Ujonge kwisibuko, ucinga ukuba ukuba unoyolo olupheleleyo udinga imilenze eyinyani, imoto iyaphazamiseka, uqeqesho lukhangeleka. Kwaye uqala ubaleko lonwabo. Wannabe - kungekhona ukuba, kodwa ukubonakala. Kutheni sifuna iimeko ezizitshintshayo?
Yintoni uWannabe? Le ngcamango yesiNgesi enegama elibi libonisa imeko apho, ngaphandle kokufaneleka, unamathela kwimodeli yokuziphatha engeyona eyakho. Ngokuhamba kwexesha, njengengxenye yeWannabe, kuba nzima, kwaye igobolondo ayikwazi ukusetyenzwa kwakhona. Awukhuli, "nje ufuna ukuba." Ufuna ukufana ne-Miss Universe, kodwa ngenxa yoko uba njengoBarbie. Emva kwakho konke, enhle, ucinga ukuba wonke umntu uyakuthanda.
Enyanisweni
Ewe, kufuneka uzinakekele, kukunika ithemba kwaye ugcine impilo yakho. Kodwa musa ukubeka ubuhle bakho bonke ithemba lakho kunye neminqweno. Abafana abasithandi nje kuphela ukubonakala. Ukwenza umsebenzi, amanye amehlo amahle akwanele, kwaye uthando lwabanye lunokuwunqoba ngothando, inceba kunye nokunyaniseka.
Kutheni ubuhle?
Ngenxa yokuba amanye amantombazana enesiqiniseko sokuthi, ngaphandle kwayo, ayiyi kuba neenzuzo. Kodwa ngaphandle kokukholelwa kuwe, akudingeki ukuba ubale kwi-external model: yonke into ephosakeleyo iyaphambukiswa yiinkomfa kunye nokuziphatha okungonelanga.
Ucinga
Uzuko luya kulungisa yonke into okwangoku ayihambisani nawe ebomini bakho. Kubonakala kuwe ukuba ukuba ukhanyisa nje amaxesha ambalwa kwikhrinkthi, uthando kunye nokudumisa kuyo yonke indawo kuya kuwe. Sekunjalo uyaqinisekiswa, ukuba iinkwenkwezi zingenakufikeleleka kwezilwanyana, ezinobomi bawo bonke buhamba kwimiphakathi ekhanyayo, ibhafu kunye nobisi.
Enyanisweni
Uzuko kuzuko lokungaboni. Abo bawufumene ukufumana imbeko ethile (italente, imisebenzi yezenhlalakahle, inkxaso kwizobugcisa kunye nenkcubeko), ngokwenene ujabulele "umphumo wecala" wokubonga kunye nokunqula. Kodwa nantsi into ephazamisayo: ayinamathele kubaluleke kakhulu kule nto, baqhubeka bedlala umdlalo. Kodwa abaninzi abalambileyo udumo banemva emva kokungahlawuli. Yiza kunoma iyiphi iforamu apho iinkwenkwezi zesigaba kunye nesigaba zixutyushwa ngayo. Kuvakalelwa kukuba abaxubusheli izithixo zikarhulumente, kodwa ngabagqwetha.
Kutheni amaSlavs?
Ngenxa yokuba ufuna ukuthetha into ethile emehlweni abantu. Xa uxhomekeke kwimbono yomnye umntu, ungazihloneli, uze uqale ukuphupha ngendlela elula, njengoko kubonakala kuwe, malunga ne-cinema kunye nomabonwakude. Kodwa le ndlela idinga ukuba isebenze ukufihla kwesibhozo, ukuzithemba kunye nokunyaniseka. Kwaye iindawo ezinzima kuluntu zikhula ekuqhubekeni kwejometri.
Wannabe Ifoto
Uyazi ngokucacileyo ukuba kuyo nayiphi na into, ukususela kwi-profession to kroti, kufuneka ube yindlela. Ube ngumhlaza, nangona intloko ihamba ngokusweleka kweeprotheni, ithathwa yizopolitiko (Ksyusha Sobchak ihlala ihlala njalo) kwaye ubeka esitolo imali enzulu yesikhwama esikhombisayo, ukwazi ukuba ngexesha elizayo akuyi kuba yinto. Nawo onke amaxesha, ukuvula ingqungquthela, ukugxeka abafaki-feshini ukuba baphindele emuva.
Le fashoni ngokwayo yenza ukhetho kuwe, kwaye ukwazi ukuhlala ngokuthula. Amaphephancwadi, imibukiso yeTV, iingcali zefashini sele zigqibile ukuba zithini na ukugqoka kunye nendlela yokujonga ngayo. Ucinga kwakhona ukuba akunakulinganiswa ukuba ube neentloni kuba kuphela into yokuba into eyona nto igugile okanye ayikho kuxhomekeke kulonwabo lwakho - abafana bakhetha ukudibana kunye nokubona kwiingubo.
Enyanisweni
Uhlobo lwezobugcisa luhlobo oluthile lobugcisa obonakalisa imbali yethu, emva kweMfazwe Yehlabathi yokuqala, iihappy ezibukeka njengezibhobho zempi zavela kwimoya, kodwa emva kweMfazwe yesiBini yeSizwe yaqala ukukhangela kangangoko kunokwenzeka, njengokungathi uzama ukulibala ngeentlekele ezadlula. Ngamnye wethu udala indlela yakhe ngokufanayo. Unokuba ngumkhwa, unokwenza ngokwakho, kodwa into eyakho, ehlukile kwimifanekiso oya kuyifumana.
