Ingcamango yokuba "intsapho" inene kakhulu. Kwaye kubonakala kungenangqiqo kwaye kungavumelekanga kwabanye, kwabanye - imimiselo epheleleyo. Zininzi iintlobo kunye neentlobo zeentsapho kwihlabathi, kodwa iintlobo eziphambili zobudlelwane bosapho bomtshato zichazwe ngezantsi.
Umtshato wendabuko (i-civil or ecclesiastical)
Le ndlela yomtshato ininzi yazo zonke ikhusela amalungelo kunye nenkululeko yabantwana, kodwa iqulethe inani elikhulu leenqatshelwe kubo bobabini. Umtshato weSonto okanye umtshato uyisiganeko esikhethekileyo samaKristu, apho abafazi bafumana ubabalo lukaThixo ngenxa yolonwabo lwentsapho, kunye nokuzalwa okusikelelekileyo nokukhuliswa kwabantwana. Kuze kube sekuqaleni kwekhulu lama-20, umtshato wecawa yimihlobo kuphela ebenemiphumo yomthetho. Umtshato uvame ukulandelwa ngokubandakanyeka-isimemezelo sikawonke-wonke ngabanye malunga nesigqibo sokutshata.
Umtshato ongabhalwanga okanye ukuhlalisana
Umtshato onjalo (ngokuyimpazamo siwubiza ngokuthi "uluntu") uhlukile kumhlobo obulula ngokulawulwa ngokubambisana koqoqosho. Ngaphantsi komthetho omtsha, kubandakanya umthwalo ofanayo nomtshato obhalisiweyo. Nangona ukusuka kwindawo yokujonga ilungelo lokuba nobuhlobo obunjalo kunengqiqo ukusebenzisa igama elithi "cohabitation". Ubudlelwane obungabhalwanga ngabomntu baqala ukubizwa ngokuba ngowokuqala ngekhulu le-19 kwiRashiya yaseRashiya, kuba yodwa uhlobo lomtshato oluqatshelwa ngokusemthethweni, ngoko ke, ngumtshato webandla. Abantu abahlala ngaphandle komtshato ebandleni babekhetha ukubiza ubudlelwane babo nomtshato womtshato.
Intsapho elinganiselwe ixesha
Abanye bakhetha ukutshata ixesha, umzekelo, iminyaka emithathu. Umtshato emva kwesi sihlandlo siqwalaselwa ngokuzenzekelayo. Emva koko, abatshatileyo babesilinganisela iziphumo baze bathathe isigqibo sokuba ngaba bahlule okanye baqhubeke, okanye baqhubeke kunye. Abalandeli beli fomu lomtshato baqhubeka bevela ekubeni abantu bathambekele ekutshintsheni, ukuba uthando olungunaphakade alukho, ukuba ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo kuya kutshatyalaliswa kungekudala okanye kamva, kwaye abatshatileyo kwiminyaka embalwa sele bengenakuthandana. Ngaba kuyafaneleka ukuba uzityhafeze kwaye uthuthukise iqabane lakho xa ubomi bujika buya kuba ngukuhlushwa? Ngokuqhelekileyo abantu abanjalo, ngokukhawuleza xa ixesha lomtshato liphela, silungele kwaye luvulele iintlanganiso rhoqo, ubudlelwane bezesondo kunye nothando olutsha. Abantu abangena kumtshato onjalo, njengomthetho, abakucingi malunga nokwandiswa kwentsapho, okanye malunga nepropati, bafumana kunye.
Umtshato wonyaka unesimo esingavumelekanga. Ikhethwe ngabantu bendawo ethile yokugcina indawo, ukulawula utshintsho oluncinane kwimpilo yabo, okanye abantu abanokuziphatha okubi kakhulu kwezocansi. Ngokuhamba kwexesha, imitshato yonyaka iba yindabuko, okanye iyahlukana.
Ukuqhawula umtshato
Yilapho abafazi behlala ndawonye, kodwa vumela ithuba ngamanye amaxesha ukuba lihambe ixesha elithile. Izizathu zingahluka: ukukhathala komnye nomnye okanye isidingo sokubhalwa kwenkcazo. Kwintsapho enjalo, ukuhamba akuyona inhlekelele, kodwa isiqhelo. Kunzima kakhulu ukuthabatha uhambo, oludibaniswa nothando lokuzonwabisa. Ngamanye amaxesha kukhokelela ekugqibeleni ubuhlobo bomtshato. Abaxhasi bomtshato ophazanyiswayo bayayiqonda inkululeko yabo kwaye badinga indawo kunye nexesha "ngokwabo."
Intlanganiso yeentsapho
Amaqabane abhaliswa ngokusemthethweni, kodwa ahlala ngokwahlukileyo omnye komnye, ngamnye ekhaya. Kukho amaxesha amaninzi ngeveki. Xa abantwana bevela, bavuswa, njengomthetho, ngumama. Utata maxa wambi usebenzisana nabantwana ngokuthanda okanye xa kukho ixesha. Olu hlobo lomtshato lubonakala luyaziwa kakhulu kumazwe athuthukile. Nangona kungaqhelekanga kwifom yethu, yinto ebizwa ngokuthi "indwendwe" imitshato ngokulandelelana kwamanani, elide kakhulu. Abaqhelanga ukuba baqhawule umtshato.
Intsapho yamaSilamsi
Imveli kuzo zonke iinkalo intsapho apho kuphela indoda inelungelo lokuba nabafazi abaningana. Ukutshintsha ibhinqa kufana nokuzibulala. Nangona ehlabathini lanamhlanje alisoloko likhohliswa ngenxa yokubetha kuluntu kwisikwere. Kodwa umtshato uya kuba nokungenakwenzeka. Abantwana bahlala behlala noyise.
Intsapho yaseSweden
Intsapho eqhelekileyo, apho kukho amadoda namabhinqa amaninzi kwangoko. Kuphosakeleyo ukucinga ukuba ubuhlobo babo busekelwe kuphela kwisini. Yinto enjengomncinci omncinci, obanjwe ngumhlobo kunye nokuziphatha koqoqosho olufanayo.
Ovulekileyo intsapho
Uhlobo lomtshato apho abatshatileyo bayavuma kwindlela ethile yokuzonwabisa kunye nokudibanisa kweqabane elingaphandle kwentsapho.