo yokutyela?) . Amandla kunye nokuzithemba kufuneka abonise emsebenzini, kunye nabahlobo kunye namaxesha athile nonina. Zama ukubheka ubuthathaka njengophawu lokuthembela, kwaye mhlawumbi akuyi kuba buhlungu.
Ukukhanyela imali
Sekunjalo, yintoni intlanganiso eyahlula ibhilidi yokutya esidlweni sokutyela ngesigamu. Wena-ke, uyayiphika ingcamango endala kunye nehlazo ukuba "ngubani odla isidlo sakusihlwa, udansa", kodwa ilizwi langaphakathi linika izibonakaliso ze-alamu - enye enye, emide emithathu. Awukholelwa ukuba unzulu. Kubonakala ngathi imithetho yeemigaqo kunye nemibono yanamhlanje zibonakaliso zanamhlanje, kodwa oku akwenzi lutho ngothando.
Yintoni endiyenzayo? Okokuqala, kufuneka uthembeke. Ukuba ucinga ukuba indoda eneenjongo ezinzulu akufanele ivumele intombazana ukuba ithathe inxaxheba ekuhlawuleleni ukuzonwabisa kunye nokutya, oko kuthetha njalo. Emva koko, unokwabelana ngesimo sakho, kodwa ukuba uziva okuchaseneyo, uya kuyika ukukhubekisa. Imiba yohlahlo lwabiwo-mali ihlala isikhubekiso kunye namaqela abiniweyo. Kwaye, nakhona, kufuneka uxoxisane kwaye umise imithetho.
Ukuxhatshazwa kokutya
Uphulaphule ingoma yasekhaya, kwaye ubaba uvela kwiidrafers zifundiswe kwiliwa eliqhelekileyo. Ngoxa ukwakhiwa kwiparadesi yasendlini ekhitshini, uquka "Kodwa ndiya kuzinyathela ngomntu, uye kwifama ehlangeneyo, wehla phantsi." Emva koko, uMick Jagger wakho wangaphakathi ucebisa ukuba uthele umtshini weelasela kwi-arsenic eshushu. Mhlawumbi uloyiko lokuba abahlobo bayazi ngale nto (malunga nothando lwakhe ngomsindo, umculi uDontsova okanye u-cross-stitching). Le ngcamango ihlazo-kodwa iyaqhelekileyo. Siyabona amaqabane njengengxenye yethu, kwaye ngoko ke izinto zabo zokuzilibazisa zincinci. Baye bahlekisa! Ungazami ukukholisa umntu ukuba uDontsova akayena umlawuli wamagama, ukuba imisebenzi yakhe iyamthinta ekujuleni komphefumlo wakhe. Mane ucele ukuba ungacaphuna i-netlenku kubahlobo bakho. Vumelana ukuba uya kuphulaphula ingoma kwi-headphone okanye ekungabikho kwakho. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuphumla kwesiqingatha sesibini akubandakanyi nje izinto zokuzilibazisa ezikucaphukisayo. Zama ukufumana into eyenza ingqungquthela yakhe yangaphakathi kufuphi neJagger yakho yangaphakathi-mhlawumbi ihamba okanye ipheka. Ukuba awufi ebudlelwaneni boxolo, awusoze ulibale oko kubangelwa iimvakalelo zengqondo kubafazi.
Nomona
Ubani la mazwi aqhelekanga evela kwifowuni yakho? Kutheni iifomu "zisebenza" emva kwelishumi? Kutheni umkhwa namhlanje u mfutshane? Uphi phakathi kuka-17: 15 no-17:28? Konke okokuqala kumnandi, kwaye kuqala ukuthukuthela. Umona onamandla kunye nokuthembela akuhambelani nezinto, kwaye, ngokwenene, ukhubekile.
Okokuqala, cingela ukuba akayikhwele kwinto yonke kwaye akakhathaleli ukuba uphendula bani emva kobusuku bobusuku kunye nokuba ufuna ukuya kukuzalwa kwakhe ngosuku lwakho lokuzalwa. Ngaba uza kuziva uthanda? Okwesibini, zama ukuqonda iimvakalelo zakhe kwaye ungaphenduli ngokumalunga neengxaki (okubonakala kubonisa ukuba unetyala) - eli qhinga liyakududuza umona.