Uphupha lokulawula lakho ishishini okanye kwisebe elithembisayo. Kwaye ukuze "i-maserati" ibonakale kwindawo yokupaka, kwaye unokuyalela i-foie gras kunye neevenkile, ngaphandle kokujonga ixabiso. Ngenxa yale nto awuyi kuphupha nje, kodwa usebenza kanzima malunga neeyure ezisibhozo-ezisibhozo emsebenzini, ngokufanayo ufunda ngezoqoqosho ezingathandekiyo, usebenza ekukhathaleni, kodwa uthembisa ukuba iminyaka engamashumi amane ezo zityalo-mali ziza kunika igalelo eziqinileyo.
Enyanisweni
Impumelelo kunye nokuzifeza izinto zimbini ezihlukeneyo ngokupheleleyo. Unokuba ngumphathi omkhulu wezomnotho, kwaye uphaphaze ngasese ngomsebenzi we-florist. Kukhona enye ingozi ekuphandeleni iinjongo ezibekwe ukulahlekelwa ubomi babo. Umzabalazo ongakaze uwenze ukuphumelela ngowokuhlehliswa kobomi ngomso. Enye into, ukuba wena ngokwakho ujabule kuyo, kwaye ungahambi phezu kweentloko zakho, uzama ukwenza umsebenzi.
Kutheni impumelelo?
Esikolweni esiprayimari, wawukhishwe ibhoksi, kumabakala aphezulu ukuvakalisa. Ngenxa yoko, kwavela ingcamango enengqiqo: "Ndiya kukhula, ndiza kufunda, ndiza kuba yintombi ephezulu, ndiza kwintlanganiso yabafundi abaphumeleleyo, nonke nonke niya khona." Enye ingxaki ivela: abantu, ukulungiswa ngamandla, ukukhula kwemali kunye nokukhula komsebenzi, banesaba kakhulu ukubuyela ebuntwaneni baze baphinde babe ngamaxhoba. Inhloko yeqela ayiyi kuzanyiswa ngepotifoliyo, umphathi ucinga ukuba yonke into iyilumyalezo olula. Ungalibali ukuba impumelelo kufuneka ibe yaneleyo, kwaye, ngokubalulekayo, khetha loo nto ukuthanda kwakho.
Wannabe
Ihlabathi lilawulwa ngabantu abanqwenelayo, kwaye sele niyibonile. Ukwabelana ngesondo akuyona indlela elula yokwandisa ukuzithemba, kodwa kunye nokukwazi ukuxhaphaza abantu. Amakhwenkwe ahamba ahlazileyo, amantombazana athukuthele ngomona, kwaye umfundisi ubeka ezine endaweni esikhundleni sesithathu, ngokubanzi nobubanzi bezandi zakho, ubude bekhwele lakho elincinci.
Ucinga
Ukuba isondo kunye namandla zihamba ngesandla. Amantombazana amancinci amancinci ayabakhathaza bonke abafana ngaphandle kokunye, bayathandwa. Ewe, ukuziphatha ngokwesini kubalulekile, kunjalo. Kodwa akukho mntu kuwo wonke ubulili. Omnye onjengamantombazana omzekelo, umntu uhlambalaza ngokuhleka njengoMonica Bellucci, abanye bawela kuphela kwiintombazana ezinentliziyo ezimfutshane - ezininzi iinketho. Nangona kunjalo, umnqweno wokukholisa unomnqweno wendalo, kodwa kutheni ufuna ukuthanda yonke into? Kutheni ufuna a baninzi abalandeli? Le ngxaki ibonisa ukuba uziva unomdla ongathandekiyo kwaye uqobo lwakho kuqala kwi-nenravishysya.
Kutheni i zesini?
Ngenxa yokuba kwizilwanyana, ubulili buchaphazela isimo kwipakethi. Asikho kude nezilwanyana. Yaye makumise imisila kwinkqubo yokuziphendukela kwemvelo, kodwa umyalezo "okhangayo, ulungelelanise kakuhle, uya kunika inzala enengqondo". Ngoko ubulili kukuvumela ukuba uphumelele kwaye ulawulwe.
Kodwa, ukuba intle yam intliziyo, ngaba kuyimfuneko kuwe? Kubantu abadala, inkululeko epheleleyo kunye nokuzimela. Akukho mntu ufuna ingxelo yokuziphatha kakubi nokuziphatha kakuhle, akukho mntu onyukayo egumbini ngaphandle kwesimemo, i-amorozhenoe inokudliwa ukususela ekuseni kuze kube semini kwaye akukho mntu uya kuthi umqala uyaba buhlungu. Ngokubanzi, akukho mntu ufundisa ubomi.
Ucinga
Abantu abadala banokwenza konke: baphile ngokukhululekile kwaye benze izigqibo zabo.
Enyanisweni
Ubudala bulinganiswa ngamava obomi, kungekhona ngokuhlala ngokwahlukileyo kubazali. Futhi ungakulibali ukuba phakathi kwabantu abadala kukho baninzi abahlala bengaguqukanga ubomi, njengomntwana. Kwaye umntu osemdala akabheki ukuba nomsindo.