Iingcebiso: njani ukufumana indoda?

Ukufumana umyeni wexesha elizayo akuyona into elula. Into ephambili, yintoni na ukuyijonga kuphi na? Isicwangciso sokhetho lomntu, oza kuba nawe ubomi bakhe bonke, ulwahlulo lwahlukeneyo. Ukuba ulandele ngokuchanekileyo ukulandelelana, yiba nengqiqo, unokufumana umntu oyinyani kunye nendoda ezayo.

Iimpawu

Abaninzi balahlekelwa eli nqanaba. Kwaye akunanto. Kumele uzigqibelele iimpawu ezibaluleke kakhulu kuwe kwindoda ezayo. Dweba i-portrait yakhe yegama, ubhale kwaye ubhale phantsi into ongayithandiyo, kwaye ziziphi iimpawu ezifunekayo. Vala amehlo akho uze ucinge ukuba unjani. Unako ukuphupha malunga nantoni na, malunga nedatha yangaphandle, ubugcisa bakhe, izinto zokuzilibazisa, ingeniso yenyanga kunye njalo njalo. Bhala konke oku kwiphepha lephepha uze ulibeke endaweni evelele. Makube kukukhuthaza. Nangona kunjalo, kuyafaneleka ukuba sicinge ukuba yonke into oyibhalisile ingahlanganiswa kumntu oyedwa. Khumbula ukuba le ngcamango yinto ephathekayo, kwaye yintoni esi sihogo asiyikuhleka, ungadibana nenkosana yangempela kwihashe elimhlophe!

U mtsalane.

Ukuze uhlale uthandana nendoda, kufuneka usebenze kanzima. Yiba ngakumbi ebhenkce ngaphandle kokungaphandle nangaphakathi. Yenza imidlalo, ufunde iincwadi, ubukele iifilimu, uthande umdla kwinto ethile. Konke oku kuya kukunceda ube ngumnxibelelwano omnandi kunye onomdla kumadoda. Emva koko, intsapho ibaluleke kakhulu kungekhona nje uthando, kodwa ubuhlobo, ithuba lokuthetha naliphi na isihloko. Zama ukusondela kwindawo efanelekileyo. Zihlolisise uze ucinge ukuba unokunyusa amadoda kuwe? Mhlawumbi yimiba yeepounds? Emva koko, ukugibela egumbini lokufaneleka! Mhlawumbi kungenxa yokuba ikhabethe lakho lifana nogogo kunomntu omncinane nomhle? Emva koko, ngokukhawuleza kwivenkile izinto ezintsha! Mhlawumbi unamahloni ebhedini? Funda ulwazi oluthe xaxa malunga nendlela yokutshatshaza, indlela yokukholisa umntu olele embhedeni, ubukele i-porno kwaye ulwe nama-complexes! Thetha bakho nabahlobo bakho, mhlawumbi banokukuxelela oko kufuneka ulungiselele kuwe, kwaye yintoni, ngokuchaseneyo, ukugqamisa nokugxininisa.

UkuQaphela.

Phinda ufunde kwakhona uphawu olubhalileyo ngomyeni wakho wesikhathi esizayo. Kwaye khawucinge, umntu angaphila ixesha, ngubani othanda izinto ezinjalo kunye nokusebenza apho na? Ukuba unqume ukuba ngumfazi weebhanki yebhanki, kufuneka uhambe ngesidlo sasemini kwi-cafe esondeleyo ukudibana nomntu wamaphupha akho , okanye, ungazama ukusebenza kwibhankini. Ngaba unqwenele ukutshata nomlobi? Yiya kwiivenkile ezizodwa ekuthengiseni yonke into oyifunayo yokuloba, kwaye ujonge ngokukhawuleza kwiindwendwe, mhlawumbi phakathi kwabo ngumyeni wakho wesikhathi esizayo? Ukuba uphupha ngokutshata nomntu okhululekileyo, qalisa ukuhamba ekuseni okanye kusihlwa epakini elisondeleyo, uthenge ukubhalisa kwiziko lempilo, ngelizwi, yenza!

Ukuba kunzima ukuba ufike kwindawo yokuhlangana, kwaye ukhethiweyo wakho akanalo ikhefu elikhethekileyo, ngoko ndibonisa ukuba ezinye zindawo zokuphumelela zokuthandana.

Umsebenzi. Mhlawumbi ufanele ujonge ngakumbi iqela apho usebenza khona, mhlawumbi umntu ovela kwisebe elingummelwane uye wahlala ekhangelele ukujonga amehlo? Ukuba kwenzeke ukuba iqela liba ngowesifazana okanye bonke abatshatileyo, bathabathe ngokukhawuleza kwiinkampani ezakhelene nazo eziqeshisa iofisi yakho kwisakhiwo.

Iqela. Yiba rhoqo kwiiholide, imitshato kunye nemini yokuzalwa. Ithuba lokubukeka likhulu, ukuba "kwi-parade", kunye ne-alcohol encinci eya kukukhulula, kwaye ngoku, umhlobo wakho umhlobo usenokumema ukuba udansa.

Uhambo. Ixesha lokuphumla kunye neholide linomphumo onenzuzo kwindlela yokubonakala kunye nomoya. Ukuqhelana nendoda ngexesha lokuhamba okanye ukunyuka kuya kuba nzima. Yiba nzima!

Ama-nightclub, imivalo kunye neengxoxo zokuhlala kwindawo enhle yokwazisa kunzima ukubonisa ukuba, ngenxa yokuba, baninzi bafuna ubulili ngobunye ubusuku, ubudlelwane ngaphandle kwemithwalo. Kodwa, yintoni isihogo asiyikuhleka.

Umnqweno wokutshata uhamba kuzo zonke izinto zesini. Ukuba sisondele kunene, onokuzithemba, onenkathalo, onenkalipho, onothando nesithandayo, ulonwabo lokwenene, olufanele ukulwa.