5 iintlobo zengqondo zengomama: fumana ukuba umntwana wakho uya kukhula njani

Ngubani: i-Idealist

Oko kukuthi: uhlala uzama ukugqwesa okungafaniyo nokulawula ngokweqile kwendlu yakho. Umfanekiso, uluvo lwabanye kunye nodumo lwentsapho lubalulekile kuye, nangona angakuphika. Ngaphantsi kwenkanuko yangaphandle ifihla ukukhathazeka, ukukhankanya, ukukhathazeka ngokweqile, amava amaninzi.

Abantwana bayo: abazizimeleyo, abanomdla wokunyusa, banomthwalo (nokuba baninzi), abanenjongo, bazama ukufezekisa ukunyamekela kwabo kunye nokusebenza, baxhomekeke kwimpembelelo yabasemagunyeni.

Ngubani: Mhlobo

Oko kukuthi: landela umgaqo wobambiswano, ngokungazi kakuhle ukunyusa umthwalo kumntwana. Ndikulungele ukuba ngumnxibelelwano kunye nomntu ofanayo, kodwa andikulungele ukukhusela nokukhusela. Uncedo nenkxaso. Abantwana bayo: ukuqala ukukhula, bafunde ukuqonda kwaye bathathe uxanduva ngokupheleleyo ngamazwi nangezenzo zabo. Nangona kunjalo, banokuvakalelwa njengezintandane, abangenakufudumele.

Ngubani: ozimeleyo

Into ayenayo: unemfuno ephakamileyo yeemvakalelo, egxile kuye, uhlala eyazi indlela engcono ngayo. Ngaba akayiboni umntwana njengomntu ohlukeneyo, umnike inxaxheba yakhe yokuqhubekeka. Abantwana bakhe: ukuphendula, ukunyaniseka nokuqhubekayo, ngokusemandleni ukuqonda nokuxhasa. Ngelo xesha bahlala bengakhuselekanga kwaye bathambekele ekutshintsheni izigqibo zabo.

Ngubani: Umdlali

Yintoni okuyiyo: engachukumanga, engaqinisekiyo, enokutyekela kwiimpawu zengxowankulu kunye nezitshintsho zemizwelo. Ukuziphatha kunye nokuphendula kwakhe akunakulinganiswa, ngokuphindaphindiweyo iVzvincha. Abantwana bayo: bazive kakuhle kwaye banako ukulawula abantu, baxhomekeke kuvelwano kwaye "bafunde" iinjongo zabanye. Ngokuqhelekileyo kukho ukuxhalaba, ukucaphukisa, ukuzingca.

Ngubani: efanelekileyo

Oko kukuthi: uhlobo olunqabileyo lomfazi - luzisa ukuzimela kumntwana, unike inkxaso, uthando kunye nokunyamekela. Abantwana bayo: ukuphuhliswa ngokuvisanayo, ukuzithemba, ukuzola kunye nokwaneliseka.