Iingcali zengqondo ziye zafunda ezininzi izibini ezonwabileyo, yaye zothusa ukubona ukuba iziza zabo zokuthandana ziyingozi kakhulu. Apha, njengoko kungekho ndawo inomgaqo othi "apho ndazalelwa khona, apho kwaye kwafika ngokufanelekileyo". Uninzi lwabantu lufumanisa iinjongo zabo kwindawo yokuhlala, phakathi kwabahlobo, oogxa okanye kwindawo yokutyela. Imbali, xa indoda nomfazi ozayo behamba ngendlela efanayo esikolweni, kodwa kwiintshukumo ezahlukahlukeneyo, kwaye abazange bawele, azinqabile njengoko kubonakala ngathi.
Ngoko, makhe sizame ukudibanisa zonke iinkqubo kunye nokuxhamla kwiindawo ezithandwayo zokuthandana.
Abamelwane
Ukuhamba ngeenxa zonke kwindlu, unokuhlangabezana nesiphelo sakho. Ufuna nje ukuba ube neentlonelo kubantu abahlala kuzo. Izinkumbulo eziqhelekileyo, amabali aqhelekileyo, amabali ezithili, iziganeko ezibalulekileyo - oku kukuqala ukuba ube ngabantu beqela elinye. Oku kunokuba luncedo kulwalamano, kuba ixesha lokuzilungelelanisa kwimeko yentlalo yoluntu lucacisiwe. Ngokuqhelekileyo isibini esiphila kwindawo yokuhlala siyazi yonke into. Musa ukuchitha ixesha ukuzama ukukholisa abahlobo bakhe okanye ababaziyo. Ukwakha intsapho, esi si siseko esilungileyo, ngokucacileyo ke, imitshato emkhatsini wabamelwane abakhe bahlala rhoqo.
Iinkampani zabahlobo
Ngenkampani yabahlobo unokukwazi ukuqhelana nomntu onentsapho eqinile onokuyenza. Abanye abantu bakhetha ngokukhethekileyo indlela yokufumana iqabane, kwaye bayazi le ngongoma. Ngoko uluntu luququzelelwe, ngokuqhelekileyo abantu banobungane okanye umgaqo wokufana, okanye umgaqo wokudibanisa. Kwaye abahlobo bamhlobo, njengomthetho, bahle kakhulu kunabantu abangaziwa. Ungakwazi ukuxhoma kunye nabahlobo bakho kwaye uqaphele abazalwana babo, odade, izalamane kwiholide, njalo njalo. Okanye unokuzibuza ukuba zikufumene iibini.
Ngokomzekelo, umbonisi odumile waseMelika uKim Kardashian yindlela ephela yokufumana bonke abafana bakhe. Isiphumo: xa eneminyaka engama-29 engazange abe ngaphandle komntu kwiinyanga ezingaphezu kweenyanga ezintathu. Kwaye abahlobo bamthatha ngokuchanekileyo loo madoda awamfaneleyo kokubili kwimvelo nangendlela yokuphila. Bhengeza izihlobo zakho iimfuneko zakho, imigaqo yokucinga, cela ukuba bacinge ukuba ngaba bantu abayidingayo. Ngaphandle kokungaqhelekanga, uya kufumana umnqweno onyanisekileyo wokuncedisa, kwaye uncedo olunokunjalo lunokukuvuyisa.
Umsebenzi
Iiveli zesevisi azivunyelwe kunoma yiphina inkampani. Nangona kunjalo, iifomete egameni labo zikhuthaza kakhulu: ipesenteji enkulu yemitshato enzulu kunye neleyo iphakathi koogxa. Iiyure ezisibhozo eofisini iintsuku ezintlanu ngeveki zidibene kunye ngamanye amaxesha angcono kunokutyelela okufutshane kwivenkile yokutyela. Ngoko ukuba ucinga umntu ukuba ube nolwalamano olunzulu, musa ukugxotha umsebenzi njengomthombo wolonwabo olusasa. Musa ukudlala ngomlilo, ungahambi kwimibutho emithathu - kunye nabatshatileyo okanye abangabodwa. Yaye uya kuphumelela!