Uthotho
Ngamanye amaxesha basenza izinto zabo. Kwaye akusoloko kulungile. Kubonakala kuwe ukuba ukuba uthanda, ngoko akufanele uqaphele, vumela uhlekise ngantoni na ukuthanda kwakho, ukungaphumeleli okanye izidima. Ngenxa yoko, akayithandi - uqikelele ngokucacileyo! Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ukuthuka ngokukrakra ukuba awukwazi ukuhlekisa. Yintoni endiyenzayo? Ukuba amahlaya awayihlazo, ngoko into echanekileyo kukuhleka. Futhi ulungiselele kwangaphambili ukuhlaselwa okuphindaphindiweyo. Ukuqhawula, kunzima kubafazi ukuba baphucule ngokuphumelelayo, kodwa simnandi kwaye asiyidingi ukulinganisela kunye nabantwana-intombi, ubungakanani bemoto! Indoda enengqondo yokuhleka kweentlanzi yinhlanhla. Unokufumana lula ukuphazamiseka. Intukuthelo yintliziyo engabonakaliyo: umntu okhubekayo unobunzima ngaphezu kwecala lakhe lamava. Ukuxhasa umdlalo wakhe!
Non-Romanticism
Izigidi zabantu zilibale ukuba kufuneka sizinake emva kwexesha le-candy. Ngomhla weshumi elinesine kaFebruwari kwaye ngowesibhozo ka-Matshi azikho iiholide kubo, kodwa bajonga inkunkuma engenangqiqo njengezipho ngaphandle kwesizathu. Wena, ke, cinga ukuba wawela ngothando nawe - kakuhle, wayesebenzisa iintyatyambo, khumbula imihla kwaye uhlale embanga ngaphambi kokushiya emsebenzini.
Kakade, akazange ayeke uthando. Kodwa ixesha eliphantsi kwegama elithi "akukho suku ngaphandle kokumangaliswa" liphelile. Kwaye ngoku kuyimfuneko ukusebenzela ukugcina ukuthanda ubudlelwane. Kufana nomfanekiso - ekugqibeleni uphelele, kwaye kwiminyaka embalwa nje kuthatha iyure ngosuku ukuba ungabikho kwi-treadmill. Zama ukubuyela ekhaya ukusuka emsebenzini kunye neqela lama roses - makangacinga ukuba ufuna. Ubunokwenzeka ukuba izipho ziya kukufafaza kuwe emva kokubonisa, njengeqhwa ngoFebhuwari, ayikho enkulu kakhulu, kodwa yindlela efanelekileyo yokuqala incoko malunga nokuba unalo uthando. Indoda ebudlelane obuqinileyo ayisoloko ibona isidingo sokubonakalisa iimvakalelo, kuba sele uyakwazi konke - uyakuthanda. Esikhundleni sokuthungela ngokucace, kungcono ukuya kuye uthi: "Mva, ndithandana, ndithenga iintyatyambo!"
Ukunyanzela isithembu
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba bathanda njani amadoda, umdla wabo kwabanye abesetyhini uhlala uphila kwaye unamandla. Oku kubonakalisa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo: umntu ukhangelelana noononophelo okanye uzenzele ukufunda amaphephancwadi abantu. Abanye abantu bajonge abanye phambi kwakho. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukucinga kwangaphambili kwiimeko ezinjalo kukuphosa iglasi yamanzi okanye nayiphi na isilwanyana sokushisa okungahambisani nomntu onomdla. Kucacile ukuba ukuziphatha kwakhe kuhlwanyela kuwe ingqolowa yokungaqiniseki - kunokuba i-blondes ifoto ibe ngcono? Kubonakala sengathi uqale ukumthanda.
Gcoba! Ukugqithisa kunye nokunyuka ngokukhawuleza kwinqanaba labesetyhini abahlambulukanga akuyona ingozi kunommelwane wakho oneminyaka engama-70 ubudala. Kwaye ukuba indoda ingayithobeli intombazana enhle, ibangele ukusola. Sincoma ukuba ulandele umgaqo-nyaniso, kungekhona ukucinga: "Ukuba ufuna ukuphonsa into enzima kuye, xa ejonga ubuhle obulandelayo, thatha umoya othe wucinge kwaye uthi:" Kodwa usenako nam. " Ukhangele oko kwenzekayo?