Ukudandatheka komtshato emva kokutshata, njani ukuwuphepha?

Ngoko, kwenzelwe, wanikelwa, kwaye emva kwexeshana umtshato omkhulu wawulandela. Yaye yonke into yayiya kulunge: kunye nawe kukho indoda yamaphupha akho, kukho indlu yakho, kodwa into engalunganga, nangona kungekho zizathu zokulila.
Ukuba awuzange ube nomtshato ngoko uya kuba nako ukukhusela iimpazamo ezininzi, kunye nokuphepha ukudakumba komtshato. Ngokwezibalo zenkcukacha, kwinyanga yokuqala yobomi obudibeneyo abasandul 'ukutshata banokujamelana nokudumala okukhulu, kuxhomekeke kukungafani phakathi kokulindela kunye nobomi boqobo.

Umtshato, ngokungangabazeki, enye yezona zinto zibaluleke kakhulu ebomini babo bonke abantu, kwaye le mcimbi ngamanye amaxesha alungiselelwe kungekupheleni kwenyanga enye, kodwa kwimikhosi emangalisayo kakhulu ikulungele iinyanga ezintandathu kunye nonyaka. Ngamanye amaxesha kuvela ukuba umtshato uba yinjongo ebalulekileyo ebomini, ephumelele kwaye yaqonda ukuba, umntu uvakalelwa ukubhujiswa, kuba ngoko akayi kubona injongo enomdla phambi kwakhe.

Umtshato uhlala kwiintsuku ezingama-1-2, ukuze emva kokuba lo mbhiyozo uphawule umtshato ungasifiki, into ebaluleke kakhulu kukucinga ngezi zinto zokuphila ezilandelayo uze ungabikho kwixesha leeholide. Ngoxa ulungiselela umtshato, ungalibali ngokuphila kwakho okuqhelekileyo, qhagamshelana nabahlobo bakho, yenza izinto zakho.

Emva komtshato, kukulungele ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza kwi-honeymoon, njengoko bethetha kwiholide ukuya kwibhola. Ngethuba lobusuku, ukuphumla nokuza neenjongo ezintsha zobomi. Ewe, unokwazi ukubukela iividiyo kunye neefoto kwimitshato yomtshato, kodwa akufanele uzinikele ixesha elide ukuze uxoke, ungalandeli emva kwexesha elidlulileyo, kufuneka ugxininise kwixesha elizayo kunye nokucwangciswa kwalo.

Ukwenza uzuko ebuhlotsheni onokuya kwi-hairdresser kwaye utshintshe utshintsho lweenwele zakho, ngaleyo ndlela uza kwenza intsha.

Ngokuqhelekileyo, abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba emva komtshato, ubomi obudibeneyo kuphela buqinisa uthando, ngakwesinye icala kunjalo, kodwa omnye kufuneka alungiselele ukuba umyeni onobomi boqobo akayi kuba yinto efanelekileyo ngethuba leentlanganiso, ingakumbi ukuba ungekho amava. Kubalulekile ukuba ukwazi ukufumana ukunyaniseka.

Emva komgubho womtshato, khokela indlela yobomi obunakho ngaphambili. Ukuba ubesidla, qhubeka ulandela, ungene kwimidlalo - nangcono. Indoda ithanda ukutya okunamafutha kunye ne-high-calorie? Oku akuthethi ukuba kufuneka udle ngendlela efanayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, yenza konke okwenziwe ngaphambi komtshato, ungazitshitshisi kwaye ungabi ngumfazi oqhelekileyo wendlu (ungakulibali ukuzenza ngaphambi kokuba umyeni avele emsebenzini). Yenza umangaliso kumyeni wakho, umphangi, kodwa ngokumodareyitha.

Abasetyhini baninzi ngakumbi ngomtshato, kubafazi abaninzi besuka ebuntwaneni, injongo ebalulekileyo ebomini iingubo ezimhlophe kunye neenkosana kwihashe elimhlophe, ngoko akumangalisi ukuba abafazi abatshitshisiweyo emva komtshato abonwabanga. Emva komtshato, musa ukumnqabela umyeni wakhe ukuba axubushe nabahlobo, kwaye ungayikhohlwa ngabahlobo bakho.

Emva komtshato, ixesha elitsha liqala ebomini bomntu ngamnye, apho umzimba ufuna ixesha lokulungisa. Ubomi obudibeneyo abuyinto elula kwaye eqaqambileyo, njengoko kubonakala ngathi ekuqalekeni. Ubomi bentsapho ngumgangatho omtsha ebomini bomntu kwaye kuthatha ixesha ukuyivumelanisa nayo, ngoko ke ukuba awuyi kuphelelwa yithemba emva komtshato, le ntsholongwane iya kudlula.

Njengoko uyakubona, ukudandatheka komtshato emva kokutshatyalaliswa komtshato akuyona nto inzima, into ebaluleke kakhulu kukukwazi ukukhusela, okanye ukunciphisa imiphumo yayo.