Zokutya, iiklabhu
Iinkampani zabahlobo, abamelwane kunye nabalingane akuzona ziindawo kuphela onokuzidibana kunye nolwalamano olunzulu nomntu. Iindawo zokutya kunye nee-nightclub, nazo, akufanele zilahlwe, kodwa ke, ngokuchasene nenkolelo eyaziwayo, ezi zikude kwiindawo eziphambili kakhulu zokufumana ikusasa lalahlwayo. Mhlawumbi oku kubangelwa kukuba abantu banomdla kubantu abathandi bokuzonwabisa ebusuku. Mhlawumbi isizathu sokuba iinkampani ziya kwiiklabhu, kwaye ziqabile ukuba zikhangele ngeenxa zonke, kodwa ebusuku iiklabhu kunye neendawo zokutyela njengendawo yokuthandana nabantu abaza kutshatyalaliswa ngabantu abaselula. Kodwa ke banokugqithisa kumathuba okufumana umntu ngomtshato omude njengendawo eyaziwayo njengeendawo zokungcebeleka.
Iindawo zokuhlala kunye neelwandle
Iintsapho eziphumelelayo nazo zingadalwa apha. Kuphela ithemba ngenxa yoko, emva kokukhangela i-novel yolwazi, akuyimfuneko. Kwiimeko ezininzi, ubudlelwane obude nekhaya, banjelwe eholide, bephela kunye nabanye. Kanti, ukugxotha le ndlela yokuthandana akufanelekile. Bonisa nje ukunyamekela. Fumana indlela yokufumanisa ukuba iqabane lakho litshatile. Ukuba unomnqweno wokwenzela umntu ubuhlobo obude kwi-resort, qaphela ukuba yiyiphi isixeko esivela kuyo. Ngomntu woluntu olwalamano olusondeleyo ukuba aqhubekele - kwimeko yenceba enkulu kunye nempembelelo efanayo-kulula kakhulu. Kuye kwenzeka ukuba okuqhubekayo ukusuka kwindlu kunye nakwiindawo ezizalwayo esiya kuzo kusesha, ithuba elincinane lokufumana ulwalamano olunzulu.
Ukuthandana
Kungekudala, amanxibelelwano ezentlalo kunye neendawo zokuthandana ziye zaba yimithombo emininzi yomtshato kunye neqhawulo. Abanye bafuna ukudibana apho ngobusuku obunye, abanye bephupha ukufumana "umlingane womphefumlo". Akufanele uzuze kwimpembelelo yezigulane kwaye ucinge ukuba kwi-intanethi awukwazi ukufumana uthando lwakho. Oku kunokwenzeka, umele uqwalasele ukuba kuphela i-2% yenkcazelo kwiimviwo zenziwe ngokunyanisekileyo. I-Intanethi yindawo ephumelele kakhulu yokuzibonakalisa njengokuba ndim, kodwa njengoko ndifuna ukuba. Abantu baphindaphindela isidima sabo, bahlale bebhalile ngokunyanisekileyo malunga neephene.
Ukukhangela ngempumelelo indoda ngobudlelwane obukhulu kwi-intanethi, qwalasela imigaqo ebalulekileyo. Okokuqala, zama ukuzithoba kumkhwa wamazwi akhe de uze umbone. Okwesibini, khumbula konke okubhaliweyo ngasentla: ukusondela kwakho kumntu wendawo, amathuba amaninzi olwalamano oluphumelelayo. Ukuhambela uthando kumzi osondeleyo okanye kwelinye icala lomhlaba kukuthandana, kodwa ukugcina umgama ngumsebenzi omkhulu, kungekhona wonke umntu olungele ukuya kuwo. Okwesithathu, khangela ithuba lokuba uqonde ngokukhawuleza iinjongo zomntu. I-Intanethi ibanika indawo enkulu yokufezekisa umnqweno wobudlelwane bemihla ngemihla. Kule meko, amadoda awayivumi rhoqo loo mnqweno. Qaphela, ungazithembi ngamagama angaboniyo, de uze ubone umntu ngokwakhe, kwaye nawe unokulindela impumelelo enkulu.